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Horrified by school dinners!

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WillieverlearnQ · 09/10/2025 11:22

I went to my daughter’s school yesterday for dinner with the parents. All they had was two scoops of mash (my daughter did say that it is usually just one scoop) the thinnest slice of turkey I have ever seen and a tablespoon of carrots with a drizzle of watery gravy. With a tiny pot of ice cream. When I was at school it was nothing like this.

She has been asking for packed lunches for a long time but I’ve always refused. But today and going forward I will always make her a proper lunch.

It just make’s you question what on earth is going on? How can that be a sufficient for a child at school for 6 hours. Also why on earth are parents paying £3 for such a terrible meal.

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PeenaM · 10/10/2025 18:37

Gummyjellymix · 10/10/2025 18:27

my daughters school had a lunch taster day for parents. The food was delicious!
I check the menu weekly and the options look great. An example is on Monday it was lentil curry with rice and a samosa. On Tuesdays roast chicken with potatoes and carrots and peas. Desserts are things like ice cream, crackers and cheese, treacle pudding, jelly and fruit etc.

The menu at my school sounds great too. When you see it or taste it on a ‘normal’ day it’s really not

Mcoco · 10/10/2025 18:41

WillieverlearnQ · 09/10/2025 13:02

We’re in Shropshire! It’s not just the portion size though it’s just generally poorly quality food you get better in prison. My daughter said it’s awful only meal she enjoys is pizza day. As soon as she gets in the car she’s crying saying she is hungry and keeps getting headaches.

Some of her meals below.

I work in a school and all the schools i have worked in the lunches look revolting. The photos you have uploaded are typical school dinners. My kids now grownup always had pack lunches. My sixteen year old still does and I dont blame her!

PistachioTiramisu · 10/10/2025 18:42

I had lovely lunches at my school - cooked mince with rice, meat patties, roast beef and YP, stew and puds such as lemon meringue pie, chocolate sponge with chocolate sauce, blackcurrant pies with custard, lemon curd tart, the most gorgeous rice pudding or semolina - which I still love now. It's a shame schools now don't provide the variety - what child wants bloody salad for lunch?

ERthree · 10/10/2025 18:43

Considering it is lunch and not dinner i don't see what the problem is. Nice to see the children have plates instead of prison trays.

Altron · 10/10/2025 18:47

What a lovely thing it would be to have Japanese style freshly cooked lunches made from scratch with proper actual food and not the (generally) insipid stuff that is usually served. Probably turn out a bit cheaper too..especially in the long run with the childrens

Gwenhwyfar · 10/10/2025 18:50

ERthree · 10/10/2025 18:43

Considering it is lunch and not dinner i don't see what the problem is. Nice to see the children have plates instead of prison trays.

It's school DINNER

Gwenhwyfar · 10/10/2025 18:51

Altron · 10/10/2025 18:47

What a lovely thing it would be to have Japanese style freshly cooked lunches made from scratch with proper actual food and not the (generally) insipid stuff that is usually served. Probably turn out a bit cheaper too..especially in the long run with the childrens

The Japanese kids cook their own meals don't they? I don't see that going well on here where people are always worried about home made food.

PistachioTiramisu · 10/10/2025 18:52

Gwenhwyfar · 10/10/2025 18:50

It's school DINNER

No, it's LUNCH! Eaten at lunchtime. Dinner is in the evening.

Gwenhwyfar · 10/10/2025 18:52

Anne635 · 10/10/2025 18:36

School dinners vary a lot from school to school. However I think one has to bear in mind that they're meant to keep pupils going and aren't intended to be a substantial meal.

I think they ARE intended to be a substantial meal. However, I'm not expert enough to tell whether that's enough food for a seven year old or not.

friendsDisUnited · 10/10/2025 18:53

ThisMellowCat · 10/10/2025 18:22

I worked for the company that delivered the food for school meals and took the orders from the cook. 3 years back I was told that each child has a costing of 73 pence so paying £3 for a meal speaks for itself.
I know they used to rinse tins of beans to use in chilli con carne as they couldn’t afford the others in the budget.
the other problem is the kitchen staff are told what to cook, so whereas years ago the cook had control they now have none

Surely the staff costs and costs of running a kitchen make up the difference?

Strawberrydelight78 · 10/10/2025 18:54

PixieandMe · 09/10/2025 11:58

Just another example of an area in which we have gone backwards!

School lunches were all home cooked on the premises and plentiful in the 80’s.

Not always my infant school in the 80's were outside caterers. Never even had a serving hatch they were dished out from metal hot cabinets on those awful section trays in the school hall. The year I left they were putting a kitchen in. Juniors did have it's own kitchen but it was newly built when I started. The first year part of school wasn't finished so we had a few months in the old school and had to walk to the new school for our dinner.

Ellejay67 · 10/10/2025 18:54

Gwenhwyfar · 10/10/2025 18:20

It's school 'dinner' i.e. supposed to be the main meal of the day.
Having said that, it's not clear to me that that is not enough food for a seven year old as I don't have one.

The main meal of the day should be in the evening with the family.

angela1952 · 10/10/2025 18:56

My GD doesn't much like much on the school menus, my DD often orders a jacket potato and tuna, but apparently the potato is very small and she usually comes home really hungry.

My GS doesn't like the food much either and usually comes home saying that he left it all - he's only 6, you'd think that somebody would keep an eye out to check that the younger ones were eating something.

Gwenhwyfar · 10/10/2025 18:57

Ellejay67 · 10/10/2025 18:54

The main meal of the day should be in the evening with the family.

Who says?
It's called school dinner for a reason.

Gwenhwyfar · 10/10/2025 18:59

PistachioTiramisu · 10/10/2025 18:52

No, it's LUNCH! Eaten at lunchtime. Dinner is in the evening.

No. Dinner is the main meal, no matter when it's eaten. Look into the history of school dinners.

YourPeppyAmberTraybake · 10/10/2025 19:00

Gwenhwyfar · 10/10/2025 18:29

School dinners, school dinners,
Concrete chips, concrete chips,
Soggy semolina, soggy semolina.
I feel sick. Bathroom quick.

😆😆😆

angela1952 · 10/10/2025 19:04

CaptainMyCaptain · 09/10/2025 13:19

Not all schools have kitchens so this isn't true.

My children used to get really great school lunches cooked on the premises in the 1980's and 90's until the local authority decreed that the meals would in future be cooked off the premises and then warmed up in individual portions using expensive newly installed ovens in the school kitchens. The meals were dire, dried up, small and unpleasant. By the end of the term most children were taking packed lunches instead.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 10/10/2025 19:05

vickylou78 · 10/10/2025 18:20

Assuming this is primary school Ilthese look ok to me. They shouldn't be having adult sized portions. Think lots of people have forgotten what actual healthy portions are.

I think some have forgotten what the applied concept of PR/advertising looks like. That is what the catering company has put on specifically to encourage parents to keep on paying for meals, not what the children will be getting once their parents believe that's what is on offer and the catering company's income increases.

And then you'll have parents thinking 'well, you would have had a proper meal at lunchtime, so all you need is a bit of toast'.

CurlyhairedAssassin · 10/10/2025 19:08

Han86 · 09/10/2025 13:28

Those meals look fine. As someone else has mentioned the issue is fussy eating and children not eating everything on the plate. That's why many go hungry as most of their lunch goes in the bin.
There is only so much you can do at lunchtime to encourage children to eat more, you can't force them to eat and if you aren't careful some parents will complain if you ask a child to try something they say they don't like.
If you let the teacher know the child isn't eating their lunch they can talk to the parent, but lots still order (especially KS1 because it's free).
Roast dinner day is an excellent example of parents ordering the food for their little ones but them only eating the Yorkshire pudding and possibly a bit of the meat. The veg all goes in the bin, along with potatoes for far too many children.
Even fish finger day isn't a win, with peas going in the bin.

This is my experience too. A lot of small chilldren are very fussy. at my school there is a lot of waste. Add onto that a very noisy and packed dining hall, a very short time to get them all fed, the lure of fun on the playground, and many children don't want to bother eating much at all. They take a few mouthfuls at breakneck speed and then they're trying to scrape the rest of it in the bin so they can go out and run round with their mates.

We once had a school cook who was Italian and had a second job in a restaurant in town at the weekend. He was horrified at what he was supposed to cook for the children and he came in full of big idea for how he was going to cook better things for them. The children wouldn't eat most of the stuff he cooked, and he didn't last long. Sad.

ThisKindAmberLemur · 10/10/2025 19:12

WillieverlearnQ · 09/10/2025 11:22

I went to my daughter’s school yesterday for dinner with the parents. All they had was two scoops of mash (my daughter did say that it is usually just one scoop) the thinnest slice of turkey I have ever seen and a tablespoon of carrots with a drizzle of watery gravy. With a tiny pot of ice cream. When I was at school it was nothing like this.

She has been asking for packed lunches for a long time but I’ve always refused. But today and going forward I will always make her a proper lunch.

It just make’s you question what on earth is going on? How can that be a sufficient for a child at school for 6 hours. Also why on earth are parents paying £3 for such a terrible meal.

This is what privatisation looks like - and tastes like.

Nevermotivated · 10/10/2025 19:14

Yours look great compared to my DSs primary...He took a photo of his meal to explain why he was so hungry after school. I think it's supposed to be chicken nuggets & chips. Where's the bloody veg??

Horrified by school dinners!
Goditsmemargaret · 10/10/2025 19:16

I'm sorry but I don't see the problem here. The meals have one starchy carb, protein and veg. The portion size also looks fine.

I would be happy with that for my child.

However I'm based in Ireland where school dinners isn't a standard thing. We either send the teens in with sandwiches or they buy something in school; it's rolls and wedges. All crap.

My lo is in primary and they have started providing lunches which I'm happy about so she's getting pasta, potatoes, chicken, veg. They also get fruit and veg. It's a new initiative which i am very happy about.

ETA : their food gets delivered in boxes after you choose on an online menu and what isn't eaten is sent home. Some parents were moaning about the food being sent home but I think it's the right policy - why should the school have to accommodate fussy eaters. We also (collectively) got a lot a stern word about food waste. We were told it's up to us to encourage our children to select meals they are willing to try.

TimeforAH · 10/10/2025 19:19

Nevermotivated · 10/10/2025 19:14

Yours look great compared to my DSs primary...He took a photo of his meal to explain why he was so hungry after school. I think it's supposed to be chicken nuggets & chips. Where's the bloody veg??

I'm more concerned that your DS has his phone at school and us allowed to take photos.

Safeguarding?

Pigriver · 10/10/2025 19:21

I went for a :family lunch at my kids school. I (and my child) were served the following
Half a bread roll with tuna mayo (Warburton sliced roll size)
3 cucumber sticks
A cookie

I took one look at it, gave my child my portion and ate on the way home. He took packed lunches from the next day (and this is even though lunches are free for another year)

Thevalueofeverythingandthecostofnothing · 10/10/2025 19:27

Well maybe the Dept of Ed could use some of the millions in VAT they squeeze out of parents of children in the private sector….so we can pay for our children’s food, your children’s food and free up some space in the overcrowded classrooms….we’re the embodiment of privileged evil

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