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Currently away for the weekend, is this acceptable?

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DBD1975 · 05/10/2025 02:46

Would appreciate views on whether or not I am being unreasonable in thinking en-suite facilities are not acceptable.

We have paid £440 for a weekend break in the UK. I am not happy and asked to move rooms but was told not possible as fully booked.

Don't know if I am being unreasonable and others would find this shower room acceptable or I am not being unreasonable and it is not what others would expect.

Currently away for the weekend, is this acceptable?
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Clumsycorvid · 05/10/2025 11:40

Catsknowbest · 05/10/2025 09:06

Mm. While I kind of understand your annoyance about the wet floor as you weren't sharing. I share a wet room with my husband because thats what we have to have for his needs. However it does not prevent me using the loo or the sink. I have a floor squeegee and it takes about 10 seconds to dry the floor.

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Same with my daughter - floor squeegees are a life saver!

RustedOver · 05/10/2025 11:42

Got the same, but more utilitarian, think council swimming baths, accessible bathroom on a stay in London, I was hoping for a bath, after a long day of travelling, but had a giant scary shower room instead. ( it was enormous)

I was there for a night, so just put up with it.

Yours at least, isn’t so ugly.

I could have had two rugby teams in mine and not noticed.

NebulousDeadline · 05/10/2025 11:43

Doubt the hotel provides a floor squeegee.

Shower curtain just about ok in your own bathroom but not in shared facilities.

RustedOver · 05/10/2025 11:43

Mine had a squeegee thing…for the rugby teams and any other drop ins 🤣

LIZS · 05/10/2025 11:45

Very functional. If you paid for luxury that is what you should find, accessible or not. I’d be surprised if there was no booking confirmation by email though. dh has mobility issues but we don’t need full on accessible accommodation so avoid it, I’m also not a wet-room fan nor do we value roll-top baths, just a good waterfall shower and fluffy towels!

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 05/10/2025 11:45

I dislike wet rooms as the water tends to spray over the toilet seat, but I wouldn't let it ruin a holiday for me.

Clumsycorvid · 05/10/2025 11:46

RustedOver · 05/10/2025 11:43

Mine had a squeegee thing…for the rugby teams and any other drop ins 🤣

🤣🤣

EquinoxQueen · 05/10/2025 11:50

What’s depressing is that the quality gone into this bathroom is substantially less than one of the luxury bathrooms. Just another way people with disabilities are discriminated against. And it wouldn’t take much to put in nice tiles (non slip) and showers to have an equivalent level of provision as other rooms in an accessible format.

if I got that bathroom when promised something by else of course I would be disappointed, but I’m not going to be spending a lot of time in there and would be making use of the spa facilities.

Nanny0gg · 05/10/2025 11:51

NeverDropYourMooncup · 05/10/2025 11:16

I think that people with sight loss wouldn't be particularly overjoyed at a reduction in contrast, anybody at risk of slipping is unenthusiastic about a glass screen to fall through or for when it prevents a carer from being able to access the area at the same time - and if a person exceeds the weight limit, it's better to know in advance than when the seat collapses and they sustain spinal injuries.

Other than that, yeah, take away all the legally required aspects of accessible areas and make it look prettier for you.

I'm sure you can have it legal and functional and still looking better

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 05/10/2025 11:54

I completely agree with @DBD1975
You were shown and booked for a bathroom with a freestanding bath, this is not that!

incognitomouse · 05/10/2025 11:56

EquinoxQueen · 05/10/2025 11:50

What’s depressing is that the quality gone into this bathroom is substantially less than one of the luxury bathrooms. Just another way people with disabilities are discriminated against. And it wouldn’t take much to put in nice tiles (non slip) and showers to have an equivalent level of provision as other rooms in an accessible format.

if I got that bathroom when promised something by else of course I would be disappointed, but I’m not going to be spending a lot of time in there and would be making use of the spa facilities.

This thought ALWAYS crosses my mind. Why does accessible = bland and boring. It looks like a hospital ensuite.

skyeisthelimit · 05/10/2025 11:57

They would have emailed booking confirmation and that should have stated it was an accessible room. So if you can prove to them it's not what you booked then maybe they can do something about it

ShadyPinesMa · 05/10/2025 11:57

Rocknrollstar · 05/10/2025 07:26

I prefer a walk-in shower to a bath and £440 for a weekend is not going to buy luxury.

It's not your trip though so your preference isn't relevant.
And £440 was enough to buy the level of luxury that OP was happy with, considering she liked the look of the bathrooms they were actually advertising. So what's the point of this comment?

Dliplop · 05/10/2025 12:06

I’m a bath person but it seems most hotels now are going to king-size showers aka just showers even in nicer hotels and they generally won’t switch you, so this’d be about the same although uglier. Now I just check for sauna/hot tub/pool

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 05/10/2025 12:13

Personally I'd be pissed off of DH booked a room with a free standing bath, unless there was also a shower as I hate them! I can't put my finger on why but if I look at houses on rightmove I factor in the cost of removing the hideous thing - that and those bloody awful high toilet cisterns!

I've also never seen the attraction of sitting in a bath that hundreds of other people have sat in!

However, if I was OP and was expecting a luxurious bathroom I'd be disappointed with that.

cobrakaieaglefang · 05/10/2025 12:23

AngelinaFibres · 05/10/2025 09:38

Completely off topic but my exhusband committed suicide in a bath at a premier Inn. I'm very happy to walk into a hotel room without a bath in it these days. Irrelevant to this obviously

That's dreadful. How sad for everyone.

FloridaCat · 05/10/2025 12:26

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 05/10/2025 10:45

A slippery floor doesn't sound ideal from an accessibility POV, if that's their justification for no shower screen. Very odd.

I have stayed in hotels where the wet room had a glass screen. I think a lots of places just think as long as the bathroom is accessible, aesthetics don't matter.

B1anche · 05/10/2025 12:38

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 05/10/2025 12:13

Personally I'd be pissed off of DH booked a room with a free standing bath, unless there was also a shower as I hate them! I can't put my finger on why but if I look at houses on rightmove I factor in the cost of removing the hideous thing - that and those bloody awful high toilet cisterns!

I've also never seen the attraction of sitting in a bath that hundreds of other people have sat in!

However, if I was OP and was expecting a luxurious bathroom I'd be disappointed with that.

"I've also never seen the attraction of sitting in a bath that hundreds of other people have sat in!"

It is cleaned between bookings. I mean, how is it any different from sleeping in a bed that hundreds of people have slept in, or shitting in a toilet that hundreds have shat in?

Lovelamps · 05/10/2025 12:43

I think it's fine. Not perfect but fine. Please don't let it spoil or dominate your thoughts during your time away. Have fun , relax and enjoy yourself. After all, it's just a bathroom and looks like it will meet basic needs. ❤️

mysoulmio · 05/10/2025 12:47

I think its difficult to say that if you havent stayed in a room with one of these bathrooms. They are clinical and creepy and for many people having a nice, aesthetically pleasing room is part of the experience of a weekend away.And yes, disabled people deserve better than a hospital bathroom!

RampantIvy · 05/10/2025 12:57

I think its really wrong when they run out of rooms and give you an accessible room when you domt need or want it. They should be reserved for wheelchair users and people that actively want an accessible bathroom

It doesn't make commercial sense for a hotel to do this.

"I've also never seen the attraction of sitting in a bath that hundreds of other people have sat in!"

My goodness, this has got to be one of the most ridiculous comments I have ever seen. Bathrooms get cleaned between guests.

SpelledOlivia · 05/10/2025 12:57

YANBU. It's clinical and disappointing for a hotel. My wheelchair-using aunt has a lovely bathroom that is fully accessible but has colour, texture etc and is a pleasant space for everyone.

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 05/10/2025 12:57

We have paid £440 for a weekend break

That's for 2 nights? Does that include breakfast? £220 per night really , really isn't a luxury hotel price. £220 per night is cheap/ budget, not luxury rates.

I'd maybe be a bit puzzled why I'd been allocated an accessible bathroom but at that price looks ok

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 05/10/2025 13:04

RedSkyatNight25 · 05/10/2025 05:37

£220 per night is not cheap?

I suppose it might depend where the hotel is but £220 per night is budget hotel price.

Isitmybathtimeyet · 05/10/2025 13:06

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 05/10/2025 13:04

I suppose it might depend where the hotel is but £220 per night is budget hotel price.

The hotel I’m staying in shortly is £239 a night for a mini suite and was chosen from the Telegraph’s list of luxury hotels for the county. That’s B&B as we want to keep our options open on food. It’s not 5* but it’s far from budget.

I’ve stayed in plenty of small boutique luxury hotels where you can get a lovely room for well under £300.