Sorry to use the word bitchy, I just actually couldn’t think of another word.
I was friends with three women, I was invited into the group by one of them. Years passed and I did things with them individually and as a group. I honestly thought I was friends with the other two.
Main friend decided she didn’t want to be my friend anymore (never said anything to me). I later asked one of the other two if she wanted to meet for dinner (she lives 3 hours away I was in her city for work) and she made an excuse.
They all went out and posted lots of photos together. I just didn’t react. I felt it was a shame that none could say if there was a problem, or if I’d done something to upset them, as I’d at least like to apologise but I accepted you don’t always get an explanation. in life.
I’ve moved on, it’s been a few months, I’m living my life, I have other friends around me. I then noticed a missed call from one of other two. I just text saying “sorry I’ve just seen this” - she quickly said “my phones been a nightmare and keeps randomly calling people”
I just don’t believe it … Aibu? Am I reading too much into this? I don’t think they care about losing my friendship from how they’ve acted but … I think sometimes not getting a reaction annoys people?