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Delivery driver leaving rat poison in my hallway

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lonelylou09 · 14/10/2025 22:46

AIBU to complain to Amazon about their delivery driver today? It's really freaked me out.
I was home during my lunch break today and was in the kitchen seeing to our new weeny rescue pup. I heard the front door open and a male voice and thought it was my other half home early from work.
I went into the garden to see to the pup and when I came back in I saw 2 Amazon parcels on the floor in the hallway and I then had delivery notifications on my phone saying 'parcel handed to resident'.
My OH was no where to be seen and didn't come home til much later so it wasn't him.
I then concluded that the driver opened my front door and put the parcels there without even knocking or leaving them in the safe place as is noted.
I'm really freaked out that someone opened the front door...one thing is he could of let the pup out who isn't allowed out yet as too young and also one of the boxes contained rat poison which the pup then could of gotten hold of.
I'm guessing it wasn't our usual guy as he knows where to leave them and I've never had anyone just open the door before.
I can't see any way to complain to Amazon online but I can escalate it to a phone call.
I guess lesson learned to lock the door either way but as I was going back out shortly I don't usually bother.
But surely that's just so unprofessional?

OP posts:
TeaRoseTallulah · 15/10/2025 22:22

sittingonabeach · 14/10/2025 22:50

So many people don’t lock their doors - why?

So many similar threads, I can't imagine why one wouldn't keep their door locked.

lonelylou09 · 16/10/2025 05:32

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 15/10/2025 22:03

Can you point me to where it says everything needs to be locked whilst you are actually inside the house? Just as easy for someone to get in through a window than a door. All of these say don't 'LEAVE your home unlocked' or say 'secure all doors and windows when leaving your home'
Nothing about when you're actually inside.
I'm not complaining about that. I'm on about someone in a professional role just letting themselves into my house without knocking the door.

OP posts:
MiffyMiff · 16/10/2025 06:28

Disingenuous title.

Yokopops · 16/10/2025 06:37

sittingonabeach · 14/10/2025 22:50

So many people don’t lock their doors - why?

I used to flat share with a woman who didn’t, she was from a small Swedish town and said she didn’t bother about locking doors. I was like well this is Croydon and we are a ground level flat - lock the fucking door!

Yokopops · 16/10/2025 06:44

lonelylou09 · 16/10/2025 05:32

Can you point me to where it says everything needs to be locked whilst you are actually inside the house? Just as easy for someone to get in through a window than a door. All of these say don't 'LEAVE your home unlocked' or say 'secure all doors and windows when leaving your home'
Nothing about when you're actually inside.
I'm not complaining about that. I'm on about someone in a professional role just letting themselves into my house without knocking the door.

I think it’s just common sense really. I don’t leave my door unlocked although as someone who lives on the top floor of a flat that has security doors in the building, it’s less likely a burglar would target my apartment.

In terms of my windows, well as I’m on the top floor it’s unlikely someone could get in through that but I tend to be in the room where my windows are open.

That said of course he’s out of order to have opened your door to drop the package. Hopefully it’s a wake up call to you though - lock your door.

Shr3dding · 16/10/2025 06:49

sittingonabeach · 15/10/2025 00:14

If I was bringing things into the house I would bring things into the hall (with other doors leading into the hall closed so dog can’t get into the hall and then out of the front door). Then close and lock front door and then take things from the hall to where they are meant to be (also take off shoes in hall).

If door is unlocked as you or DH are taking things in and out of the house wouldn’t one of you have seen the delivery driver @lonelylou09

For those of you who don’t lock the front door I assume you don’t have young children who might open it.

Edited

Unlocked front door house here and when my children were young we used to have the front door open most of the time with no issues at all.

I grew up in a house where the doors were never locked and my siblings do the same still too. Now I think about it my children will probably do the same when they have their own homes as theyd wonder what was wrong if they came home and the door was locked it someone was in the house

Not every child automatically makes an escape bid because they can.

Yokopops · 16/10/2025 06:55

I completely disagree about people getting in whether the door is locked or not. Standard modus operandi is to walk along the road trying door handles or car doors, looking for houses or cars that are easy to break into without smashing stuff. Any barrier you can put between the pavement and the inside of your house will deter an intruder. There have been documentaries about this from ex cons. Our front gate is horribly squeaky and makes the neighbours dogs bark, but I won’t be oiling it because in my view it’s another barrier. Why make life easy for criminals? Just lock your damn door when you shut it, takes a second.

Exactly.

I remember in this temp job I worked in Liverpool, this young man called in saying he would be late as he had an emergency.

When he finally arrived he told us a random man had been trying doors on his street and had opened his door. Him and his flatmate had been tussling with him to get him out or restrain him until the police came.

I think he was high on drugs and was determined to leave with a tv or whatever. This was in Liverpool but it could happen anywhere.

It’s not about it being your fault if something bad happens to you OP, it’s just good advice for the world we live in.

I mean surely the aim should be to prevent harm to yourself in the first place whether you will get “blamed” or not.

It’s not so hard or onerous to lock your door so why not do this basic safety precaution instead of taking an unnecessary risk?

Charlize43 · 16/10/2025 07:02

Lock your door. Simples.

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 16/10/2025 10:18

lonelylou09 · 16/10/2025 05:32

Can you point me to where it says everything needs to be locked whilst you are actually inside the house? Just as easy for someone to get in through a window than a door. All of these say don't 'LEAVE your home unlocked' or say 'secure all doors and windows when leaving your home'
Nothing about when you're actually inside.
I'm not complaining about that. I'm on about someone in a professional role just letting themselves into my house without knocking the door.

The part where is says if they don't have to force entry...

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