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Has anyone manifested a romantic partner or is it all nonsense to you?

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cokez · 31/10/2025 10:07

Just that really?
please tell me your experiences or if none, why you think it’s rubbish.
I’ve manifested financial surprises, gave up smoking and drinking and a healthy body.
The most recent intention I have is to enjoy a romantic relationship again in middle age.
Aibu to think this is possible when it involves human relationship rather than a ‘thing’ or an’action’?

OP posts:
MyLimeGuide · 07/04/2026 16:19

I did magic and got a lovely boyfriend OP
I REALLY DID!!

SorcererGaheris · 07/04/2026 17:47

PinkPanther57 · 07/04/2026 16:16

But surely it can’t work? ‘Magic’ or not I can’t make Prince William fall in love with me & turn up on my doorstep tonight or ever. It can’t happen.

@PinkPanther57

All I can do is say that my personal view is that magic is real and can/does work.

I don't expect everyone else to think the same way. This is just my own view, based on the anecdotal data from members of the witch/magical community as well as some experiences of my own.

This is not to say that magic works all the time or is one hundred percent successful every time. There are a number of factors that influence a spell's level of success/whether it is successful at all. Your example of using a spell to get Prince William to fall in love with you - that is highly unlikely to be successful not (in my opinion) because magic doesn't work, but because you're selecting a very unrealistic target. Prince William isn't in your personal environment/social circle and you don't have a means of getting the strongest personal links to him (hair, skin, blood, semen.)

There's a blog post by pagan and witch John Beckett that goes into his views on the reasons why spells sometimes fail. The 5 Real Reasons Your Spells Didn’t Work | John Beckett - reason number four is especially pertinent to your Prince William example.

"Magic doesn’t work by making things happen. Magic works by improving the odds that things will happen. The odds on winning Powerball are 1 in 292 million. That means if you buy a ticket for every twice-weekly drawing, you should expect to win once every 2.8 million years. Lets say you do an amazing lottery spell and improve your odds by 100x. Congratulations – now you should expect to win once every 28,000 years.
The raw odds are better on things like stopping a tornado, but they’re still very, very long."

This blog post by occultist/magic practitioner BJ Swain goes into detail about how magic requires a process and certain actions (perhaps certain ingredients) in order to be effective/or to work to its full extent. Different magical traditions will require different approaches. Intention is not the only thing that matters in the practice of magic; there is a process that needs to be followed.

Glory of the Stars: Search results for probably not doing real magic

Glory of the Stars

http://blog.ararita418.com/search?q=probably+not+doing+real+magic

SorcererGaheris · 07/04/2026 17:56

PinkPanther57 · 07/04/2026 16:16

But surely it can’t work? ‘Magic’ or not I can’t make Prince William fall in love with me & turn up on my doorstep tonight or ever. It can’t happen.

@PinkPanther57

All I can say is that my personal view is that magic is real and can/does work. I don't expect people to agree with me. This is purely my personal view based on the anecdotal data of the witchcraft/magical/pagan communities as well as some of my own experiences.

That's not to say that magic works one hundred percent of the time or is one hundred percent successful all of the time. My understanding is that numerous factors influence how successful a spell is/whether it is successful at all. Your Prince William example is an example of a spell which would be highly, highly unlikely to be successful - not (in my opinion) because magic doesn't work, but because you've chosen an unrealistic target. Prince William isn't in your social circle/environment, and you don't have the means of getting the strongest personal links (hair, skin, blood, etc.)

There is a blog post by John Beckett, who is a pagan and witch, and he wrote of views on the reasons that spells sometimes fail. John Beckett blog post - Reason Number 4 is particularly pertinent to your example:

"Magic doesn’t work by making things happen. Magic works by improving the odds that things will happen. The odds on winning Powerball are 1 in 292 million. That means if you buy a ticket for every twice-weekly drawing, you should expect to win once every 2.8 million years. Lets say you do an amazing lottery spell and improve your odds by 100x. Congratulations – now you should expect to win once every 28,000 years.
The raw odds are better on things like stopping a tornado, but they’re still very, very long."

There is another blog post by occultist B J Swain where he goes into his understanding regarding the processes required for magic to be effective. B J Swain blog post

I share his understanding that effective magic requires particular processes, in some cases, specific ingredients. Different magical traditions will vary on what those processes are, but there is a methodology that needs to be followed.

Glory of the Stars

http://blog.ararita418.com/search?q=probably+not+doing+real+magic

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