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2 mile walk to secondary school too far?

227 replies

Somewhereonlywego · 20/11/2025 10:03

I'm not sure how long it would take, 40, 45 mins?

I could give lifts where possible on WFH days, but that wouldn't be every day.

There's a bus, but only one an hour and not sure how reliable it would be. But could be an option for super rainy days?

OP posts:
Helloyellowbluemoon · 20/11/2025 12:24

My daughter walks 2 miles to school currently and her secondary will be a similar distance. I wouldn’t say it was an issue. The walk is a safe walking route though. Is the route safe walking route?

Iwouldlikeanewjob · 20/11/2025 12:27

My DC all walk 1.8 miles each way every day, it is our catchment school and it has never occurred to me that it might be too far. Some of their friends walk further. They all meet up with groups of friends on the way and it takes much longer than it would if they just actually walked directly but that's all part of their experience. I agree with pp it's fresh air and exercise built into their day, as well as time to be with friends - would your DC have friends to meet up with on the way?

Carodebalo · 20/11/2025 12:31

CurlewKate · 20/11/2025 10:14

So no, I wouldn’t choose that school. However many Mumsnetters used to yomp 20 miles across icy tundra every day…..

I’d like to thank you for making me laugh out loud today, really out, even. Just what I needed on this gloomy day!

CurlewKate · 20/11/2025 12:31

I do think some people are missing the point. Of course it’s not too far to walk for a healthy teenager. But I wouldn’t want to do that every day. And I definitely wouldn’t want to do it if I was going somewhere I didn’t want to go-and kids sometimes don’t want to go to school. And I wouldn’t want to do it after a rugby match. And what if I wanted to bring a friend home after school? There are so many variables! It’s one of those things that’s absolutely fine until it isn’t.

Aluna · 20/11/2025 12:43

CurlewKate · 20/11/2025 12:31

I do think some people are missing the point. Of course it’s not too far to walk for a healthy teenager. But I wouldn’t want to do that every day. And I definitely wouldn’t want to do it if I was going somewhere I didn’t want to go-and kids sometimes don’t want to go to school. And I wouldn’t want to do it after a rugby match. And what if I wanted to bring a friend home after school? There are so many variables! It’s one of those things that’s absolutely fine until it isn’t.

Quite. Of course it’s not too far in the principle. But walking 40 mins 2 x a day in winter with an heavy bag, including in driving, freezing rain?

You’d soon find that “water resistant” does not mean waterproof.

Even with a fully waterproof, 700 fill goose down coat, fully waterproof boots (which realistically will set you back around £600) - that’s still a grim prospect.

FurForksSake · 20/11/2025 12:44

I wasn’t a yomper, I had a bus pass and had to get on a coach from the 50s (this was the 90s) that was some variety of classic each morning. They were exempt from MoT and it showed as they were rust buckets that would dump us out when they broke down and inspect us to walk the remaining several miles with hockey sticks, art folders, giant bags and no way of contacting home. I’d have loved to have been a yomper instead of trying to walk up the most massive hill in my town fully laden and wearing my dolcis heels and rolled up skirt.

LittleGreenDuck · 20/11/2025 12:44

Ours is just under two miles and my children walk or cycle. It takes about 35/40 minutes to walk there and about three hours to walk home via the newsagent, park and three different friends houses. At least they're getting exercise! I do drop them off if it's absolutely tipping down.

Meadowfinch · 20/11/2025 12:46

My 17yo walks 2 miles from the school bus stop to where I pick him up, in just over half an hour. I thought he'd moan but actually he likes it. After being cooped up all day he likes the exercise.

RubySquid · 20/11/2025 12:47

stealthninjamum · 20/11/2025 10:29

I think it’s too far. Most kids school bags weigh a tonne and that’s without Pe kits. I would get a bad back if I had to do that walk with dd1s schoolwork.

What's the option if it's the nearest school? School bus passes come into play after 3 miles

RubySquid · 20/11/2025 12:48

LittleGreenDuck · 20/11/2025 12:44

Ours is just under two miles and my children walk or cycle. It takes about 35/40 minutes to walk there and about three hours to walk home via the newsagent, park and three different friends houses. At least they're getting exercise! I do drop them off if it's absolutely tipping down.

Sounds like my route home from school lol

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 20/11/2025 12:48

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 20/11/2025 11:09

Not too far. My walk was 1.5 miles, took me about 30 minutes.

In all weathers.

Because my parents divorced and my mum couldn't drive.

Fun times.

But you’re kind of proving the point some of us are making 😂 it wasn’t fun was it? And this is even further.

KiwiFall · 20/11/2025 12:51

I don’t think it’s too far for a secondary school age child to walk however I do think it might be inconvenient especially if carrying lots of sports bags or books etc and also potentially a pain in bad weather. I was glad my kids only ever had a 10 min walk to secondary however my daughter did have 30 min walk for college but she always rather walked than bus (even though bus was door to door.)

RubySquid · 20/11/2025 12:52

Anonna123 · 20/11/2025 12:13

According to Google, London (not the depths of Scotland..) is dark at 8am for around 40% of the year, and many kids do after school clubs till 4.15pm so that's getting home at 5pm. The UK is dark for around 25% of the year at that time. This doesn't take into account cloudy days. So accounting for the fact that London gets more light than much of the UK due to its southern location, let's say 40% rather than 50%, but let's not get too pedantic 😊

London has loads of streetlights. Never seen it pitch black there

Huddledinmyhoodie · 20/11/2025 12:53

Its more what they carry. Mine could easily do this with light bags but the amount of gear they have to carry is crazy. We use bikes with panniers

spiderlight · 20/11/2025 12:53

My walk to school was nearly 2 miles, and all uphill on the way home. It was sometimes knackering after a long day with a cookery basket and a PE kit and all my friends lived in the opposite direction, but it was fine.

FurForksSake · 20/11/2025 12:53

I don’t know about other schools, but the majority of kids these days seem to not have any textbooks and leave the majority of exercise books at school. PE kit goes in once a week and then stays in the locker. Only carrying pencil case and lunch mostly.

HostaCentral · 20/11/2025 12:54

I can guarantee, even if there are buses and trains, many kids are walking that far in total, and with all their kit. DD's had to walk to the train from.home, change to another train, and then walk to school the other end. Quite often if the second train was cancelled they would walk across town to catch the other train. This particular school, and the two next to it, with hundreds of kids all doing the same, with huge amounts of sports and music kit. Some even chose not to catch the second train to save money, or spend the saving on food and drinks in town!

cramptramp · 20/11/2025 12:55

Not at all. Perfectly doable. That’s the distance I walked to school and, then from school every day. No lifts and didn’t ever consider getting a bus.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 20/11/2025 12:55

My 12 year old walks about 30 mins each way. She is fine. There is a big gang of kids that do it.

However - We do have a decent bus service and if she is coming back later / in rain - she has options.

But the kids kind of like it. They get to chat shite for an entire hour without adults around!

JaneGrint · 20/11/2025 13:12

Assuming there’s a safe walking route, 2 miles wouldn’t be too far as a general rule.

It might be sensible to have back up plans in place for days when the weather’s terrible / your DC has a lot of bulky things to carry, but on the whole I wouldn’t say it’s too far to walk.

For what it’s worth, my secondary school age DC have lighter bags than I had at that stage, because a lot of their homework etc is set online, so they’re having to carry less books around.

stealthninjamum · 20/11/2025 13:24

RubySquid · 20/11/2025 12:47

What's the option if it's the nearest school? School bus passes come into play after 3 miles

Op does have a choice which is what this thread is about but I’ll answer your question.

i would hope that schools that have large numbers of children walking up to 3 miles a day would have lockers to store things, and would allow dc to wear PE kits all day (if they want) and have as many online textbooks as possible - if the kid has a laptop or iPad - and are relaxed about uniform in summer/ winter not forcing children into blazers in July heatwaves and allowing them trainers or boots with grip in winter.

dd1 probably walks about a mile to her current school and about 1 1/2 to
her previous and I was really angry that she got told off one year because I felt her trainers were more suitable to do a walk on an icy minor residential road than her school shoes.

Whatnow321 · 20/11/2025 13:26

Assuming a safe walking route it should be ok.

DfE guidance that determines school transport has walking distance from age 8 or above as up to 3 miles

JamesClyman · 20/11/2025 13:31

No. I did it and walking was actually preferable to hanging about waiting for the bus.

NoPinkPlease · 20/11/2025 13:46

Mine do this - there is a bus alternative but the nearly always choose to walk to save the bus fare. It’s fine.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 20/11/2025 13:48

It's fine. I'm nearly 60 and 2 miles takes me 30 minutes.

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