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Horrified by school dinners!

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WillieverlearnQ · 09/10/2025 11:22

I went to my daughter’s school yesterday for dinner with the parents. All they had was two scoops of mash (my daughter did say that it is usually just one scoop) the thinnest slice of turkey I have ever seen and a tablespoon of carrots with a drizzle of watery gravy. With a tiny pot of ice cream. When I was at school it was nothing like this.

She has been asking for packed lunches for a long time but I’ve always refused. But today and going forward I will always make her a proper lunch.

It just make’s you question what on earth is going on? How can that be a sufficient for a child at school for 6 hours. Also why on earth are parents paying £3 for such a terrible meal.

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dunroamingfornow · 09/10/2025 13:26

PixieandMe · 09/10/2025 11:58

Just another example of an area in which we have gone backwards!

School lunches were all home cooked on the premises and plentiful in the 80’s.

Not sure they were . Isn’t that also when Margaret Thatcher removed the free school milk ?

TheatricalLife · 09/10/2025 13:26

Is she hungry because she isn't actually finishing the plate OP? DD wouldn't have touched the majority of it, so would have come home wanting something else. DS would have eaten the lot.
Lunch boxes were a much better choice for us.

APatternGrammar · 09/10/2025 13:26

I was surprised how large the portions were in the photos after your description. This is the quantity I give my 7 year olds at home. I am quite shocked by the ice-cream though, our school wouldn’t serve that.
At our school the kids can go up for seconds, do you know if they can at yours? Or perhaps your daughter could even if it’s not the usual thing. I can imagine a lot of food would be wasted if the standard portion was larger than the one you have shown.

childrenwatchthefools · 09/10/2025 13:27

Those meals look fine? I don’t see the problem. If you’re giving her breakfast and a decent meal in the evening those are more than fine.

Digdongdoo · 09/10/2025 13:28

Those meals look alright to me, standard school lunches. My 5 year old wouldn't finish, 9yo would probably be getting hungry by the time we got home.

Han86 · 09/10/2025 13:28

Those meals look fine. As someone else has mentioned the issue is fussy eating and children not eating everything on the plate. That's why many go hungry as most of their lunch goes in the bin.
There is only so much you can do at lunchtime to encourage children to eat more, you can't force them to eat and if you aren't careful some parents will complain if you ask a child to try something they say they don't like.
If you let the teacher know the child isn't eating their lunch they can talk to the parent, but lots still order (especially KS1 because it's free).
Roast dinner day is an excellent example of parents ordering the food for their little ones but them only eating the Yorkshire pudding and possibly a bit of the meat. The veg all goes in the bin, along with potatoes for far too many children.
Even fish finger day isn't a win, with peas going in the bin.

MiddleAgedDread · 09/10/2025 13:29

manicpixieschemegirl · 09/10/2025 13:24

School dinners are largely cheap, processed, unseasoned slop - as evidenced by your photos. Packed lunches going forward.

It's probably less processed than the contents of most primary aged packed lunches!

Deadringer · 09/10/2025 13:31

I dont have any experience of school dinners but I think they look like good value for 3 quid.

peakedat40 · 09/10/2025 13:31

PixieandMe · 09/10/2025 11:58

Just another example of an area in which we have gone backwards!

School lunches were all home cooked on the premises and plentiful in the 80’s.

Oh come on. No they were not! Ours were revolting.

There’s a big variation. DS is four and so his are free and they sound nice from the menu but I don’t know if if is like hospital food and sounds nicer than it is! The ones at the school I work in are mostly fast food style; pasta pots, burgers, nuggets, not great really.

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 09/10/2025 13:31

They would do me for lunch tbh! Plenty of food there.

GardenGladness23 · 09/10/2025 13:31

My school dinners at high school were amazing, I don't know how they did it. They were so yummy, would 100% gladly eat today. It wasn't a fee paying school either before anyone asks.

There was always the standard pizza chips burgers etc.

But also a jacket potato bar (done properly in the black braiziers), a really nice salad bar - very fresh, not just mayo full options, pre made (but onsite) sandwiches, a meat and two veg main meal and proper pudding, plus a more contemporary main meal like individual lasagnes, moussaka or chicken pasta bake in ramekins, bean burgers and chicken burgers that were essentially a chicken breast - not reformed, with lettuce and sliced tomato.

DiscoBob · 09/10/2025 13:35

Arlanymor · 09/10/2025 12:02

They were not. 1980 was when it all started to go wrong - Margaret Thatcher abolished minimum nutritional standards for school meals, resulting in an increase in the use of processed/mass produced food. I remember the 'Brakes Brothers' truck coming to my primary school once a week...

Yeah I was in primary through the 80s and survived on grated cheese and grated carrots. And syrup sponge.

Paddington5 · 09/10/2025 13:35

Tell DD to look and see if anyone is eating their dinner -I bet they are.
That looks ok to me. Kids are so fussy now - the ones eating it will be the hungry ones.

peakedat40 · 09/10/2025 13:36

Tbh it doesn’t look great to me. The portions are OK, but it doesn’t look appetising at all. I wouldn’t especially want to eat it.

FancyCatSlave · 09/10/2025 13:36

Depends on the school. At ours they can usually have seconds eg on roast dinner day there is always more roast potatoes and vegetables available. It’s a small school though and the staff go around the tables offering out more. Appreciate that’s not feasible in a large school set up.
There’s only 68 kids at ours, food cooked on site and it is nice.

Standard portion isn’t enormous but good enough for KS1. I can imagine some Year 5/6 may find it small though. We will move to a mix of lacked lunch and hot meals once we have to pay for it.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/10/2025 13:36

They are the best meals the kids will have all year. Because parents were coming in.

CatsorDogsrule · 09/10/2025 13:37

Sugargliderwombat · 09/10/2025 12:01

I think the problem is that parents think they might have had better food than they had and just give them a light tea. If they think they've had a big jacket potayo with toppings, a side of veg and access to a salad bar they might only think they need some cheese on toast for dinner. But in reality they've had half a small potato a tablespoon of beans, a teaspoon of cremated peas and a quick glance at a salad bar that only has yesterday's congealed green beans and a bit of wilted lettuce.

I always feel sad when I hear parents saying that they've had a hot meal, so only need a small dinner at home. You are so right, portions can be tiny, especially for the older children who are served later when food tends to run out!

I used to cook/ serve school lunches as cover for the regular staff. I worked for a very large national school catering company, mostly on the admin side, but also was fully trained for the food safety aspect.

MatronPomfrey · 09/10/2025 13:37

It isn’t to last a child for 6 hours. It’s from when they have lunch, until they finish school which is 2-3 hours. Breakfast before school, mid-morning snack at break, lunch and then mine had something small after school to keep them going until their evening meal.

Arlanymor · 09/10/2025 13:38

DiscoBob · 09/10/2025 13:35

Yeah I was in primary through the 80s and survived on grated cheese and grated carrots. And syrup sponge.

Indeed - I don't think that the mash we used to eat had ever even met a potato. Flakes with water, mystery meat and then packet sponge with either brown, pink or yellow custard. I say brown, pink or yellow because they all tasted the same 'general' flavour.

OpheliaHamlet · 09/10/2025 13:38

Those portions look perfectly normal.
As for quality of food, looks exactly like what I had in 90s/00s. Pretty standard slop.

Winteriscoming80 · 09/10/2025 13:39

PixieandMe · 09/10/2025 11:58

Just another example of an area in which we have gone backwards!

School lunches were all home cooked on the premises and plentiful in the 80’s.

Loved my school dinners as a kid

TwistyTurnip · 09/10/2025 13:39

BoredZelda · 09/10/2025 11:27

School dinners were never fine dining. Their role is to get the kids through the afternoon, not provide a gourmet experience. The law says they must meet some standard of nutritional value and they do. If your child wants a packed lunch then do that. School dinners are perfectly fine for those who want/need to use them. They are also free for a whole load of kids which is very welcome.

The original poster clearly says in her post it’s the meagre portions she is worried about. Where has she said anything in her post about fine dining? Did you actually read her post???

ArtTheClownIsNotAMime · 09/10/2025 13:41

peakedat40 · 09/10/2025 13:36

Tbh it doesn’t look great to me. The portions are OK, but it doesn’t look appetising at all. I wouldn’t especially want to eat it.

They have around £2.53 for each pupil, which needs to pay for ingredients, labour, and equipment. You can't expect more.

MissingTrees · 09/10/2025 13:41

Having seen your photos, those meals look absolutely fine to me in terms of quantity.

The quality doesn't look any worse than my primary school dinners, which I remember being horrible (1960s). As others have said, school dinners have never been fine dining so I'm not sure what you expected.

muggart · 09/10/2025 13:41

Ice cream? I thought schools weren’t allowed to give junk food anymore?

The rest of it looks fine to me. Meat, veg and a carb. What’s wrong with that?