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AIBU to get visceral ick from...

335 replies

Chopbob · 07/10/2025 14:42

People using the word gosh, or golly gosh.

I have never in real life heard anyone other than MN posters and Disney princesses use gosh. It's absolutely vile.

It can get in the bin along with moist, supper and plonk (wine).

(Lighthearted of course)

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ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 07/10/2025 17:24

blimmin heck is another lovely one.

I might make that my signature swear.

TessTickle0 · 07/10/2025 17:27

Hate when people say "give your head a wobble" Hate it so much

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 17:29

VictoriaEra · 07/10/2025 16:27

I agree. Didn’t it come from Miranda Hart?

No, people have hated it since long before that. There’s a Canadian grunge band called Moist. My friends and I saw them live once or twice when they toured in the UK and everyone - everyone! - said ‘Eww, what a horrible name for a band, I hate that word’ when we told them about it. That was over 30 years ago.

ruethewhirl · 07/10/2025 17:29

CoolFineDoneWicked · 07/10/2025 15:22

The very worst would be a hearty nourishing soup. Ideally consumed out of a mug held with both hands, like a giant toddler.

Especially if it was 'tasty'. #cringes I don't know why, but I really hate that word! (I hate 'flavoursome' too though, so I'm kind of stuffed really when trying to describe nice food.)

OceanSafari · 07/10/2025 17:31

ObtuseMoose · 07/10/2025 14:48

People declaring anything and everything absolutely vile gets right on my last nerve.

I was going to say this 😂

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 17:32

DreamTheMoors · 07/10/2025 17:23

This makes me laugh - in a good way.

We used to substitute the word “lush” for the word “drunk” — as in, ‘Mrs. Miller* is a lush.”

I don’t know how it started or why or who started it or if it was contained to our small community, but we all used the term.

*Miller is imaginary

’A lush’ is an established word for a drunk - usually a specific kind of drunk, the type who is a bon viveur, maybe someone quite theatrical, rather than a bog-standard alcoholic. So definitely not confined to your community - and it’s been around since at least the 1800s!

SonicBoomInTheRoom · 07/10/2025 17:34

Hollibobs and panties ughhhhh

SonicBoomInTheRoom · 07/10/2025 17:34

Chrimbo as well

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 17:35

ruethewhirl · 07/10/2025 17:29

Especially if it was 'tasty'. #cringes I don't know why, but I really hate that word! (I hate 'flavoursome' too though, so I'm kind of stuffed really when trying to describe nice food.)

Where do you stand on ‘delicious’? I don’t mind it to describe food, but if people use it for anything else I consider it a flogging offence.

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 17:36

SonicBoomInTheRoom · 07/10/2025 17:34

Hollibobs and panties ughhhhh

‘Panties’ is so repellent. If a man used the word ‘panties’ to me, my legs would snap shut immediately, never to part again in his presence. It’s so prissy and unsexy.

1one · 07/10/2025 17:37

I say gosh all the time and I have been known to use the occasional golly. Blummin eck and blimey.

I'm no saint but wasn't brought up to swear (or eff and jeff as my mum used to say). I wince when I hear folk say the see you next tuesday word. My manager sits at her desk effing constantly and she is a lot posher than me, but swears like a sailor! I get the 'ick' listening to her.

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 17:38

Shodan · 07/10/2025 17:14

Moist is a splendid word, one of my favourites. I especially like it in conjunction with the word towelette. Moist towelettes were very popular when I was young.

One word that should be banned is munch or munched. And Jamie Oliver should be prohibited from using turmeric, as he pronounces it 'chewmeric'.

Aaarrrggghh - and people who say ‘nookular’ for nuclear.

Some Americans do it. It’s so illogical. Nuclear is the adjective from the noun nucleus.

BunnyLake · 07/10/2025 17:39

Unorganisedchaos2 · 07/10/2025 15:57

I use gosh as a replacement for fuck, apparently it isn't appropriate to curse like a sailor once you have a small child and I couldn't think of an alternative

Fiddle dee dee? (courtesy of Scarlett O’Hara) 😁

CoffeeCantata · 07/10/2025 17:40

Thought of another one. I don’t like ‘brew’ for a hot brown drink. I cannot tell you why - but it really grates on me.

AbbeyGrange · 07/10/2025 17:41

CoolFineDoneWicked · 07/10/2025 15:22

The very worst would be a hearty nourishing soup. Ideally consumed out of a mug held with both hands, like a giant toddler.

Yes and don't forget to make sure your jumper sleeves cover half your hands..all so bloody predictable isn't it...

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 07/10/2025 17:43

Chopbob · 07/10/2025 14:42

People using the word gosh, or golly gosh.

I have never in real life heard anyone other than MN posters and Disney princesses use gosh. It's absolutely vile.

It can get in the bin along with moist, supper and plonk (wine).

(Lighthearted of course)

I have a visceral dislike of the words

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NotMeNoNo · 07/10/2025 17:43

Going on about things giving you ick is way worse, so YABU.

I think Gosh is one of those things I say occasionally but wouldn't write down. And I've never heard anyone go on about ICK in spoken conversation. Language evolves.

Sharptonguedwoman · 07/10/2025 17:44

augustusglupe · 07/10/2025 14:54

I’m actually with you but I wouldn’t call it vile, it does make me cringe. It’s so bloody twee.

I worked in an environment where swearing was absolutely not acceptable. I used golly and the like. A bit Enid Blyton but harmless.
if we’re talking ick then hubs, hubby, hubster, veggies can join the ick list please.

gottalottodo · 07/10/2025 17:46

Doggybroc · 07/10/2025 14:45

Personally I’m not keen on “Ick”!

Yes I’m with you. It sounds like toddler speak!

AInightingale · 07/10/2025 17:47

BauhausOfEliott · 07/10/2025 17:36

‘Panties’ is so repellent. If a man used the word ‘panties’ to me, my legs would snap shut immediately, never to part again in his presence. It’s so prissy and unsexy.

What is the most acceptable word for these...garments? I hate them all. Though I don't mind 'drawers' actually.

And 'gusset' is monstrous.

ToWhitToWhoo · 07/10/2025 17:48

I like gosh; my dear late dad used to say it.

Don't mind the other words on your list.

My detested words are 'holibobs',. 'famalam', 'Chrimbo', ;making memories'; and 'Happy birthday' if its said to me!

AbbeyGrange · 07/10/2025 17:50

gottalottodo · 07/10/2025 17:46

Yes I’m with you. It sounds like toddler speak!

The same as anyone over the age of 5 using the word 'tummy'

SonicBoomInTheRoom · 07/10/2025 17:53

Hospical (hospital) or bockle (bottle). Stop it.

Nana4 · 07/10/2025 17:55

I’ve always blamed Bob Geldof for the decline in the English language and increase in the acceptance of swearing in general, the F word in particular.
Swearing was generally thought of as the domain of low and uneducated people, and probably all male groups, but certainly not in public.

Given that I have, this afternoon, had a conversation with my 4yr old granddaughter, who has only been at school for a month, as to why it is unacceptable for her to be looking for her “ fucking horse” I wish we still had some standards.

AbbeyGrange · 07/10/2025 17:55

'Holibobs' is another made up word that should be banned for all eternity...

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