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...to think that this expresson is dying out?

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WalkDontWalk · 05/10/2025 14:25

On another thread someone used the expression 'taking the mick'. And I thought, 'I used to hear that all the time when I was a kid. But I rarely do now.'

So I started to think of others that my dad used but my kids don't.

'Having a kip' or 'I was akip'.

'Yikes' (My daughter says I'm the only non-cartoon that says 'yikes'.)

'Swinging the lead'

'Bunking off'. (Daughter: 'Never heard that. Sounds rude')

'Going Dutch' (Daughter. 'Nope. No idea. Is that rude too?')

'Haven't the foggiest.'

These were all in use in London fifty years ago. Maybe they were always regional.

OP posts:
Silverbirchleaf · 05/10/2025 18:25

theDudesmummy · 05/10/2025 18:07

Something I have never heard anyone other than my granny say: "nice weather for ducks" when it was raining all day.

I use that all the time!

DrEmilyCrabtree · 05/10/2025 18:25

Theextraordinaryisintheordinary · 05/10/2025 18:22

My grandma used to refer to Soft Mick a lot. It was always a way of explaining how elaborate a situation was or much much of something someone had. “Well, I looked in her pantry and she had more bags of sugar than Soft Mick!” I’d love to know where it was derived from.

We had soft Joe. And act soft and i'll buy you a coal yard - if someone was coming it a bit.

Another one! In answer to 'I thought' - well you know what thought did. Followed a muck cart and though it was a wedding

CrystalMighty · 05/10/2025 18:26

'Yikes' (My daughter says I'm the only non-cartoon that says 'yikes'.)

'Bunking off'. (Daughter: 'Never heard that. Sounds rude')

These made me laugh 😂

I say things to kids I teach all the time and they look at me blankly. Brain fog has set in though and I can't think of any right now. Will pop back if they pop back into my head.

SunnieShine · 05/10/2025 18:27

AgnesX · 05/10/2025 15:19

Isn't yikes very 70s and Scooby Doo?! I've never heard anyone use it in real life.

That's because you haven't met me. 🤓

ArmySurplusHamster · 05/10/2025 18:28

Mercurial123 · 05/10/2025 15:55

I've never said any of those and I'm in my early 50s. My parents do.

I've also never heard "wow, just wow" ever used in real life only on MN.

If ever I do hear ‘wow, just wow’ in real life, there’s a fair chance I will pour my drink over the utterer’s head.

PunksVersusBrats · 05/10/2025 18:28

Callipygion · 05/10/2025 18:17

I used that just the other day! I was telling someone that I have had a cold and felt rough as a badger’s arse haha

Round us it's mutated into 'rough as a badger's nadgers' 😆

CrystalMighty · 05/10/2025 18:29

OMG @Darragon snap!

And my DF used to say he needed to ‘see a man about a dog’ regularly when I was younger. I constantly thought we were finally getting a puppy.

Sportsdaywinner · 05/10/2025 18:32

I have vague memories of my grandparents and other relatives coming out with various sayings that I never seem to hear these days. Some that come to mind....

Crikey
Good golly
Any road
Go to the foot of our stairs
Flaming hell
Getting on my wick

MysteriousInspector · 05/10/2025 18:33

"Said the bishop/actress to the actress/bishop" to mark an accidental inuendo.

Now it's "that's what she said."

Callipygion · 05/10/2025 18:34

myavocadoisgrowing · 05/10/2025 17:43

This.

I am a CS and about 15 years ago I sent an email to my DH from the work email (no idea why, wouldn’t now!) in which I mentioned I was ‘having a paddy’ about something that was happening at work. He never received it.

A few days later I queried with the IT team where it was. It was quarantined for being offensive!

That was a lesson learned, never sent a private email again after that! (It was common in those days)

I used to have to email the county council about schools things and if you referred to a message you’d received from a head of dept up there they used to get blocked because his first name was Dick!

Tulipvase · 05/10/2025 18:36

I can understand the confusion about Mick being offensive as Mick is an abbreviation of Michael which is a common Irish name and I think Mick is/was used as a derogatory term.

EllatrixB · 05/10/2025 18:36

Heggettypeg · 05/10/2025 18:18

Spend a penny (= to go to the toilet, from when public loos cost an old penny to use)
You're going the right way ( said to a child who was being naughty; "for a thick ear" was implied)
Deuce as a euphemism for devil, e.g. "what the deuce is that?"
I remember being told to "frame", it meant stop messing about, co-operate, get on with it etc. It might be a Yorkshire thing.
"Cloth-ears" as an insult.

My dad still says "spend a penny" as well as "I'm going for a Jimmy Riddle".

Also, a thin person is "like a matchstick with the wood scraped off".

Sidekicksimone · 05/10/2025 18:38

My former flatmate (from Doncaster) had a brilliant phrase, if someone wanted you to do something that was completely unachievable. “He thinks I can get them books marked by tomorrow; he must think I can chew coal and fart flames.” I used it recently in conversation with a casual acquaintance and was met with a politely revolted expression that made me regret my word choice.

ImSoPeopledOut · 05/10/2025 18:40

"Charlie's dead" for a subtle "your slip is showing under your skirt" hint

"Seen more meat on a biscuit" for a very skinny person

BirdShedRevisited · 05/10/2025 18:40

pontipinemum · 05/10/2025 15:12

@mzpq I'm Irish, but born/ part raised around London. As far as I know it's not a slur against Irish people. If it is let me know how so I can fish out my offended hat next time I hear it 😜

@WalkDontWalk swinging the lead is the only one I don't know. What does it mean? Hitting someone?

I'm 37 so wasn't around 50yrs ago to hear that one

Swinging the lead was a nautical term to describe a job given to an injured sailor. If he couldn't do shipwork, he would be given a lead weight on a rope to sound the depth of the water.

TheSilentSister · 05/10/2025 18:41

On asking my Mum, what's for dinner she'd sometimes reply 'bread and pull-it'. It usually meant that she'd no idea what she was going to cook and we should be grateful for anything.

I still say Crikey, a lot. Also Wow. Makes my DS cringe.

Neurodiversitydoctor · 05/10/2025 18:42

OSTMusTisNT · 05/10/2025 16:07

"Do you think I came up the Clyde on a banana boat?"

Haven't heard that for years, not sure if the origins of it?

And,

"Its as much use as a chocolate fireguard/ashtray on a motorbike."

Guessing central heating and vaping will be the demise of these 2.

I say chocolate tea pot Londoner now living in Kent

Michino · 05/10/2025 18:44

TheignT · 05/10/2025 16:32

Oh yes I remember Bill's mother when I was a child. I also wondered who he was.

I was told it referred to Shakespeare, though why his mother was included I've got no idea!

UnctuousUnicorns · 05/10/2025 18:47

@Heggettypeg "You're going the right way ( said to a child who was being naughty; "for a thick ear" was implied)"

We would be told, "You'll get what's coming to you" if we were "working our ticket".

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:47

DrEmilyCrabtree · 05/10/2025 18:22

Your "frame" was 'shape' in my childhood (nw, 1980s). Anyone being a bit wet was told to 'show some shape'.
Familiar with the cast majority of these but Scousers (or environs) - standing there like one of Lewis's (rather than like Piffy)

Also mention of Icky the fire bobby - in answer to who's there/that

It was shap in Lancashire. Shap y’barra.

Fluffyblackcat7 · 05/10/2025 18:50

Svolvaer · 05/10/2025 17:47

One from my grandma - “she’s all fur coat and no knickers”. Someone trying to make out they’re posh and monied when they are just ordinary.

My Granny used this and also 'She was no better than she ought to be.' I think they both meant more specifically that the lady in question had loose morals.

Heggettypeg · 05/10/2025 18:51

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:47

It was shap in Lancashire. Shap y’barra.

Siapo (shape) is still used in that way in Wales, too, at any rate round here where I live.

UnctuousUnicorns · 05/10/2025 18:53

EllatrixB · 05/10/2025 18:36

My dad still says "spend a penny" as well as "I'm going for a Jimmy Riddle".

Also, a thin person is "like a matchstick with the wood scraped off".

We'd say, "He's so thin; he has to run around in the shower to get wet", or "He'd best not step on the plughole".

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:53

Corporation pop - tap water

EllatrixB · 05/10/2025 18:55

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:53

Corporation pop - tap water

Haha yes, this is deffo a Mancunian thing!