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Our school has banned the word Christmas?

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Fayethefair · 09/11/2025 09:30

I’ve heard from a friend on my DD’s school’s ptfa that our Cambridgeshire school has banned the word Christmas to make the school events feel more inclusive. So now it’s Festive Party, Festive Fayre etc. I’m happy to let mumsnet know the name of the school if they don’t feel this post is genuine so they can check this themselves but I won’t put names on here as this is my child’s school, I just don’t think this right and want to see what others think.

My daughter attended a Diwali lunch put on by the school recently and I genuinely thought this was lovely. I feel everything should be represented equally, I don’t understand or agree that the head should be picking and choosing what’s allowed and what isn’t. Surely this isn’t right?

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BeardOToots · 09/11/2025 11:04

Fayethefair · 09/11/2025 09:48

So the whole point of AIBU is to ask for others thoughts. It always amazes me when people come on here to say ask somewhere else. Why on earth are you wasting time on an AIBU thread to tell people to ask elsewhere?

Apparently a couple of parents complained that using the word Christmas for events wasn’t inclusive enough so the head has told the ptfa they aren’t allowed to use the word Christmas now. If someone would have suggested this 20 years ago the school would’ve thought you’d gone mad.

@CambridgeLightBlue no it was a very close friend who has no reason to lie and the school event posts verify this. No sign of the word Christmas. No it’s not hurting anyone but as a matter of principle it’s unfair to do this having openly celebrated other religious festivals by name.

The word ‘apparently’ is doing some Herculean heavy lifting here.

GehenSieweiter · 09/11/2025 11:05

MinglyMadly · 09/11/2025 11:03

It will dilute the cultural heritage of this country.

The UK already has a very diverse cultural heritage, and a lot of Christmas traditions are from Germany, Scandinavia or even the USA.

MinglyMadly · 09/11/2025 11:05

PandoraSocks · 09/11/2025 10:30

I saw in the papers today that Charles is no longer going to broadcast a Christmas message. It is going to be rebranded a "Winterval" message and no mention of Christmas allowed to avoid offending non-Christians.

What is happening to are country?

Surely this can't be true?

OneNewLeader · 09/11/2025 11:05

I think if it’s important to your friend to name the annual end of year fundraiser a Christmas Fair rather than a Winter one, they should contact the school. Like other posters I’m fairly certain the children will learn about the religious significance of Christmas.

Pinkclouds80 · 09/11/2025 11:05

There is no way they’ve “banned the word christmas” - what would that even mean, in reality? This is how BS headlines get imbecilic flag shaggers all frothy and head teachers have to wearily issue statements to keep the peace.

Greggsit · 09/11/2025 11:05

Zov · 09/11/2025 10:24

No, you don't get to say that. If we're going to ban CHRISTMAS, (because it's not 'inclusive') then why not ban all the words from other religions too.

You have clearly got no answer to that, judging by your ridiculous response to me. Once again, Christians take a battering, but no other religion does. Go figure........

Yes, it's always the Christians getting a battering. Aren't we lucky that there's no Islamophobia or antisemitism in the UK! FFS.

VikaOlson · 09/11/2025 11:05

Kendodd · 09/11/2025 10:57

If this is true, not using the word 'Christmas' for what is very clearly Christmas celebrations is exactly the sort of thing white people do and gives immigrants/non whites a bad name. I've never met a single Muslim in my life that has any problem with Christmas.

More likely Jehovah's Witnesses.

GentleSheep · 09/11/2025 11:06

If 'Christmas' is to be banned then surely so should 'Diwali' and 'Eid' etc? Not a level playing field here.

I will continue using the word Christmas (and Easter and any other terms relating to my faith) until my last breath thank you very much. As a PP said, Christmas IS inclusive by nature as Christ welcomed all to come to Him.

BallerinaRadio · 09/11/2025 11:06

MinglyMadly · 09/11/2025 11:03

It will dilute the cultural heritage of this country.

Getting smashed on mulled wine in overpriced Festive Markets?

TheWonderhorse · 09/11/2025 11:06

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 09/11/2025 09:50

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14069649/Parents-fury-school-tries-ban-Christmas-references-festive.html

From last year. No mention of Christmas in the pantomime.

NOT a ban on Christmas.

Is this it OP?

It literally says in the article that one panto didn't have reference to Christmas to be inclusive but there were other Christmas events running over the period. You have to wipe the DM shite off before you can see what's actually happened.

Luxio · 09/11/2025 11:07

GentleSheep · 09/11/2025 11:06

If 'Christmas' is to be banned then surely so should 'Diwali' and 'Eid' etc? Not a level playing field here.

I will continue using the word Christmas (and Easter and any other terms relating to my faith) until my last breath thank you very much. As a PP said, Christmas IS inclusive by nature as Christ welcomed all to come to Him.

You do realise nobody is expecting anyone to not use the word Christmas don't you?

AsMyWhimsy · 09/11/2025 11:07

MinglyMadly · 09/11/2025 11:03

It will dilute the cultural heritage of this country.

Snort. People were saying that when those nasty German ideas entered the country during the Reformation.

BallerinaRadio · 09/11/2025 11:07

GentleSheep · 09/11/2025 11:06

If 'Christmas' is to be banned then surely so should 'Diwali' and 'Eid' etc? Not a level playing field here.

I will continue using the word Christmas (and Easter and any other terms relating to my faith) until my last breath thank you very much. As a PP said, Christmas IS inclusive by nature as Christ welcomed all to come to Him.

Nobody's fucking stopping you 😂😂😂

Zempy · 09/11/2025 11:07

Yeah sure they banned the word Christmas. Totally credible. 🙄

Dwappy · 09/11/2025 11:08

BallerinaRadio · 09/11/2025 11:06

Getting smashed on mulled wine in overpriced Festive Markets?

Why are you so obsessed with people getting smashed at various Christmas events? I thought it was a joke at first but you keep mentioning it.

Zigazigarrr · 09/11/2025 11:08

@Bagsintheboot I was using it as an example and so don't want to derail the thread (tho yes I am coming back to it - what a contradiction!) but there are approx 48,000 trans men in the whole of the UK. The general fertility rate in England and Wales is 51.9 births per 1,000 women or 0.05% of the population. So, assuming the same general fertility rate for trans men that would be 2,491 "pregnant people". Compared to approx 600,000 women. So, no it's not impartial. It's pandering to a very small number of percentage of people.

24kPalamino · 09/11/2025 11:09

Dwappy · 09/11/2025 11:08

Why are you so obsessed with people getting smashed at various Christmas events? I thought it was a joke at first but you keep mentioning it.

It’s because they are bitter and lack imagination to think of anything else.
Maybe because they were never invited to a Christmas party?

PandoraSocks · 09/11/2025 11:10

MinglyMadly · 09/11/2025 11:05

Surely this can't be true?

I hoped the use of "are" would give it away! 😁

Knittedfairies2 · 09/11/2025 11:11

So why is Diwali inclusive but not Christmas?

LadyKenya · 09/11/2025 11:12

GentleSheep · 09/11/2025 11:06

If 'Christmas' is to be banned then surely so should 'Diwali' and 'Eid' etc? Not a level playing field here.

I will continue using the word Christmas (and Easter and any other terms relating to my faith) until my last breath thank you very much. As a PP said, Christmas IS inclusive by nature as Christ welcomed all to come to Him.

You're quite welcome to carry on using the word 'Christmas', because no one is saying that you can't. Stop believing all the nonsense from posters, claiming such rubbish! They are nothing, but troublemakers.

BackToLurk · 09/11/2025 11:12

MinglyMadly · 09/11/2025 11:03

It will dilute the cultural heritage of this country.

Tell me you know nothing about the cultural heritage of this country without telling me you know nothing about the cultural heritage of this country.

Roastiesarethebestbit · 09/11/2025 11:14

I am sure that the word christmas hasn’t been banned in the school. I am certain that in RE lessons the children will still be learning about Christianity and Christian festivals. I am sure that there will still be an assembly or two about Christmas. I am sure that the staff will be working the children happy Christmas! But the school expects the events put on by the PTA to be inclusive, and the Christmas fayre is really a seasonal event rather than a Christian tradition, so no harm in calling it a festive fayre and then everyone feels able to attend.

PandoraSocks · 09/11/2025 11:14

GentleSheep · 09/11/2025 11:06

If 'Christmas' is to be banned then surely so should 'Diwali' and 'Eid' etc? Not a level playing field here.

I will continue using the word Christmas (and Easter and any other terms relating to my faith) until my last breath thank you very much. As a PP said, Christmas IS inclusive by nature as Christ welcomed all to come to Him.

Christ welcomed all to come to Him

But not if they arrived in small boats, it seems.

Bumblebee72 · 09/11/2025 11:17

PandoraSocks · 09/11/2025 11:14

Christ welcomed all to come to Him

But not if they arrived in small boats, it seems.

If you need a boat and can't walk on water, can you really be a true believer?

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