Help protect children from gaming harms.

Take our survey

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Funeral cover for child

54 replies

Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:38

Posting here for traffic sorry.

Just curious to know how many of you have funeral cover for your children? Feel free to also explain your reasoning for having it/not having it

YABU = No
YANBU = Yes

OP posts:
Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 19:21

HoskinsChoice · 22/10/2025 19:07

Why?

Not sure whether you're asking why I wouldn't take out a policy or why I'm asking, I do believe I've answered both questions in previous posts though. Or if your question was totally different then could you please elaborate?

OP posts:
CarpetKnees · 22/10/2025 23:18

ScrewyouJonathon · 22/10/2025 18:57

Reported.

Reported what? On what grounds?

Obviously this topic will be upsetting for some people, but it is clear from the title what it is about, so if you are sadly in a position where this is difficult for you, then you would scroll by and not open the thread.

As the OP states, MN is a huge, busy forum, on which all sorts of topics are discussed that might be upsetting for any individuals. That is absolutely allowed.

OP has also explained she isn't "researching" to write a book or an article or some sort of dissertation or report, she possibly used the wrong expression, but is "trying to ask a wider audience" as the people she had spoken to were saying things she was really surprised about (as it seems many of us on this thread are) so wanted to "ask the internet" to get more views.

Which is exactly what a discussion forum is for.

Kittlewittle · 22/10/2025 23:53

mamagogo1 · 22/10/2025 16:51

Children’s funerals are not free. I arrange them. Some of the fees are waived but many still stand.

that said, thankfully it’s rare to have to bury your child in the uk and if the worst happens communities rally, it’s not something I would insure against. Due to my job I’ve been involved in children’s funerals but under 16’s (which is the limit for fee waiver) was only one, the remaining ones were 16-21 (and at university) so sad

Where are you?

If in England, they are free to the parents, as the government pays the standard expenses.

Of course, the family may want extras beyond this, but the standard funeral is covered by a specific government fund.

SparklyGlitterballs · 24/10/2025 07:32

Kittlewittle · 22/10/2025 23:53

Where are you?

If in England, they are free to the parents, as the government pays the standard expenses.

Of course, the family may want extras beyond this, but the standard funeral is covered by a specific government fund.

Yes, interested to know where you are too. I also arranged children's funerals in the South East and the only thing parents of under 18s ever paid for was a headstone, an urn, flowers, or if they wanted an upgrade to the standard coffin allowance. Our FD fees were waived, as were cremation and burial fees. We were supposed to only offer funerals to babies after 23 weeks gestation, but we always gave our services free for earlier miscarriages. One woman had only been 7 weeks pregnant, and there wasn't much to cremate, but she still got our services free.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread