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AIBU?

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To ask how people afford plumbers or new fridges?

317 replies

coldinside · 16/10/2025 01:03

I need a plumber to look at a drain blockage in my bathroom (have already tried to clear it myself to no avail) and my fridge has broken so needs replaced. But I’m wondering how I can even afford these things. I earn £1979 per month and my bills are as follows:

Mortgage £620.48
Council tax £125
Income protection insurance £17.48
Car tax £16.62
Gas £20
Electricity £40
Broadband £23.99
Mobile phone £10.50
TV licence £29.08
Counselling £100
Petrol £150
Parking £80
Dentist £20
House management fee £20
Car insurance £45
Home insurance £43.25
Credit card £200

This leaves me with a total of £417 per month to feed myself and a dog, to buy clothes, shoes and toiletries. I can’t save any money each month and I have no idea how I will pay for a fridge (£530) and plumber. AIBU?

OP posts:
Madisnttheword · 16/10/2025 12:42

sorrynotathome · 16/10/2025 06:38

Income protection insurance is a con.

It really is. We paid it every month, and extra £100 on top of our mortgage. It was meant to cover everything, illness, loss of job etc. I became seriously ill and my husband became my full time carer. We put in the claim for my illness and they didn't cover it. We ended up having our house repossessed and were made homeless right in the middle of me getting treatment and a lot of other things. It's one of the biggest scams going

Madisnttheword · 16/10/2025 12:44

GinSwiggers · 16/10/2025 11:50

I think it depends on what you insure.
We have 'new for old' and also contents up to around £75K. That includes some listed items of higher value.
It's a large 3 bed house and we pay around £700pa for contents and buildings.
This was the cheapest of 3 quotes.
TBH I think a lot of people under-insure because if you had to replace everything (ie fire or water damage) you're looking at kitchens, carpets, furniture, books, electricals, all clothes etc etc.

Edited

Also depends on whether OP has claimed before or not

Fupoffyagrasshole · 16/10/2025 12:50

second hand fridge - you could probably get a free one somewhere on marketplace or similar - or go in a British heart foundation furniture store and see what they have

How often do you need shoes on clothes? i've not bought either for at least 6 months

GasPanic · 16/10/2025 12:53

The cheapest fridge freezer on ao is the fridgemaster at £179, not £500.

Or wait for Black Friday and get something better with a discount.

Ilovecakey · 16/10/2025 13:07

Can you not use klarna to pay for a fridge a8 pay in 3 over 3 months? Abd surely you dont need new clothes every month?

Ilovecakey · 16/10/2025 13:09

Oh yeah and dont pay TV license. I haven't for years so you can save yourself a bit that way

Roobarbtwo · 16/10/2025 13:10

Ilovecakey · 16/10/2025 13:09

Oh yeah and dont pay TV license. I haven't for years so you can save yourself a bit that way

This has already been discussed. I wouldn't be telling someone with a Tv to just stop paying their licence. I watch catch up TV and that costs me nothing

BlackeyedSusan · 16/10/2025 13:31

Save. Cut back everywhere you can. Buy second hand clothes etc. Learn to make do and mend. Go without. (1970s child of 1930s poor parents gives a very different perspective on necessities) learn to budget to within an inch of your life. Buy a second hand fridge to tide you over. It is difficult if you are not used to it. Try downsizing a level in the supermarket until you find the cheapest you like. Some essentials and some own brand.( Eg: Swapped branded cornflakes for own brand different cereal or essential weetbiscs as I only like Kellogg's.)

This of course will not be possible for the lowest incomes as they are already doing this.

venus7 · 16/10/2025 13:37

Do without a fridge for the short term.....it's getting colder....and watch out for a second hand one.
Some of your figures seem high....house insurance, etc.
TV licenses are not £348 a year.
Take a break from counselling.

MotherOfRatios · 16/10/2025 13:42

Some of the comments on here?

Counselling is important for a few people and employee schemes aren't that good.

LivelyJadeLeader · 16/10/2025 14:10

Can you get a second job? This is what I did when I was short of cash, I worked on Sundays.
Lots of shops are recruiting seasonal staff at the moment.

eone · 16/10/2025 14:25

venus7 · 16/10/2025 13:37

Do without a fridge for the short term.....it's getting colder....and watch out for a second hand one.
Some of your figures seem high....house insurance, etc.
TV licenses are not £348 a year.
Take a break from counselling.

Are you for real? Without a fridge?

Locutus2000 · 16/10/2025 14:28

Has OP been back yet?

GasPanic · 16/10/2025 14:35

eone · 16/10/2025 14:25

Are you for real? Without a fridge?

If you can't afford to pay your heating bills the house is freezing anyway, not far above fridge temperatures.

In the 70s we didn't have a freezer, only a fridge with a freezer compartment.

You can buy tins, fresh veg will keep out of the fridge at low temps.

Evaporated milk or nasty powered milk non dairy creamer for tea/coffee.

I think it is actually quite easy to live without a fridge. Not great but certainly possible. You just need to shop a bit more regularly if you want fresh food, especially meat, and eat it on the day you get it.

Augustus40 · 16/10/2025 14:35

You may find calling the Samaritans for emotional support is more effective than counselling. The latter often makes you go round in circles. I used to call them when much younger. Very good indeed IMHO.

LemonJellyLegs · 16/10/2025 14:35

coldinside · 16/10/2025 01:03

I need a plumber to look at a drain blockage in my bathroom (have already tried to clear it myself to no avail) and my fridge has broken so needs replaced. But I’m wondering how I can even afford these things. I earn £1979 per month and my bills are as follows:

Mortgage £620.48
Council tax £125
Income protection insurance £17.48
Car tax £16.62
Gas £20
Electricity £40
Broadband £23.99
Mobile phone £10.50
TV licence £29.08
Counselling £100
Petrol £150
Parking £80
Dentist £20
House management fee £20
Car insurance £45
Home insurance £43.25
Credit card £200

This leaves me with a total of £417 per month to feed myself and a dog, to buy clothes, shoes and toiletries. I can’t save any money each month and I have no idea how I will pay for a fridge (£530) and plumber. AIBU?

You are paying too much for your TV licence at £29.08 - its around £180 a year
Home insurance can be shopped around for less than £43.25 a month ditto car insurance

venus7 · 16/10/2025 14:51

eone · 16/10/2025 14:25

Are you for real? Without a fridge?

Yes, I'm real. I have gone without a fridge before, when I haven't been able to afford one. People did live without fridges in the past!

zipadeedodah · 16/10/2025 14:59

venus7 · 16/10/2025 14:51

Yes, I'm real. I have gone without a fridge before, when I haven't been able to afford one. People did live without fridges in the past!

Lol at the horror people express when you dare to suggest they go without a fridge for a short period.

I once said go without electric for a couple of days and the reaction that got you would have sworn that I'd suggested slaughtering every firstborn in the country! People are VERY attached to their mod cons and very narrow minded too to think they can't possibly exist without them,

Roobarbtwo · 16/10/2025 15:56

Have a look at Olio and too good to go for some of your food. Try and get the credit card debt moved onto a 0 per cent balance transfer. Look at buying second hand clothes - charity shops, vinted etc.

GinSwiggers · 16/10/2025 16:51

Roobarbtwo · 16/10/2025 13:10

This has already been discussed. I wouldn't be telling someone with a Tv to just stop paying their licence. I watch catch up TV and that costs me nothing

@Roobarbtwo If you are watching catch up on iPlayer (BBC) you do need a licence.

GinSwiggers · 16/10/2025 16:51

I assume that @coldinside is at work, hence no posts.

SprayWhiteDung · 16/10/2025 16:56

LemonJellyLegs · 16/10/2025 14:35

You are paying too much for your TV licence at £29.08 - its around £180 a year
Home insurance can be shopped around for less than £43.25 a month ditto car insurance

The TV licence cost has been explained upthread. If you pay monthly, your first 6 months are double - that's how TV Licensing work their monthly payment scheme.

It's not like there are lots of companies that sell TV licences and compete on price: you either pay TVL the standard rate (unless you qualify for a discounted rate) or you don't buy one at all!

Ginmonkeyagain · 16/10/2025 17:10

If you need to go without a fridge for a couple of days put items you need to keep cool in a sealed plastic bag and submerge it in a large bucket of very cold water, then place the bucket outside or in a cold part of the house.

venus7 · 16/10/2025 17:42

zipadeedodah · 16/10/2025 14:59

Lol at the horror people express when you dare to suggest they go without a fridge for a short period.

I once said go without electric for a couple of days and the reaction that got you would have sworn that I'd suggested slaughtering every firstborn in the country! People are VERY attached to their mod cons and very narrow minded too to think they can't possibly exist without them,

Thank you; it was as if I had suggested going without food for six months!
Attached, yes....also unaware of how recent these things are, how many people still go without, and what alternatives there are.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 16/10/2025 19:18

Catsknowbest · 16/10/2025 08:26

The OPs post was about affording monthly outgoings and additional expenses. When someone else jumped in with misinformation about UC I corrected it, particularly because that poster jumped on the one they were responding to about "not giving advice when not knowing what they were talking about". And I did that because its my professional field. I also added another comment about when SMI on UC is paid, in relation to mortgages, which is a clarification and again as the OP wasn't asking about going on benefits, I clarified because there was a comment about UC and mortgages. The other post I made regarding credit unions was my offering of practical advice regarding the OPs original question. Hope that clarifies things for you.

Thanks, but it was already clear - I didn’t need your explanation. Which, while technically correct was unhelpful because it took.no account of the OPs circumstances and was thus misleading as best, and wrong at worst . :)

The simple fact is that for a single person on around £30k gross with a mortgage and no savings universal credit is of no use at all if one is ill or loses their job. It will not cover the mortgage, nor give them £2k net, which is what the OP needs to cover her costs. £20odd income protection premium is a good deal for people like her, and advising to cancel somewhat foolish. The benefits system (a) shouldn’t be relied on and (b) is unhelpful if one is single and has no children. I hope that clarifies things for you.

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