Some of these replies about her current outgoings, utterly crazy
Counselling/therapy is usually around £75ph at least here, havent seen many for less than that. Its not recommended just to go as and when, no one knows where in the therapy stages OP is, so just saying skip it for a month or two shows you know nothing. Ditto the advice to use the welbeing services at work, in my job, which is touchy feely frontline public services, you get 6 sessions of a 20 min phone call, that is not therapy. Ditto advice smugly posted about accessing NHS psychotherapy. Where is that then?
A third of your income on a mortgage is not 'high', its not low either but largely a lot of people are paying about a third.
Insurance could well be linked to the service charges, house management fees suggest a leasehold, buildings insurance and ground rent/service charge isnt negotiable in that case. Equally if its not linked to any leasehold, she might have made a claim in the past, which is why I avoid trying to make a claim and certainly its poor advice given on this thread to claim on the insurances for a blocked drain which would probably only cost about 50 quid if a handyman comes out
Many posters suggesting to get the FF on credit and equally posters are criticising that she has a credit card, we dont know what she bought on it for what reason.
Running a car is often people's only option if they live where there is no public transport or routes to work cant be made by that. Equally many employers charge for parking permits.
Lastly the lovely smug 'why dont you move closer to your job or get a new job'
Yeah just like that. Incur thousands in stamp duty, solicitors costs, estate agents fees, stress of moving. Just like that.
Jobs are ten a penny arent they, just get a new one