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Funeral cover for child

54 replies

Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:38

Posting here for traffic sorry.

Just curious to know how many of you have funeral cover for your children? Feel free to also explain your reasoning for having it/not having it

YABU = No
YANBU = Yes

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ScrambledEggs12 · 22/10/2025 16:39

No, because we have enough savings to pay for a funeral if we needed one.

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 22/10/2025 16:40

For your dc or yourself. A lot of companies don’t offer funeral cover until you turn 50.

Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:40

Sorry I should also add UK only

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x2boys · 22/10/2025 16:40

I thought funerals were free for children?

steff13 · 22/10/2025 16:41

I do. My employer offers it automatically as part of my benefits package (life insurance for myself, my spouse, and my children).

Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:41

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 22/10/2025 16:40

For your dc or yourself. A lot of companies don’t offer funeral cover until you turn 50.

For DC. So cover to pay for your children's funeral costs should the worse happen

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Eixample · 22/10/2025 16:42

My mother-in-law is obsessed with this insurance. She could have paid for a hundred funerals with what she’s spent on it over the years, for all family members. Better to save that amount in general savings. If you had reason to believe you would be more likely to need it, you probably wouldn’t be covered by it.

Ohmygodthepain · 22/10/2025 16:43

x2boys · 22/10/2025 16:40

I thought funerals were free for children?

Eh? Why would they be free?

ETA I didn't know children's funerals were indeed free, though this covers the cost of the burial/cremation and casket only.

NotEnoughKnittingTime · 22/10/2025 16:43

Funerals are free for children in England.

Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:43

x2boys · 22/10/2025 16:40

I thought funerals were free for children?

I believe so but it's probably a standard no frills offering so I'm guessing there would still be costs incurred to the caregiver

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NotEnoughKnittingTime · 22/10/2025 16:44

Ohmygodthepain · 22/10/2025 16:43

Eh? Why would they be free?

ETA I didn't know children's funerals were indeed free, though this covers the cost of the burial/cremation and casket only.

Edited

Imagine asking that question!

BitterSweetBirthday · 22/10/2025 16:44

No, because I could cover the cost should the worst happen.

I didn't know it was available and would be very surprised if there was much of a take up!

WatchingTheDetective · 22/10/2025 16:46

It's a really insensitive question, OP. A lot of women on here have very sick children.

Kittlewittle · 22/10/2025 16:49

Funerals are free for children in England. This is for a standard funeral, and there are also charitable grants available for extras.

I find this a rather insensitive question. Parents don't want to think about their children dying, and fortunately, it is unlikely in this country.

Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:49

WatchingTheDetective · 22/10/2025 16:46

It's a really insensitive question, OP. A lot of women on here have very sick children.

No I completely understand and empathise but I'm asking for research purposes. It's a yes or no survey, people can elaborate or ignore as they wish. Apologies to anybody offended by my question as I don't mean to cause any harm but I cannot get answers without asking questions and sometimes yes they can be difficult questions to ask.

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QuietLifeNoDrama · 22/10/2025 16:50

No, because I never planned for my child to die before me and when they did the funeral costs were negligible in the grand scheme of things

mamagogo1 · 22/10/2025 16:51

Children’s funerals are not free. I arrange them. Some of the fees are waived but many still stand.

that said, thankfully it’s rare to have to bury your child in the uk and if the worst happens communities rally, it’s not something I would insure against. Due to my job I’ve been involved in children’s funerals but under 16’s (which is the limit for fee waiver) was only one, the remaining ones were 16-21 (and at university) so sad

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/10/2025 16:53

No. We never had this kind of cover for dd as a child, and we don't have it for her now as a young adult. We would use savings in that scenario if the worst happened.

Frankly, I think money would be the least of my concerns at that point, and I find the question itself quite crass.

Purpleharlow · 22/10/2025 16:55

Didn’t think you were allowed to post for research purposes.

Reported.

Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:56

Kittlewittle · 22/10/2025 16:49

Funerals are free for children in England. This is for a standard funeral, and there are also charitable grants available for extras.

I find this a rather insensitive question. Parents don't want to think about their children dying, and fortunately, it is unlikely in this country.

FYI I am a parent and I absolutely don't want to think about that prospect, we can agree there. I am conducting some research as part of a wider debate regarding parent's needing financial assistance to bury their child, general consensus being that parents should be taking out policies for their children as standard practice and not needing to rely on others to support. I don't agree with that as in my opinion I didn't think many people planned for the worst to happen to their child so I can absolutely see how it can be an unexpected cost that you cannot afford therefore need to seek assistance.

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Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:56

Purpleharlow · 22/10/2025 16:55

Didn’t think you were allowed to post for research purposes.

Reported.

Research for myself? Lol okay

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CopperWhite · 22/10/2025 16:56

Does funeral cover for children even exist, considering that the biggest funeral costs are covered if you have a child who dies?

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 22/10/2025 16:57

Hmm, just seen that this is research.

I struggle to believe that you have any relevant ethics committee approval for conducting research in this manner, so I'm guessing you're doing some clumsy market research for a business idea rather than proper research as such.

Bananaandmangosmoothie · 22/10/2025 16:58

God I hate to even think about it but I would just use some of their savings ☹️

Purpleharlow · 22/10/2025 16:58

Lunarmoonbie · 22/10/2025 16:56

Research for myself? Lol okay

Yeah, you didn’t say that though did you.

A off topic to want to do research on ‘for yourself’ but whatever.

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