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AIBU?

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To tell couple off in park?

302 replies

TLOAS · 28/10/2025 11:38

Walking through the park this morning. It’s a lovely park with lots of woodland but big open grass area in the centre and home to lots of wildlife. The squirrels were running round this morning when I see one couple stopped with their dog who was pulling on the lead while looking at a squirrel. The couple, fully aware of this, lean down and upclip the lead and dog pelts at the squirrel.

I shout over, I say shout but it was a little windy and about 20ft away, and say why would you do that? They asked do what so I said “why would you purposely take the dog off the lead knowing it was going to chase the squirrel?” They shouted back some nonsense about it only being a squirrel and that their dog is only small and to mind my own business.

WIBU to tell them that the size of their dog doesn’t entitle them to purposely release it on a squirrel and terrorise wildlife?

OP posts:
Changeforsquizzers · 28/10/2025 11:58

Dartmoorcheffy · 28/10/2025 11:43

Very very few dogs can catch a squirrel but they have great fun trying. Its completely not comparable to dogs being off lead near livestock such as sheep, horses, cattle etc

Both my dogs (owned at different times) have caught numerous squirrels. It’s not so bad if they kill them quickly but I’ve had to bash their brains out a few times to put them out of their misery if badly injured

Edit to say I agree with OP and would never deliberately allow my dogs to chase any wildlife

CoucouCat · 28/10/2025 12:00

spoonbillstretford · 28/10/2025 11:58

Far more likely to be the other way round with people who think their yappy little buggers are small and cute and don't need training and go round bothering mild mannered big dogs.

Not where I live - there are some huge dogs that just run at small children and other dogs and the owners are quite aggressive about it.

Dollymylove · 28/10/2025 12:02

I agree that dogs should always be leashed in public. However, its highly unlikely a dog would catch a squirrel. Have you seen how fast they race straight up a tree?

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:02

Better to have a presumption dogs are always kept on the lead except in specially designated dog-walking areas which could be clearly signposted.

"Specially designated dog-walking areas"?!

HoppityBun · 28/10/2025 12:02

I completely agree with you. I never let dogs that I walk chase squirrels, birds or any other living creature. It appals me that people regard a living being as a toy for their dog to chase.

AtomicPumpkin · 28/10/2025 12:03

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 11:53

Oh FFS. If we applied this logic then no dog could be off lead ever.

We have 3 very fast and energetic dogs and not one of them has - or could ever - catch a squirrel. Most likely because they can't climb trees.

Whilst I don't agree with deliberately letting a dog off lead to run after another animal (weird), pretty much all dogs have a prey drive to a greater or lesser degree. It is in their DNA. Yes we have domesticated them and try to train these instincts out of them but for certain dogs it will never happen.

If we applied this logic then no dog could be off lead ever.

That is exactly how it should be.

Tolong · 28/10/2025 12:03

The speed of a squirrel i doubt the dog would have got it.
What a bout cats do you tell them off for chasing birds squirrels and mice.

Changeforsquizzers · 28/10/2025 12:04

Dollymylove · 28/10/2025 12:02

I agree that dogs should always be leashed in public. However, its highly unlikely a dog would catch a squirrel. Have you seen how fast they race straight up a tree?

My dog catches squirrels

spoonbillstretford · 28/10/2025 12:04

TLOAS · 28/10/2025 11:58

I think I’m someone who doesn’t think it’s okay to intentionally cause any creature fear. Whether it’s human or not.

Freedom of speech and all that, you are entitled to show yourself up in public I guess.

Personally I'd pick your battles and save it for the absolute muppets feeding squirrels, deer and horses.

Justcallmedaffodil · 28/10/2025 12:04

Dartmoorcheffy · 28/10/2025 11:43

Very very few dogs can catch a squirrel but they have great fun trying. Its completely not comparable to dogs being off lead near livestock such as sheep, horses, cattle etc

You do realise it’s not much fun for the squirrel? Hmm

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:06

AtomicPumpkin · 28/10/2025 12:03

If we applied this logic then no dog could be off lead ever.

That is exactly how it should be.

Great. And then we would have millions of dogs who are bored, destructive and badly behaved because they can't burn off the energy they need.

We have 3 dogs (two are working breeds). They are all rescues. They HAVE to be able to run off lead to be exercised properly. A walk round the block or throwing a tennis ball for them in a park a few times isn't going to cut it.

That being said, they are exceptionally trained and have superb recall when it comes to other people / dogs / cyclists etc. Wildlife however is another story....

beenanidiot · 28/10/2025 12:07

I think YABU. Not because I agree with their behaviour but I am very cautious around idiots I encounter in the wild. You just never know how people are going to react, particularly those who act like utter fools. Keep yourself safe first.

WhatdoesitmeanKeith · 28/10/2025 12:07

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:02

Better to have a presumption dogs are always kept on the lead except in specially designated dog-walking areas which could be clearly signposted.

"Specially designated dog-walking areas"?!

What is it specifically that you are confused by?

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:07

Tolong · 28/10/2025 12:03

The speed of a squirrel i doubt the dog would have got it.
What a bout cats do you tell them off for chasing birds squirrels and mice.

I was just about to say this!

AlphaApple · 28/10/2025 12:08

Meh. Dogs chase squirrels. They are an invasive species. This is not a big deal. What about the 100,000s of tiny mammals and birds killed by outdoor cats every year?

herbaltincture · 28/10/2025 12:08

Who are the sociopathic 33% who think it's okay to set a dog on a squirrel? FFS.

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:09

WhatdoesitmeanKeith · 28/10/2025 12:07

What is it specifically that you are confused by?

I'm not confused. But please explain how you would create a designated dog walking area where dogs can be off lead and there is absolutely no wildlife around?! We live rurally and there is wildlife everywhere. We have squirrels in our back garden which the dogs try to chase. What am I meant to do about them?!

Chiseltip · 28/10/2025 12:10

Dartmoorcheffy · 28/10/2025 11:45

Really... 🤣

Yes. Have you read the legislation?

mamagogo1 · 28/10/2025 12:10

If it’s the kind of park that permits dogs to be off lead then the squirrels will be wise to the dogs. I’m guessing op you don’t like dogs.

Jellybunny56 · 28/10/2025 12:10

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:09

I'm not confused. But please explain how you would create a designated dog walking area where dogs can be off lead and there is absolutely no wildlife around?! We live rurally and there is wildlife everywhere. We have squirrels in our back garden which the dogs try to chase. What am I meant to do about them?!

Literally this😂

Animals co-exist everywhere. Very few dogs could actually successfully catch a squirrel.

spoonbillstretford · 28/10/2025 12:12

Justcallmedaffodil · 28/10/2025 12:04

You do realise it’s not much fun for the squirrel? Hmm

I don't think being flattened by a car is either but that happens every day to thousands of squirrels up and down the country.

Squirrels are rats with better PR. I wonder how people would react to a rat infestation at home.

I don't think rats find it much fun to be poisoned or even being humanely trapped and removed must be fairly distressing for the poor things. What they love is running around your cupboards, eating everything and pissing everywhere and having lots more rats.

ChocolateCinderToffee · 28/10/2025 12:12

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 11:53

Oh FFS. If we applied this logic then no dog could be off lead ever.

We have 3 very fast and energetic dogs and not one of them has - or could ever - catch a squirrel. Most likely because they can't climb trees.

Whilst I don't agree with deliberately letting a dog off lead to run after another animal (weird), pretty much all dogs have a prey drive to a greater or lesser degree. It is in their DNA. Yes we have domesticated them and try to train these instincts out of them but for certain dogs it will never happen.

I think it would be ideal if no dog were off the lead, ever.

Starlight1984 · 28/10/2025 12:14

ChocolateCinderToffee · 28/10/2025 12:12

I think it would be ideal if no dog were off the lead, ever.

Well yes, for you. But it wouldn't be for the dogs would it?

It would be like having kids and not letting them ever run round to burn off energy.

bridgetreilly · 28/10/2025 12:14

TLOAS · 28/10/2025 11:58

I think I’m someone who doesn’t think it’s okay to intentionally cause any creature fear. Whether it’s human or not.

But you know that the non-human part of the world is absolutely full of fear and predation and violence, right? Animals kill other animals all the time. It’s completely normal and necessary.

spoonbillstretford · 28/10/2025 12:15

I hate to break it to you, OP @TLOAS but people regularly kill wild rabbits and eat them.

I imagine squirrel is a a little too gamey.