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AIBU to get visceral ick from...

335 replies

Chopbob · 07/10/2025 14:42

People using the word gosh, or golly gosh.

I have never in real life heard anyone other than MN posters and Disney princesses use gosh. It's absolutely vile.

It can get in the bin along with moist, supper and plonk (wine).

(Lighthearted of course)

OP posts:
TheFallenMadonna · 07/10/2025 15:27

Catpiece · 07/10/2025 15:20

Because the other is more honest.

What does this mean? Do you think people who say it are actively suppressing their preferred vocab as they do so?

Onefortheroad25 · 07/10/2025 15:28

I think you need to be genuinely posh and really rich to get away with saying gosh or golly gosh. I don’t know anyone who says it! I think it’s popular in the royal family.
I hate when people say super in front of other words. Super-happy, super- excited, super-expensive.

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 07/10/2025 15:29

Why does moist always, ALWAYS come up on threads like this? It's not that bad. I think it's just that it has been cited so many times as a disliked word that it is the one that springs most readily to mind when we try to think of words we hate.

Doggybroc · 07/10/2025 15:29

TheFallenMadonna · 07/10/2025 15:27

What does this mean? Do you think people who say it are actively suppressing their preferred vocab as they do so?

I think @Catpiece is probably best ignored on the basis of that nugget of a post.

There’ll be very little hope of getting through!

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 15:29

I say gosh in front of people I think might be offended by Oh God, and I say it a lot! Also, when I was teaching it was very useful.

I’ve never understood the issue with moist - I’m sure it’s the concept rather than the word which people don’t like.

i can never remember the words I don’t like until I hear them. My favourite words are : cracking (as in fabulous), critter and beast - so much more fun than ‘animal’.

CoolFineDoneWicked · 07/10/2025 15:29

Question for the Christians:

Why is Gosh such a snowflake? Hasn't he got better things to do than give you black marks for swearing? And can't he tell that you're doing it in your head anyway, even if you're saying "sugar", or whatever?

TheFallenMadonna · 07/10/2025 15:30

Onefortheroad25 · 07/10/2025 15:28

I think you need to be genuinely posh and really rich to get away with saying gosh or golly gosh. I don’t know anyone who says it! I think it’s popular in the royal family.
I hate when people say super in front of other words. Super-happy, super- excited, super-expensive.

What do you mean, get away with it?

Doggybroc · 07/10/2025 15:30

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 07/10/2025 15:29

Why does moist always, ALWAYS come up on threads like this? It's not that bad. I think it's just that it has been cited so many times as a disliked word that it is the one that springs most readily to mind when we try to think of words we hate.

A bit like Shawshank Redemption and “what’s your favourite film”!!

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 15:30

Oh yes…actually, ick gives me the ick.

Doggybroc · 07/10/2025 15:31

Onefortheroad25 · 07/10/2025 15:28

I think you need to be genuinely posh and really rich to get away with saying gosh or golly gosh. I don’t know anyone who says it! I think it’s popular in the royal family.
I hate when people say super in front of other words. Super-happy, super- excited, super-expensive.

I say super a lot

“super keen to catch up” for example 🤷‍♀️

MaryBeardsShoes · 07/10/2025 15:31

Do you know the meaning of the word “vile”? Just seems like a massive overreaction to “gosh.”

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 15:32

Onefortheroad25 · 07/10/2025 15:28

I think you need to be genuinely posh and really rich to get away with saying gosh or golly gosh. I don’t know anyone who says it! I think it’s popular in the royal family.
I hate when people say super in front of other words. Super-happy, super- excited, super-expensive.

No - I sound quite posh but I have lots of mates with all kinds of accents and they say gosh too.

Very useful word - I recommend it to you!😄

gannett · 07/10/2025 15:33

I will never understand how these people who have visceral over-reactions to normal, commonplace words but happily use "ick" - about the most babyish and increasingly meaningless slang words there is around.

SuspiciousTimes · 07/10/2025 15:33

Chopbob · 07/10/2025 14:42

People using the word gosh, or golly gosh.

I have never in real life heard anyone other than MN posters and Disney princesses use gosh. It's absolutely vile.

It can get in the bin along with moist, supper and plonk (wine).

(Lighthearted of course)

I’m with you on ‘plonk’! Hate it.
It comes a close second to ‘holibobs’ 🤢

Amasinglelady · 07/10/2025 15:34

I once called off a romance with a nice and decent man purely because he used the word prolly 🙁

He'd written it in a text message and it's my number one ick inducing word but worse still if coming from a man.

He never knew the real reason he was ditched.

Ablushingcrow · 07/10/2025 15:34

I don't like the word moist, and much to my 'dismay', I went to have my smear with a new Nurse Moise, pronounced moist without the t.

smallglassbottle · 07/10/2025 15:34

CoolFineDoneWicked · 07/10/2025 15:29

Question for the Christians:

Why is Gosh such a snowflake? Hasn't he got better things to do than give you black marks for swearing? And can't he tell that you're doing it in your head anyway, even if you're saying "sugar", or whatever?

It's about showing respect and refraining from blasphemy as well. We're supposed to have control over ourselves and not stray from the path. I do still swear sometimes, but only when very upset.

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 07/10/2025 15:35

The very best 'toy swearword' is blimey. I bet loads of you hate it but I love it.

An American heard me say blimey once and he was thrilled - a bit like he had just met the chimney sweep from Mary Poppins in real life.

Catpiece · 07/10/2025 15:35

Doggybroc · 07/10/2025 15:29

I think @Catpiece is probably best ignored on the basis of that nugget of a post.

There’ll be very little hope of getting through!

Yeh. You do you.

Mrmrowlchops · 07/10/2025 15:35

You rarely hear a man say gosh. I think it's a very feminine exclamation.

OriginalSkang · 07/10/2025 15:36

Meal, turns my stomach. Did you enjoy your meal? Bleurgh

Amasinglelady · 07/10/2025 15:37

@SuspiciousTimes

🫤 Yes holibobs comes a very close second to that other one I mentioned 🫤🙄

OriginalSkang · 07/10/2025 15:37

I will judge you as a person if you use holibobs

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 15:38

CoolFineDoneWicked · 07/10/2025 15:29

Question for the Christians:

Why is Gosh such a snowflake? Hasn't he got better things to do than give you black marks for swearing? And can't he tell that you're doing it in your head anyway, even if you're saying "sugar", or whatever?

I’m not a believer but…honestly, you’re overthinking this. People say all kinds of things for no reason. Let it go.

Lots of expressions derive from religious oaths or euphemisms to avoid blasphemy:

Cor blimey- was originally May God blind me
Goodbye - originally God be with ye
Crikey - euphemism for Christ

All fascinating bits of history!

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 15:38

CoolFineDoneWicked · 07/10/2025 15:22

The very worst would be a hearty nourishing soup. Ideally consumed out of a mug held with both hands, like a giant toddler.

One of those soup mugs from the 70s/80s which had a design in orange and browns that included the recipe for specific soups.

I’m actually making myself angry just thinking about this shit.

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