Ah but you see OP, I cannot for the life of me understand why Lou Sanders has got anywhere near a TV screen. She finds herself hilarious and thinks she’s the height of wit by desperately trying to to make sexual references where there are none to be had. I am utterly bewildered how she is considered to be any form of entertainment.
Maisy Adams seems a nice lass and very grounded but no funnier than any of your mates down the pub. Not really sure how she’s on TV either tbh, but I don’t object to her like Lou Sanders. Wouldn’t ever list her as someone I find particularly funny though.
I like most of the others on your list although I think Joe Lycett has lost his edge. Stewart Lee has the odd funny moment but is the biggest ego-wanker in town.
I find RR genuinely hilarious - he has a natural wit. I would say there’s a similarity to Richard Ayoade so it’s strange that you like one but not the other.
I think you’re misunderstanding RR’s humour - he doesn’t belittle his wife and mother in the slightest, it’s almost the reverse. He tells stories that make him look like a bit of a dick - he doesn’t have any ego.
I’m not a massive fan of him using his kids as the joke but that would be my only criticism - and it’s very clear that it’s hugely over exaggerated for comedic effect - that’s the schtick.
You’d probably get a better sense of who he is if you watched him for a while; I can see how first impressions might be a bit different.
Ultimately though humour is subjective. We’re never all going to agree on who’s funny and it’s good that a wide variety of tastes are now well-catered for.