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Dislike knitted baby gifts from family member

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LoftyOliveDreamer · 18/10/2025 00:08

A member of our family continuously knits baby gifts for our children, there is not usually much consideration for appropriate seasons regards to age/sizing and the patterns/colours are always quite garish. We feel awful because there is clearly a lot of time and effort gone into these. The person is a beautiful knitter however she will not take any suggestions on colours, or doing a more neutral/single colour piece that would mean it can be paired with other items.

We are left with sooo many items piling up unused, many are completely inappropriate sizing so they are zero use to us. However the ones that may fit are always wild patterns or very dated styles. Photo is just recent examples

We have tried to talk to this person many times but as mentioned before they do not listen. I feel pressured to quietly donate many of them because we simply do not have the space to store so many unused items, and I would hope someone else can appreciate and get some use out of them

Our last ditch attempt is suggesting a specific pattern book so hopefully this works, do you have any suggestions? Am I being unreasonable, are these examples nice?

OP posts:
Funnywonder · 20/10/2025 09:38

If they are made from natural fibres then what’s not to love about them?!

Allergies? Two people in my small household of 4 are allergic to animal wool. OK with cotton and bamboo, but those don’t tend to be warm in winter.

mustardrarebit · 20/10/2025 09:45

They're adorable! My 5 and 8 year old both liked the pink items and would be happy to wear them, even suggesting styling options 😆

nightmarepickle2025 · 20/10/2025 10:09

I think they’re lovely.

saraclara · 20/10/2025 10:24

This thread is now coming up on Facebook. The photo of the items has the potential to land you in trouble if the family member sees it. You might want to report the thread or the photo and ask for a deletion @LoftyOliveDreamer

Jinkslinger · 31/10/2025 16:32

I think she has

pictoosh · 01/11/2025 10:57

saraclara · 20/10/2025 10:24

This thread is now coming up on Facebook. The photo of the items has the potential to land you in trouble if the family member sees it. You might want to report the thread or the photo and ask for a deletion @LoftyOliveDreamer

I mean I know, there are lots of posts and it's anonymous and some are selected for the FB feed...but why do they select something that could easily identify the poster and cause them personal problems?
There must be some human input into what goes out there, surely.
Seems deliberate. Why?

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