We have a 5 year old ds. Ex is a high earner but won’t tell me how much he earns. He gives me an amount of money which doesn’t cover everything. But if I ask him how much he earns, he won’t tell me and says it’s none of my business. He says he has to put a lot of his salary into a pension.
He then says that I should be grateful for what he gives me and that people only go to the CMS when the NRP refuses to pay anything.
The CMS would surely calculate what is fair? Even if I end up worse off at least I can see on paper how it’s supposed to be.
Do people often use the CMS or is it a vindictive thing to do as he says?