TurnThatLightOn
Like you, I'm cracking on in years. I can hardly believe what I'm reading sometimes. Back in the 70s we had glam rock, gay men, feminine men, butch women, women who were dead glam, and girly lesbians. Nobody cared a jot.
My best friend when I had my babies was a gay man we call Auntie Bob for the purposes of amusement. His partner is Auntie Keith. It's ok. It's a jokey thing.
He is gay as a scarlet flannel in dress and manner. Nobody cared. He was a lovely person who happened to be gay. I had my babies in the 80s. It was a time when being gay had progressed to not really mattering to most people.
Auntie Bob is sexually attracted to men. To this day he remains sexually attracted to a man because he has now settled down with his partner of 20 years. I've had long chats with him. Although he wears a little bit of eyeliner and shadow, and dresses quite flamboyantly, he has absolutely no desire for anyone to think he is a woman or to present as a woman.
But. He has confided that he wishes he had been born a woman because of his attraction to men. He would have liked to be a woman and to attract a straight man, maybe just once to satisfy his curiosity. Just to see how it feels to have sex as a woman with a straight man. But he knows that's a pipe dream! He knows he has a penis and is not a woman.
His opinion on trans is that current stupidity is making gay men think that they want to be a woman because now, with all this ridiculousness going on, it looks as if they can! Which will lead to one being able to be a woman having sex with a straight man. Which it flamingly obviously isn't. Very few straight men would want to have sex with a post-op transwoman. Look how India W came on to that bloke in BB and he was, like, no way, get away, get off me!!
Because he knows that India is a man and will always be a man.
No amount of surgery or hormones can make a man into a woman.
And then there's the other sort of man who wants to pretend he's a woman, to infiltrate their private places. Toilets. Changing rooms. Therapy groups.
Anywhere that men are not welcome, they want to be there to plant their entitlement.
I remember the clubs and pubs in the North East, where there were rooms that women were not allowed into. Yes! It really was a thing. I lived through going to a pub and not being allowed any further than the snug. The rest of the pub was men only. I registered my disapproval by refusing to pay for my husband's drinks. ( He was in the men's room where women weren't allowed) but I had the money. I refused to pay for him. Not allowed at that bar? Then sing for your money.
Anyway, Auntie Bob who is completely gay and homosexual is happy with his life choice I think he and most of his gay friends would quite like to experience life as a woman because they would love to attract straight men. But they're all older. I mean, what if the upcoming homosexual people were to be given the ridiculous opportunity to pretend that they're the opposite sex and everybody has to suck it up although they know it's bloody fucking ridiculous.
It's so unkind to make them think that it's an option.
No straight man is going to want to fuck a false vagina.
I think it's more about infiltrating female spaces.