So after leaving an abusive relationship I recently met someone new. He was my type to a T on paper, we clicked immediately and honestly it felt like a dream. I couldn’t believe how well it was going! He started with strange little controlling things like getting a bit moody if I fell asleep without saying good night or the time I said me and my friend were getting a take away but decided to nip out instead. I put these down to maybe past traumas so thought ok il work with him and just be a bit more on the ball. But within a few weeks he started going from this silly funny happy person to making nasty comments, any banter we would usually have would turn to him accusing me of winding him up, he kept saying I was talking over him and not letting him finish sentences (I didn’t, he just would pause so I’d think it was over) accuse me of not remembering things he has told me, tell me I’m asking annoying questions and irritating him. I felt like this put downs were increasing loads. We had planned to go to York Christmas markets on Saturday and my car was broken. Despite him having a car too I hired a car and drove over a hour to pick him up, he told me not to mention my broken car when I got there as he couldn’t be arsed hearing about it all weekend?! from the moment he got in the car he looked moody and said he was tired.made multiple nasty comments on the way there then my exs child mother tried to call me, I offered to answer it to prove I didn’t know why she was calling but he said no, then when we arrived he demanded I call her back infront of him so I did to prove it was nothing (she was asking was he back in my town with me as he had gone missing.. I said no I have a new man and I’m very happy) and said to him see.. I would never hurt u? He responded with “cool you called her back leave it at that” walking around he was so cold and ignoring me and made multiple sly remarks, I bought us both a drink and the worse came when I put my cup in the corner of a shop doorway as there was no bins and was being knocked all over me, he called me disgusting and scruffy for literally. At which point I said should we just leave and he said in a horrible manner “yes!” So I said Yano what.. get the train home I’m not dealing with this anymore and walked away. He messaged me calling me a scumbag for leaving him, a rat, a piece of shir n lowest of the low. I just want everyone’s opinions was I that bad for leaving him? Should I of taken him home first? I just couldn’t deal with that atmosphere any longer