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Cyclists have made my home city too stressful to live in any more

238 replies

valianttortoise · 12/10/2025 11:51

Cycling on the pavement (on e-bikes, racing bikes, whatever) at speed, silently, no lights often, no pausing for pedestrians to cross at zebra crossings or even green men. An e-bike nearly hit me yesterday while a policeman was literally standing there watching (outside a government building in case you're wondering where on earth I saw a live one) and he did nothing, just looked at me like "wow that was close!"

I can't handle it any more it's miserable. I can't drive so it's not a car thing it's a pedestrian safety thing.

I also think seeing that it's fine to do this, in balaclavas often, is sending a message that crime and bad behaviour in general are ok. No one will stop you.

Some men (boys? hard to tell in balaclavas) on e-bikes provided by the council took an angle grinder into a busy central square last week and just calmly cut out bicycles from stands to steal them (obviously a crime I feel conflicted about in itself but how long until they realise they can just mug pedestrians at knifepoint? It was 3pm, bright sunshine).

I find it kind of hard to believe what we're just supposed to live with now. No safe spaces for walking - forget about it if you're visually impaired.

If you live somewhere with no antisocial cyclists where is it please as I'd like to join you.

OP posts:
TorroFerney · 13/10/2025 12:30

Redpeach · 12/10/2025 14:37

Children too?

no children are fine, little children who wouldn’t be safe on a road. Admittedly I don’t live somewhere with these issues, cyclists , the adults are on bikes that are probably worth as much as my car. An adult on a pushbike on the pavement for no good reason id just keep going and assume they’d get out of the way and go in the road.

Crikeyalmighty · 13/10/2025 12:46

I was going to suggest is this Bristol? - drive my H nuts driving in the end ( I don’t drive) and it doesn’t have great public transport either -

Mamma27373 · 13/10/2025 15:02

I sympathise. I was actually an avid city cyclist. Once I had my baby in a sling and was standing in the middle of the pavement at traffic lights waiting and looking to the right where the cars were coming from. It was quiet and I was standing 3ft away from the road because I didn’t want to stand with the right next to the road. There was 3ft behind me and no cycle lane (you’re expected to cycle on the road in the bus lane).

The lights changed and I stepped forwards to cross still looking right. There was a huge screech and a cyclist hit me and the baby from the left. The s* had been cycling on the pavement and had tried to squeeze through on the pavement in front of me. I have never been so furious at someone. He mumbled a sorry and then carried on cycling on the pavement!!

WeNeedToTalkAboutIT · 13/10/2025 15:30

Catsknowbest · 12/10/2025 12:02

Was just thinking this- Cambridge? I used to live in Suffolk as does my brother still who has to commute to Cambridge and his hatred of cyclists is family legend 🙈

And another here wondering if you're talking about Cambridge. It's a lovely city and I live 10 minutes away but I avoid it like the plague. I'm generally a happy confident driver but I stopped driving into Cambridge in the evening sometimes (no park and ride late enough) because it was so stressful trying to avoid all the cyclists in the dark. I seemed to be much more concerned about avoiding injuring a cyclist than the cyclists ever seemed concerned about being hit!

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 13/10/2025 15:33

I'm so tired with the cycling twattery.

So many cyclists have no shame, no manners and no decency.

Chinsupmeloves · 13/10/2025 18:36

Yup, they (electric scooters/mopeds/quads) are lethal and too often used by balaclava clad idiots. Dangerous speeds, deliberate goading to traffic, lads having 'fun' in public places with families. Yet so difficult to do anything about with the lack of resources, physically stopping them etc.

Chinsupmeloves · 13/10/2025 18:38

To add, so many other countries have had fantastic cycle routes established for decades, an area we are lacking in. Not the narrow lanes which end half way down a road.

Rpop · 13/10/2025 19:10

MorningFresh · 12/10/2025 12:01

Do you live in Cambridge?

You take your life in your hands just crossing the main shopping street there.🚲

I was wondering this too.
whilst there are good and bad cyclists and good and bad drivers, the drivers ultimately carry all the responsibility for not hitting cyclists as they have the more ‘deadly’ machines. It’s very stressful driving in Cambridge.

Arran2024 · 13/10/2025 19:21

My town was chosen for a mini Holland project. There are now proper cycle lanes on all the major arterial roads. They took out bus lanes to make room. It cost £30million!

Winfield · 13/10/2025 19:38

valianttortoise · 12/10/2025 11:51

Cycling on the pavement (on e-bikes, racing bikes, whatever) at speed, silently, no lights often, no pausing for pedestrians to cross at zebra crossings or even green men. An e-bike nearly hit me yesterday while a policeman was literally standing there watching (outside a government building in case you're wondering where on earth I saw a live one) and he did nothing, just looked at me like "wow that was close!"

I can't handle it any more it's miserable. I can't drive so it's not a car thing it's a pedestrian safety thing.

I also think seeing that it's fine to do this, in balaclavas often, is sending a message that crime and bad behaviour in general are ok. No one will stop you.

Some men (boys? hard to tell in balaclavas) on e-bikes provided by the council took an angle grinder into a busy central square last week and just calmly cut out bicycles from stands to steal them (obviously a crime I feel conflicted about in itself but how long until they realise they can just mug pedestrians at knifepoint? It was 3pm, bright sunshine).

I find it kind of hard to believe what we're just supposed to live with now. No safe spaces for walking - forget about it if you're visually impaired.

If you live somewhere with no antisocial cyclists where is it please as I'd like to join you.

Totally agree I love walking, and can no longer have s relaxing walk around our beautiful city. It’s not just the E-bikes, but school kids on lime bikes, the only place to walk safely is on the grass in the parks!

tilypu · 13/10/2025 19:44

valianttortoise · 13/10/2025 11:17

I live in one of these places and this is where cyclists cause hell for me as a pedestrian. I frequently see cyclists colliding, too (one will be minding their own business and the other a moron on an e-bike or ploughing through a red light).

I know which city. The attempted theft was widely discussed on social media.

I'm a cyclist. And I am 100% with you on the issues that this significant minority of cyclists are causing.

BruFord · 13/10/2025 19:50

We live in a university town and I’ve nearly been run over by an e-scooter and an e-bike on separate occasions. Obviously the riders were doing illegal moves-one cut across the pavement right in front of me. If he’d collided with me, I’d have gone flying!

I think they’re great inventions, but please remember the pedestrians!

NettieFarrago · 13/10/2025 19:55

MorningFresh · 12/10/2025 12:01

Do you live in Cambridge?

You take your life in your hands just crossing the main shopping street there.🚲

Bikes on pavements make walking in Cambridge unpleasant and dangerous

noodlebugz · 13/10/2025 20:30

rainylake · 12/10/2025 12:14

I’m a cyclist, a driver, and a pedestrian.

In each group there are some arseholes who behave anti-socially and dangerously and I absolutely do judge them.

I’mnot going to go around saying “drivers are ruining my life” and trying to whip up anger against drivers because I’ve seen two young men decide to race each other at 50 down our residential side street and recently someone else mounted the pavement and nearly hit my 6 year old. Those were awful irresponsible drivers but that doesn’t mean that most drivers are like that. Nor will I say I’m in two minds about people stealing or vandalising cars because of the bad drivers in our town (whereas you clearly are quite glad that all cyclists are being punished by bike theft - as long as they don’t mug pedestrians).

Last year a random person on the street spat at me and called me a stupid cow because I was cycling my kids on a clearly marked cycle path. Should I start posting about how pedestrians are ruining our town?

I disagree.

It feels rare and notable when you see a cyclist not behaving like a total bellend. E bike or road bike.

  • Going through red lights - particularly at pedestrian crossings
  • Using the pavements at speed
  • Expecting vulnerable pavement / path users to immediately get out of their way

the split for cyclists is only 50 / 50 dickhead to non - at absolute best! It’s no wonder they have a bad name whereas for drivers and walkers it might be 30 / 70.

Tortycatlover · 13/10/2025 21:47

I cycle on the pavements. There are too many potholes in the road - I feel my brain rattling in my skull. Also no cycle lanes. I do agree re the illegal e-scooters tho.

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 13/10/2025 21:51

Tortycatlover · 13/10/2025 21:47

I cycle on the pavements. There are too many potholes in the road - I feel my brain rattling in my skull. Also no cycle lanes. I do agree re the illegal e-scooters tho.

That's a cunty thing to do and you know it.

I wonder what that makes you.

LameBorzoi · 14/10/2025 11:49

ChardonnaysBeastlyCat · 13/10/2025 21:51

That's a cunty thing to do and you know it.

I wonder what that makes you.

Because it's impossible to ride on the roads.

If there were actual usable cycle lanes or paths (and 99% are not useable) then people wouldn't ride on the pavements.

LameBorzoi · 14/10/2025 11:52

valianttortoise · 12/10/2025 22:50

It's so frustrating. If cyclists are too frightened to go on the road then answer is to walk not to ruin life for those on pavements.

Well no, because walking won't get me where my bike will get me. The whole reason for having a bike is that I can go much faster and therefore further than on foot.

In theory. If there was anywhere safe to ride.

LameBorzoi · 14/10/2025 11:56

WeNeedToTalkAboutIT · 13/10/2025 15:30

And another here wondering if you're talking about Cambridge. It's a lovely city and I live 10 minutes away but I avoid it like the plague. I'm generally a happy confident driver but I stopped driving into Cambridge in the evening sometimes (no park and ride late enough) because it was so stressful trying to avoid all the cyclists in the dark. I seemed to be much more concerned about avoiding injuring a cyclist than the cyclists ever seemed concerned about being hit!

Edited

Excellent. Keep the cars out!

LameBorzoi · 14/10/2025 12:17

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 13/10/2025 00:25

Quite tight
Cyclists saying they are too frightened on the roads should not be then endangering and scaring pedestrians

They need to Walk or keep to the roads or cycle paths

Edited

What cycle paths?

Ans walking isn't a useful form of transport above about 3 or 4 km. Bikes get you much further.

TonTonMacoute · 14/10/2025 12:47

Your city sounds like mine. The issue isn’t cyclists, or cycle lanes. It’s rampant anti-social, and often criminal, behaviour from youths.

This! Why blame cyclists? Cyclists are told by police that if their bikes are stolen it's tough shit!

Criminal pond life are the problem in our cities, not cyclists.

LameBorzoi · 14/10/2025 12:47

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 12/10/2025 16:46

I think this concretes my theory that being a cyclist is a mentality. As in to be a cyclist is to be a certain way. It's to be a bully, arrogant, smarmy and intellectually bereft.

(I'm not including leisurely bike riders or the elderly who like to pop to the shops on their bikes.)

All of the traits that make for a miserable society. I think that cyclists and motorcyclists, basically anyone whose main mode of travel is on two wheels instead of four, became emboldened when the Highway Code changes took effect. That two wheels can legally sit in the middle of the lane and hold traffic up, because they apparently deserve to be higher up in the pecking order. More vulnerable road users because they chose to not surround themselves with metal.

Don't get me started on takeaway food riders, or as I call them slop couriers. I've had more than my fair share of nearly being knocked over by them or waxed across the street by them. They have no sense of direction.

Just my two pence.

Edited

I don't think it's arrogant to take up your space on the road. A car has no more right to the road than a bike or motorcycle.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 14/10/2025 12:56

LameBorzoi · 14/10/2025 12:47

I don't think it's arrogant to take up your space on the road. A car has no more right to the road than a bike or motorcycle.

Cyclists act like they own the road, so I guess the roads belong to them now.

LameBorzoi · 14/10/2025 13:08

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 14/10/2025 12:56

Cyclists act like they own the road, so I guess the roads belong to them now.

Every time I've come across people complaining about cyclists "acting like they own the road" it's been about cyclists just taking up the space on the road that they are legally entitled to have.

Honestly, if you cycle on the road, it's "terrible cyclists holding up traffic".

Cycle on shared paths and it's "hooligan cyclists terrorising pedestrians".

You can't win.

BrownTroutBluesAgain · 14/10/2025 13:13

LameBorzoi · 14/10/2025 12:17

What cycle paths?

Ans walking isn't a useful form of transport above about 3 or 4 km. Bikes get you much further.

Agree and I’m not denying that

I was pointing out the irony

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