Husband has a job where he gets called out last minute. Tbh it doesn’t bother me all that much. Sure, it can be disappointing but we do our best to plan things where there is certainly with his schedule. We are both late 20s.
Recently, we had plans to go out on Saturday night. Husband got called. We hadn’t bought tickets as there were plenty available. I decided to join friends for a night out(group of single girls). I had a fantastic night. Going out and getting drunk had lost its appeal but for whatever reason I really needed a proper girls night out. Anyway, came home in the very early hours. Husband was home. I made sure not to be inconsiderate so got undressed and to bed without too much noise as husband was asleep.
The next day I was nursing a hangover. So the Sunday was a bit of a write off. Husband was off work that day so I do feel bad about that.
Anyway, it was obvious my husband was a bit pissed off as he was acting a bit off. I asked him directly and he thinks I was in the wrong for getting in such a state that it impacted the Sunday. I mean it’s not ideal but I rarely go out and properly get wasted. I don’t see what I did as being terribly wrong. Just I’ll thought out.
Is my husband justified for looking down at me for my behaviour and seeing it as immature (how it feels). I’m a grown woman who pays her own way in life and therefore think I can sort of do as I please as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone.