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Absolutely rinsed in this budget - almost £1k a year worse off.

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Mushroo · 26/11/2025 13:43

Honestly in despair at this government. On a very high level calc, we are so much worse off!

We both pay a lot into pensions, so the NI change is about £700 a year worse off.

We have an EV car, so based on our 4k a year mileage, it’s about £120 a year. (Although how it will be enforced I have no idea).

Stagnating tax thresholds, probably about £100 a year between us.

Council tax F house (4 bed end terrace, not a mansion, needs renovating). So risk of revaluation after having paid a fortune in stamp duty. We didn’t get first time buyer stamp duty relief because we bought about 2 years too early, and we moved before Covid so no relief there either. So overall we’ve paid about £30k in stamp duty already over our lifetime.

Weve already had the private school hit (which is a separate debate and we’ve accepted that) but wow, we are just being kicked on all sides.

We are classic ‘middle earners’ - earn about £70k each, but have mahoosive mortgage and pay over £2k a month in nursery fees already.

Every measure just seems to have a negative effect on our lifestyle, which is ‘comfortable’ but increasingly squeezed.

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TillyTrifle · 26/11/2025 14:32

Crambino · 26/11/2025 14:25

Your choice to take on a ‘mahoosive mortgage’ and pay school fees, these are privileges not entitlements 🤷‍♀️
Not much sympathy here, sorry 🎻

In some area a massive mortgage is the only way to own a home. And the Op has already said that they don’t yet pay school fees and may well not go down that route now VAT has been added.

You sound super jealous that some people have a nice lifestyle.

I hate the attitude so many people in this country have now - beat everyone down, shame people who have achieved anything and race to the bottom. No wonder ambitious professional people are leaving in their droves, it’s poisonous.

Mildura · 26/11/2025 14:32

lifeonthelane · 26/11/2025 14:29

I was just about to say this. I appreciate your frustrations - but you are definitely both higher earners.

Which is interesting, as when you look at the list of the OPs outgoings, it's not an especially extravagant lifestyle.

Wage stagnation in this country is a problem, as 2 "higher earners" should definitely have a bit more headroom in the budget each month.

Bellsbeachwaves · 26/11/2025 14:32

£2500 mortgage payments 😱

Flavourful81 · 26/11/2025 14:33

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CheeseIsMyIdol · 26/11/2025 14:34

sprigatito · 26/11/2025 13:55

Taxation isn’t “hate”, fgs. It’s society.

When does the other half of society start making better choices and paying their share?

Hellohelga · 26/11/2025 14:34

Mushroo · 26/11/2025 14:07

Our take home is c.£7k
Nursery fees £2k
Mortgage £2.5k
Commute x 2 £500
Food / petrol / misc £600
Council tax, bills £500
clothes, activities for family of 4 per month: £200

Leaves £700pcm for ALL savings, so holidays, Xmas, birthdays, emergency fund.

Like I say, we’re comfortable, but we absolutely watch every single penny and £84 a month is a lot to us! And not the lifestyle I would imagine if you told me what we earn. It’s just hard working full time, in a high pressure job, not seeing the kids.

Genuinely thinking of leaving the SW, buying a cheap house, and taking a part time job as I’d be less stressed, see the kids more and be about the same per month!

OP you are seriously loaded. Grow up and stop insulting 90% of the population.

TillyTrifle · 26/11/2025 14:34

People who aren’t poor are allowed to be pissed off by this budget and to have a grumble about it.

nutbrownhare15 · 26/11/2025 14:34

The EV charge doesn't come in until 2028. Presumably your nursery costs will be less by then? Those on £140k who can afford private education and a huge mortgage can afford tax rises more easily than those on the lowest incomes. Our income is less but we are still comfortable and I'm happy to pay extra in taxes if it means those on lower income who are less able to afford it pay less. I would of course like taxes to those on higher incomes to increase at a higher rate too.

OneBookTooMany · 26/11/2025 14:34

If someone shovels shit by night-40 hours a week- for £40,000 a year, why should they have to pay more to subsidise those who don't want to shovel shit or only want to shovel shit for 16 hours a week?

If the 16 hour a week shit shirker then wants to have 3 children, that is entirely her choice but she cannot expect to put her hand into pocket of the person who has chosen to shovel shit for 40 hours a week.

The "children shouldn't be in poverty" is a golden slogan, meant to make the 40 hour a week shit shoveller feel bad about the fact that her children are fine while the shit shirker's children are in poverty.

The answer is-Do Not Put Your Own Children In Poverty. If you were in poverty when you had one, do not have any more...or do, if you fancy it, but don't expect the shit shovellers of the nation to keep you and yours.

Down to you and over to you. No-one feels guilty for your choice and nor should they be made to feel so.

Those 40 hour shit shovellers who have had their heartstrings manipulated can elect to pay more tax.

Anyway, no doubt it will be trebles all round at the Shit Shirkers Arms tonight as they revel in their pay increase.

EsmeArcher · 26/11/2025 14:35

AnneShirleyBlythe · 26/11/2025 14:17

Bit unfair! Her DH is earning that money just as he would be if he was in the private sector.

How is the public sector funded?
Unless I’m gravely mistaken it is funded by taxation and borrowing by the government, with repayments funded from taxation receipts.

Christmascarrotjumper · 26/11/2025 14:35

Hellohelga · 26/11/2025 14:34

OP you are seriously loaded. Grow up and stop insulting 90% of the population.

The 90% can and do moan all the time. The 10% are allowed opinions too.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/11/2025 14:35

I can’t see any budget calculators yet. How is everyone working out how much extra this budget is going to cost then?

Slothisavirtue · 26/11/2025 14:36

EsmeArcher · 26/11/2025 14:35

How is the public sector funded?
Unless I’m gravely mistaken it is funded by taxation and borrowing by the government, with repayments funded from taxation receipts.

Not entirely, I work in the public sector but cover my salary many times over with the income I bring in

usedtobeaylis · 26/11/2025 14:36

You're taxed basically on your privilege and luxury. Which is as it should be.

CorneliaCupp · 26/11/2025 14:36

EasternStandard · 26/11/2025 14:00

Labour will be pleased. They should do a targeted tax for a few thousand a year to SM posters who say this.

Why?

Mildura · 26/11/2025 14:36

Hellohelga · 26/11/2025 14:34

OP you are seriously loaded. Grow up and stop insulting 90% of the population.

Perfectly comfortable yes, but "seriously loaded?"

Really?!

BringBackCatsEyes · 26/11/2025 14:36

Mildura · 26/11/2025 14:32

Which is interesting, as when you look at the list of the OPs outgoings, it's not an especially extravagant lifestyle.

Wage stagnation in this country is a problem, as 2 "higher earners" should definitely have a bit more headroom in the budget each month.

The £2500 mortgage is pretty high.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 26/11/2025 14:37

usedtobeaylis · 26/11/2025 14:36

You're taxed basically on your privilege and luxury. Which is as it should be.

What does that even mean? You understand this isn’t a communist country yet don’t you?

ruffler45 · 26/11/2025 14:37

I guess that Tesla et all will have programmed something into the car's computer that will send annual mileage to the government/taxman at the click of a button.

80smonster · 26/11/2025 14:38

Mushroo · 26/11/2025 14:30

This! Our house is nowhere near £2m, but there was a lot of talk of doubling council tax for top bands, which would be an extra £3k a year, and is a real worry. But it’s an unknown so I’ve not factored that into any calcs yet.

But it’s an additional stress.

Yeah, but the budget was today, so speculation has ended. If you’re earning 70k each you are nowhere near being spanked the way 100k+ earners are. I’d count myself lucky in your shoes tbh… I’m not a Labour supporter BTW.

ilovesooty · 26/11/2025 14:38

randomchap · 26/11/2025 14:10

Is this satire? I've not read such a big pile of bullshit in a long time

If it's not, then you should be embarrassed by spouting such rubbish

Agree. Absolute rubbish.

BringBackCatsEyes · 26/11/2025 14:38

TillyTrifle · 26/11/2025 14:32

In some area a massive mortgage is the only way to own a home. And the Op has already said that they don’t yet pay school fees and may well not go down that route now VAT has been added.

You sound super jealous that some people have a nice lifestyle.

I hate the attitude so many people in this country have now - beat everyone down, shame people who have achieved anything and race to the bottom. No wonder ambitious professional people are leaving in their droves, it’s poisonous.

I would strongly encourage OP NOT to pay for private schools for 2 children. If they are watching every penny already, it's not going to get cheaper.

GentleOlive · 26/11/2025 14:39

Swissmeringue · 26/11/2025 14:21

We're absolutely screwed by this budget. Fortunately the pension changes don't come in until 2029 so it gives us time to move abroad which is 100% what we'll be doing.

Good on you. The more high earning people leave, the quicker those in receipt of free money will earn a lesson.

Slothisavirtue · 26/11/2025 14:39

Bellsbeachwaves · 26/11/2025 14:31

I don't think the maths is mathing here. There is a limit on earnings for UC. Your take home must be upwards of £3500 - someone working 16 hours getting UC takes home much less than that

Their income was £3500 (including benefits) which is the same as my net income on £60k. I saw it with my own eyes.
Their housing costs are lower than mine (private rented for me, social social rent for her)

Susiy · 26/11/2025 14:39

You're still doing better than 80%+ of people in the country and so much better than those at the bottom of the pile. Count yourself lucky - you don't know what the future holds.

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