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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To find the obsession with Toby Carvery baffling?

111 replies

Kaykay90 · 11/11/2025 16:47

I went on Sunday and won’t be returning. Tiny portion of meat, kids running riot and it smelt like stale farts.

Anyone else struggle to see the appeal?

OP posts:
Kaykay90 · 11/11/2025 17:06

tragichero · 11/11/2025 17:05

You want to go somewhere expensive, at least in part, so that you don't have to be around poor people?

And you think it's fine to admit this?

Sometimes Mumsnet leaves me speechless.

No, that’s not what I said. I’m on about those who allow their multiple children to run riot.

OP posts:
JohnTheRevelator · 11/11/2025 17:12

I love a Toby carvery and I don't get this snobbishness that prevails around them.

Zov · 11/11/2025 17:14

Kaykay90 · 11/11/2025 16:47

I went on Sunday and won’t be returning. Tiny portion of meat, kids running riot and it smelt like stale farts.

Anyone else struggle to see the appeal?

You're entitled to feel how you want to feel.

I love a carvery though! And I don't recognise what you describe to be honest.

gingercat02 · 11/11/2025 17:19

It's cheap and cheerful roast dinner. It's not for me but I can absolutely see the appeal.
DS and his mates go because it's cheap, filling and a good night out for just under 18s who can't go to regular pubs.

HighLadyofTheNightCourt · 11/11/2025 17:23

We’re big fans of a Toby Carvery in our house.
It’s not fine dining but it’s cheap and our local one is always good quality,

EchoedSilence · 11/11/2025 17:31

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 16:56

And theres so many kids running round screaming and "What did I tell you about your fucking behaviour? You're a little shit!" shouty parents, because for all the local scutters it's a really posh place to eat out for family birthdays. Every few years I venture back and immediately remember why I hate it so much.

🙄

rainbowsandraspberrygin · 11/11/2025 17:38

tragichero · 11/11/2025 17:05

You want to go somewhere expensive, at least in part, so that you don't have to be around poor people?

And you think it's fine to admit this?

Sometimes Mumsnet leaves me speechless.

Don’t think it’s about poor people. Think it’s more about the type of people that the OP sees there - swearing and letting kids run riot.

I’ve not been personally and from these descriptions I don’t think I will! 😂

Brightbluesomething · 11/11/2025 17:40

Last time I went the Yorkshire puddings were completely flat. Unacceptable. They weren’t great the previous time but I gave them another chance. Wont be going back.
No kids running round whenever I’ve been there in the past though. Surely that’s a parental responsibility to resolve first and foremost. Then staff if they don’t.

snetts · 11/11/2025 17:42

I used to be absolutely obsessed with tovy carvery pre pandemic and go more than once a week, but it’s changed so much now. So sadly agree. The whole set up plus food and price, just no good now

Sofaflop · 11/11/2025 17:42

Kaykay90 · 11/11/2025 17:06

I’m sure they will - our local one is usually packed every Sunday, much to my surprise.

What obsession?

I haven't been for a while but it served a purpose when DC were young. No need to wait for food and if I made them drink water real food cheaper than going to McDonalds.

mamagogo1 · 11/11/2025 17:43

They vary a lot, very dependent on location to put it bluntly. We had a lovely one half way between us an my parents unfortunately they have now become a Miller and Carter (same company I think), i presume the area was deemed too nice by management

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 11/11/2025 17:44

I bloody hate them. I don’t get it at all.

fivebyfivefaith · 11/11/2025 17:45

I go to the local stonehouse carvery, you get more meat there (so my dad reckons)
it’s clean, the food is hot and fresh and never any kids running about

MorningBliss · 11/11/2025 17:46

Never seen an obsession with it but there has been loads of threads about it recently? Probably all from the same person

mamagogo1 · 11/11/2025 17:47

I have observed (very unscientific and very much anecdotal) that number of carveries (of any brand) is inverse to household incomes in an area, we have zero within a 30 minute drive, annoying as I was fancying one when dh was away for work, whereas craft beer outlets increase with income (we now have 4 for 25k people, none serve food)

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 11/11/2025 17:48

Our local one is bloody lovely - and I'm fussy about my roasts.

FrankSinatraonToast · 11/11/2025 17:49

fivebyfivefaith · 11/11/2025 17:45

I go to the local stonehouse carvery, you get more meat there (so my dad reckons)
it’s clean, the food is hot and fresh and never any kids running about

Does it smell of stale farts?

DontGoJasonWaterfalls · 11/11/2025 17:49

Love a Toby Carvery. Can't afford more expensive places and anyway, where else do you get macaroni cheese with your roast dinner?

Go midweek; I can't be doing with the weekend crowds.

Megapint · 11/11/2025 17:53

My local Toby is lovely. The tables are big enough that my family can get together with wheelchairs and highchairs in the group it's clean and the staff are helpful. There is something everyone likes and the price is good.Maybe I'm just common!

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 11/11/2025 17:56

Who’s obsessed with Toby Carvery? Apart from people who start threads on MN slagging them off. Not just you OP, there was an identical thread around a fortnight ago.

fivebyfivefaith · 11/11/2025 18:02

FrankSinatraonToast · 11/11/2025 17:49

Does it smell of stale farts?

Edited

Definitely not. It’s just been refurbed

Zov · 11/11/2025 18:08

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 11/11/2025 17:56

Who’s obsessed with Toby Carvery? Apart from people who start threads on MN slagging them off. Not just you OP, there was an identical thread around a fortnight ago.

Yeah this. It's either Toby Carvery, or Aldi, or Taylor Swift that people start threads on, saying how 'awful' they are. Some people have a weird obsession with certain things that they claim they don't like... Wink

Wjdbxb · 11/11/2025 18:08

I’ve never been to a Toby but there is a Greene King carvery near me that we occasionally go to as my partner likes a carvery. I don’t like it - the meat is nice enough but the vegetables are beyond soggy and flavourless and the roasties are crap. And, yes, it smells of stale farts. I’d be interested to know if that’s the general standard for Greene King or if we just have a bad one.

RawBloomers · 11/11/2025 18:10

I haven’t been to a Toby in years, but I remember them as being generous with the meat and it and the gravy having lots of flavour.

republicofjam · 11/11/2025 18:11

Kaykay90 · 11/11/2025 17:01

We are going to stick to our country pubs for a home cooked roast in the future. Yes, you pay a premium but it’s worth it IMO - and also helps with regulating the clientele.

Alternatively, stick to candlelit suppers.