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To tell couple off in park?

302 replies

TLOAS · 28/10/2025 11:38

Walking through the park this morning. It’s a lovely park with lots of woodland but big open grass area in the centre and home to lots of wildlife. The squirrels were running round this morning when I see one couple stopped with their dog who was pulling on the lead while looking at a squirrel. The couple, fully aware of this, lean down and upclip the lead and dog pelts at the squirrel.

I shout over, I say shout but it was a little windy and about 20ft away, and say why would you do that? They asked do what so I said “why would you purposely take the dog off the lead knowing it was going to chase the squirrel?” They shouted back some nonsense about it only being a squirrel and that their dog is only small and to mind my own business.

WIBU to tell them that the size of their dog doesn’t entitle them to purposely release it on a squirrel and terrorise wildlife?

OP posts:
BluntPlumHam · 28/10/2025 12:58

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:49

I hate it to break it to you but wildlife is.... wild.

So absolutely nowhere outdoors is exempt or "safe" from wildlife. We have a couple of private dog fields in our area - one which is on the edge of woodland - and there are lots of squirrels and birds there too.

It’s the over all behaviour that you describe in your post which fits the definition of ‘being out of control’.

Silvers11 · 28/10/2025 12:59

I do not condone the couple letting their dog off the lead specifically to chase the squirrel, because that implies its owners wanted some kind of pleasure of watching the dog chase the squirrel and maybe catching it. and tearing it to pieces. So not cool.

However, @TLOAS, unless the squirrel in question was a red one ( and therefore endangered/protected), are you aware that many people consider the grays as pests or vermin? They are classed as a non-native and invasive species and do a tremendous amount of damage to their environment and other wildlife (including the reds). That there are various schemes in the UK to control their population - i.e to keep their numbers down by killing them - although they must be killed in specific ways?

It's not something I could ever do myself - they look very cute, but as a few others on here have said, that is how they are looked at by many people. Would you have felt the same if it was a large rat?

BluntPlumHam · 28/10/2025 12:59

Hellohelga · 28/10/2025 12:49

Lol. It’s not an offence under any act for a dog to chase a squirrel.

It is to have a dog out of control in a public place.

BoringBarbie · 28/10/2025 13:00

Eightdayz · 28/10/2025 11:40

So no dogs can ever be off the lead because they chase other animals.

Yabvu

Yes, that's correct, dogs should not be attacking or chasing other animals and if they do they should be on a lead. Dogs should be on leads in most public places anyway and most parks have bylaws to this effect.

ShiftingSand · 28/10/2025 13:00

As a lifelong dog owner trust me when I say that squirrels are way faster than any dog and they also like to tease dogs (like some cats) by waiting until the dog has seen them and then bounding away up a tree. I doubt if they are “terrified”. A family member used to be a pest controller and would regularly tell us about all the damage these rats with bushy tails do to property, specifically loft spaces in houses. So I would definitely tell anyone to mind their own business if they wanted to tell me to put my dog on a lead where squirrels were concerned. As it happens, I don’t let my dogs off lead very often, usually in fields, as they aren’t keen on children😐

amber763 · 28/10/2025 13:00

BluntPlumHam · 28/10/2025 12:59

It is to have a dog out of control in a public place.

A dog let off lead to chase a squirrel is not an out of control dog.

BluntPlumHam · 28/10/2025 13:01

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:55

What on earth are you on about?!

We live in a rural village where probably 40-50% of houses have a dog. Most of these dogs are off lead daily and absolutely nobody has ever been prosecuted?! They don't prosecute dogs for chasing squirrels 😆

My response was to the idiot who lets their dog run around in a public park off lead.

Hellohelga · 28/10/2025 13:01

ChocolateCinderToffee · 28/10/2025 12:16

I knew some dog person would come out with ‘what about cats’ and here you are! I actively discourage my cat from hunting.

lol good luck with that

magicalmadmadamim · 28/10/2025 13:02

Was it a Jack Russell?
as a Jack Russell owner, i am a member of a facebook group specifically for owners of this breed. I've seen all sorts of posts with pictures of their JRT with some kind of kill hanging out of their mouths and a caption like 'little Rexy doing what he was meant to do' 🙄
It is quite often a squirrel from the park rather than a wild pheasant or something caught in the wild countryside in the middle of nowhere.
Yes they were bred to hunt but that doesn't mean you can let them off in the local suburban or city park so you can post a photo for your own self gratification.
Not saying this is the case, but this sort of thing isnt unusual with some dog owners.

BluntPlumHam · 28/10/2025 13:03

amber763 · 28/10/2025 13:00

A dog let off lead to chase a squirrel is not an out of control dog.

It absolutely fits the description but yes not worth a prosecution however the next time they do that and it chases a young child or harms an elderly …. This is how irresponsible dog owners behave and end up causing harm to others around them.

Beautifulhaiku · 28/10/2025 13:04

Do you 100% know that they just let it off lead to chase the squirrel, or were the point in the walk where they would let it off lead anyway? I can imagine getting to the park, walking from the road a bit and then letting my dog off where I normally would, even if she had just spotted a squirrel. She chases squirrels at random times throughout the walk anyway, and I know she can't catch one, so it doesn't seem like a big deal. If a kid (or adult!) started running through the trees then it would panic the squirrels and make them run up trees - I wouldn't say that means we should stop humans running about in forests.

ACynicalDad · 28/10/2025 13:05

Chiseltip · 28/10/2025 11:44

Well, they are committing the offence of allowing a dog to be dangerously out of control.

Good luck getting them convicted for that!

WhippetOfMassDestruction · 28/10/2025 13:05

spoonbillstretford · 28/10/2025 12:15

I hate to break it to you, OP @TLOAS but people regularly kill wild rabbits and eat them.

I imagine squirrel is a a little too gamey.

I was chatting with a National Trust employee who had tried grey squirrel - this was in Cumbria where they were catching grey squirrels to protect the red squirrel colony. Apparently it wasn’t very nice.

Megifer · 28/10/2025 13:06

Hellohelga · 28/10/2025 12:56

My dogs have eaten a couple of squirrels in their younger days and so have my cats. I eat meat. Should we all be prosecuted?

I dont think dogs or cats can be prosecuted.

You could but its probably unlikely unless theres video evidence your dog couldn't be controlled. Police have better things to do i think.

There isnt a Dangerous Cats Act.

You wouldnt be prosecuted for eating meat.

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 13:07

BluntPlumHam · 28/10/2025 13:01

My response was to the idiot who lets their dog run around in a public park off lead.

Millions of people do....

RaininSummer · 28/10/2025 13:07

Horrible people to deliberately set their dog on the poor squirrel.

GasPanic · 28/10/2025 13:09

amber763 · 28/10/2025 13:00

A dog let off lead to chase a squirrel is not an out of control dog.

I'm not sure how you would discriminate between that and hunting if the dog was deliberately released to chase the animal.

JamieCannister · 28/10/2025 13:09

TLOAS · 28/10/2025 11:49

Dogs chasing a squirrel is perfectly normal. Releasing it from its lead so it can intentionally scare one is not normal behaviour imo. It makes you a twat.

100%

SushiForMe · 28/10/2025 13:10

GasPanic · 28/10/2025 12:34

Slight flaw in your argument.

If a pit bull comes along, chases your dog and rips it to bits, is that nature ?

Or is the pit bull not an animal chasing another animal ?

I don’t have a dog myself, but of course when there is an emotional connection we see things differently.

If I witnessed a dog attack another dog it would upset me. But not more than seeing a cat attack a bird. Or a dog attack a cat. As I said, nature 🤷🏻‍♀️

I get what you are saying though about dogs being on purpose trained to be aggressive, this is not ‘nature’ anymore.

LandSharksAnonymous · 28/10/2025 13:12

TLOAS · 28/10/2025 11:49

Dogs chasing a squirrel is perfectly normal. Releasing it from its lead so it can intentionally scare one is not normal behaviour imo. It makes you a twat.

So spaniels used in field work, to flush out pheasants etc, also shouldn't be allowed?

FrankLeeInsane · 28/10/2025 13:12

Dogs cause fear behaviour in wildlife. This has major knock-in effects on biodiversity (reduced offspring numbers for example). On lead or off lead probably makes little difference in a park setting (though OP i think YANBU) but I get extremely cross in nature settings (like our local bird reserve). I have seen an offlead dog cause a sheep to drown in a tarn in Wales right in front of us, as it was terrified but didn't have the strength to swim right across. The dog owners, seemingly, did not care - it was one of their children that let the dog off the lead and therefore they could not possibly be blamed.

Dogs, in large numbers, also change the pH of the soil - more knock on effects.

We need FAR FEWER DOGS. (And better owners).

(We also need far fewer cats, and this causes me pain to say, as a cat lover. But doesn't make it untrue).

IsEveryoneJustBotsNow · 28/10/2025 13:17

TLOAS · 28/10/2025 11:49

Dogs chasing a squirrel is perfectly normal. Releasing it from its lead so it can intentionally scare one is not normal behaviour imo. It makes you a twat.

You can’t reason with people who can’t see the difference OP. It’s same argument my bil used to use when he took his dogs coarsing.

He’d say it’s natural for dogs to chase rabbits, he’d say his dogs were having fun and that they rarely ever caught anything so no harm done. He stopped doing it when that “sport” was banned but will still deliberately let his lurchers and whippets off leash to chase other animals.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 28/10/2025 13:17

Eightdayz · 28/10/2025 11:40

So no dogs can ever be off the lead because they chase other animals.

Yabvu

No, that's not what op is saying. Deliberately allowing your dog to chase wildlife is fuckin abhorrent.

Delatron · 28/10/2025 13:17

I think it’s a stupid thing to do as obviously the dog is then out of control in a public place.

If it makes you feel better I don’t think the squirrels are that bothered. They’re much faster and probably used to it.

We have 3 in our garden and a dog that tries to chase them. Like another poster said - it’s a bit like a game. If they didn’t like it they would move gardens I’m sure!

ZebraPyjamas · 28/10/2025 13:19

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 13:07

Millions of people do....

Millions of people doing something does not make that thing okay to do. Millions of people CAN all be wrong.

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