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To feel a bit bad for the met police on bbc panorama undercover

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Bloodyscarymary · 01/10/2025 21:46

Just watching the BBC Panorama doco “Undercover in the Police” and I can’t help feeling a bit uneasy.

Yes, the behaviour shown is awful and they should lose their jobs, but having their faces, names and secretly recorded conversations, sometimes even off duty over a pint broadcast feels like a bit of a violation of privacy.

I honestly would have thought secret filming like that couldn’t even be made public, but clearly it’s legal or the BBC wouldn’t air it.

I’m not excusing what was said at all. The culture clearly needs to change. But is it fair to single out these particular officers when the problem is obviously widespread?

I also felt some of the more junior officers had just absorbed the culture around them, and at times the journalist might have been nudging them into certain topics. A few of the comments even felt like dark humour or going along with pub chat. Still unacceptable, but if you secretly recorded doctors or other professions that probably use a lot of dark humour to get through it, I’m sure you’d hear things that would seem really callous to an outsider.

Absolutely they should be fired/reprimanded, but do they deserve complete public exposure like this? AIBU to feel uncomfortable about it?

YABU they deserve everything that’s coming their way

YANBU it’s too much personal exposure when the real problem is the Met culture not these individual cops

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WoodenBoat80 · 01/10/2025 23:17

Do I feel sorry for the Met police.. No.
As a victim of domestic violence and rape living in London I could write an essay on the grossness inside there police force, Or I could shut up and let them speak for themselves…..

Arrrrrrragghhh · 01/10/2025 23:18

Jellycatspyjamas · 01/10/2025 22:37

When those views impact their ability to do their job, to treat people with respect and dignity, to apply the law without fear or favour? Or do you think they go on duty and suddenly shed that racist, misogynistic mindset?

That’s being professional though. It’s part of having everything you do at work recorded and open to scrutiny.

The Police are dealing with the very worst aspects of society. I’m sure all those involved would also be able to relate stories that restored their faith in humans too over a pint . But that’s not such explosive telly.

edwinbear · 01/10/2025 23:18

If I had to deal with vicious, ignorant, foul-mannered little scumbags day in day out I’m sure I’d blurt out horrible and offensive things as well

I think plenty of occupations have to deal with this. Retail, healthcare, airline staff…they seem to manage without the sheer contempt for people the Met show - and seen to get away with.

Happyjoe · 01/10/2025 23:18

Bloodyscarymary · 01/10/2025 23:11

Yes I understand that, and the consequences of breaking the code should be that your police career is over. The consequences for the young officers in this documentary will be much wider reaching than just the loss of their job.

Most commenters seem too disgusted by the content of their opinions to find the 1984 style implications uncomfortable though.

As you say, god knows what’s happened to people in their custody because we certainly don’t as the documentary didn’t bother to actually uncover much of that - which would have made a better documentary than the implication that we should all just expect constant surveillance and that anything we say, even in private and sometimes even without context, can and should be aired by the BBC!

They were nothing but criminals themselves, kicking defenceless people, abusing power? Racism? Do you want to protect all criminals from going out on TV/documentaries?

sugarapplelane · 01/10/2025 23:19

Happyjoe · 01/10/2025 23:16

Yeah, would've been nice but I think on a whole people have just become more crazy.. and unpleasant regardless. And yeah, don't think solidarity is a thing anymore.
I see comments like that one you spotted and just shake my head in disbelief!

I despair of people at the moment, I really do.
That poster sunk to a new low.

ilovesooty · 01/10/2025 23:20

Norugratsatall · 01/10/2025 22:11

You feel bad for them?! After the filth that has come out of their mouths?! I’ve just watched this with incredulity. The Met is toxic and rotten to the core. It’s frightening, terrifying. These are people we are supposed to trust…god help any of us if we find ourselves in London needing the assistance of the police. You are most definitely being unreasonable.

I heard extracts on the radio. They deserved everything they got and I can't understand sentiments expressed by @Bloodyscarymary .

Happyjoe · 01/10/2025 23:20

WoodenBoat80 · 01/10/2025 23:17

Do I feel sorry for the Met police.. No.
As a victim of domestic violence and rape living in London I could write an essay on the grossness inside there police force, Or I could shut up and let them speak for themselves…..

Am so sorry for all of your experiences and I admire your comment. Indeed, let them dig their own hole. Take good care. x

placemats · 01/10/2025 23:20

Dappy777 · 01/10/2025 22:19

I’m increasingly suspicious of the BBC and its motivations. It is a left-wing organisation, and the left have always disliked the police, who they regard as “tools of the capitalist oppressors.” It’s hard to imagine the BBC exposing ANTIFA or Just Stop Oil, put it that way.

You see their left-wing bias everywhere. Radio 4 can’t even discuss Jane Austen or Tennyson without linking them to slavery or colonialism in some way.

Personally, I don’t think we give the police anywhere near enough credit or support. The majority of police officers I have met have been thoroughly decent men. If I had to deal with vicious, ignorant, foul-mannered little scumbags day in day out I’m sure I’d blurt out horrible and offensive things as well.

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https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/X56rQkDgd0qqB7R68t6t7C/seven-things-you-need-to-know-about-antifa

Have a read to assuage your suspicious mind.

Mansfield Park is a dark novel by Jane Austen that explores many topics that were troubling, mainly slavery, colonialism and the wealth it provided the landed gentry.

BBC Radio 4 - Seriously..., Seriously... - Seven things you need to know about Antifa

The anti-fascist movement has been making the headlines, but what is it?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/articles/X56rQkDgd0qqB7R68t6t7C/seven-things-you-need-to-know-about-antifa

Change2banon · 01/10/2025 23:21

YABVVVVU. It was sickening to watch, they were vile. That poor 17 year old autistic boy 😞 I’ve no sympathy at all for their names and faces being spread all over. I’ve been on the receiving end of the ‘power’ and solidarity of the uniform, and it’s fucking disgusting.

TartanMammy · 01/10/2025 23:21

No I don't feel bad for them. They should be called out for the racist, misogynistic, beings that they are. They were showing there true colours in that footage.
Policing is a career that requires certain values and behaviours the are inherent in you as a person, and not something you can switch on or off whether you are on duty or not.

My job involves supporting victims of certain crimes and this documentary is not in the slightest bit surprisingly or new to me or any of my colleagues, we already know the issues with the police. It's not just a few bad eggs.

curious79 · 01/10/2025 23:22

Some of what these officers say is horrendous. Equally, some of it is very reasonable and balanced and sounds like a pure observation of the problems they see around them.

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TempestTost · 01/10/2025 23:23

i think the main thing with a question like this is not to let it be emotional.

Not just "I feel sorry for them".

But also not "they are tossers/racists/vile so they deserve what they get."

I do think there are real questions around what kind of private conversations it's ok to secretly record and broadcast. Even public servants and political figures are entitled to privacy, so there is a line. Where is that line is something that has to be discussed in a rational way, without sentimentality or a desire for revenge being part of the picture.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 01/10/2025 23:23

Bloodyscarymary · 01/10/2025 23:11

Yes I understand that, and the consequences of breaking the code should be that your police career is over. The consequences for the young officers in this documentary will be much wider reaching than just the loss of their job.

Most commenters seem too disgusted by the content of their opinions to find the 1984 style implications uncomfortable though.

As you say, god knows what’s happened to people in their custody because we certainly don’t as the documentary didn’t bother to actually uncover much of that - which would have made a better documentary than the implication that we should all just expect constant surveillance and that anything we say, even in private and sometimes even without context, can and should be aired by the BBC!

I mean one sure fire way not to be broadcast on national telly saying racist, mysoginistic shit is to not be saying it in the first place.

I'm bewildered that you are so upset that these people have had their privacy violated rather than by the blatantly racist crap they were spouting.

WandChoosesTheWitch · 01/10/2025 23:23

Dappy777 · 01/10/2025 22:19

I’m increasingly suspicious of the BBC and its motivations. It is a left-wing organisation, and the left have always disliked the police, who they regard as “tools of the capitalist oppressors.” It’s hard to imagine the BBC exposing ANTIFA or Just Stop Oil, put it that way.

You see their left-wing bias everywhere. Radio 4 can’t even discuss Jane Austen or Tennyson without linking them to slavery or colonialism in some way.

Personally, I don’t think we give the police anywhere near enough credit or support. The majority of police officers I have met have been thoroughly decent men. If I had to deal with vicious, ignorant, foul-mannered little scumbags day in day out I’m sure I’d blurt out horrible and offensive things as well.

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I don’t trust the BBC at all. The bias in their news coverage is appalling and once you can see it, it’s hard to unsee.

However, occasionally they do manage to do excellent reporting. This is one of them. The other I can think of is Hannah Barnes when she investigated the Tavistock Clinic for Newsnight. It really seems to depend on the production team.

Yes, there are problems with the Panorama programme, the guy in the pub seems a bit drunk but he said what he said and he sounded like he believed what he said. On balance though, it was a great investigation that highlighted the problems at the Met.

ETA: minor change for clarity.

JazzyJelly · 01/10/2025 23:24

sugarapplelane · 01/10/2025 23:06

Crazy indeed!
Only reason I asked their sex is because I thought Women stood up for each other, and not the scumbags that think a pregnant woman lied.
i’m gobsmacked

From what I saw I don't think he thought she lied.

I think he just didn't give a shit that she'd been attacked, or that releasing the suspect could well lead to him attacking her again.

pumpkinscake · 01/10/2025 23:24

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Wow. This is just a horrible comment.

PrincessScarlett · 01/10/2025 23:25

Bloodyscarymary · 01/10/2025 23:11

Yes I understand that, and the consequences of breaking the code should be that your police career is over. The consequences for the young officers in this documentary will be much wider reaching than just the loss of their job.

Most commenters seem too disgusted by the content of their opinions to find the 1984 style implications uncomfortable though.

As you say, god knows what’s happened to people in their custody because we certainly don’t as the documentary didn’t bother to actually uncover much of that - which would have made a better documentary than the implication that we should all just expect constant surveillance and that anything we say, even in private and sometimes even without context, can and should be aired by the BBC!

I do get what you are saying about one or two of the pub conversations. At best they could be described as crude banter and something that was never intended to be said outside a small close knit of colleagues.

However, as the documentary went on, you cannot excuse Sergeant Stamp telling the undercover journalist to play down the level of violence used or there would be a complaint. Or the other sergeant automatically thinking a victim of domestic abuse is lying. Or the PC at the end who assaulted a vulnerable 17 year old and laughed and gloated about it, held extreme racist views and talked about killing black and islamic people by shooting them in the head or penis.

Livelovebehappy · 01/10/2025 23:26

They might not be perfect, but I’d rather have them than not. I guess it’s a case of there being bad apples in every profession, be it nurses, teachers, doctors. Many in the police force do a fantastic job in very difficult circumstances. It’s not fair to tar them all with the same brush as some posting on here are doing.

Happyjoe · 01/10/2025 23:26

JazzyJelly · 01/10/2025 23:24

From what I saw I don't think he thought she lied.

I think he just didn't give a shit that she'd been attacked, or that releasing the suspect could well lead to him attacking her again.

He said something along the lines of 'that's what she says', implying he didn't believe her.
I think it was more than just not caring.

MysticalBiscuit · 01/10/2025 23:27

Lougle · 01/10/2025 23:05

The whole point is that they don't get to be off duty. Ever. They are held to the policing standards at all times that they are a serving police officer, whether on duty or off duty. Just as Nurses can be hauled before the NMC for their conduct whilst off duty, and Social Workers can be brought before Social Work England for their conduct.

Public Professionals have to maintain and embody the standards of their profession in their daily lives. They can't just 'put them on' like a uniform.

This.

Happyjoe · 01/10/2025 23:27

Livelovebehappy · 01/10/2025 23:26

They might not be perfect, but I’d rather have them than not. I guess it’s a case of there being bad apples in every profession, be it nurses, teachers, doctors. Many in the police force do a fantastic job in very difficult circumstances. It’s not fair to tar them all with the same brush as some posting on here are doing.

The Met do seem to have a higher proportion of bad apples tho don't they?

Bloodyscarymary · 01/10/2025 23:27

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 01/10/2025 23:00

I have tried to understand your perspective on this, OP, but I don't really get why you think they shouldn't be exposed.

If you feel that it is appropriate to express certain views or sentiments to your work colleagues, I am not really sure why you would have concerns about other people knowing that you hold such views or sentiments because you presumably believe that the views or sentiments you are expressing are perfectly acceptable.

If you don't say anything that you would be really ashamed of, then there isn't anything to fear from documentaries like this.

If people secretly filmed me talking to my colleagues, they might hear a few inappropriate expletives or some minor gripes, but it would mostly be boringly professional. Because it's a work environment and that's what's expected.

I'm afraid I don't really have any sympathy with the people who were caught on camera saying awful things. If they hadn't said those things, then there wouldn't be a story to tell.

I get what you’re saying and my work talk would also be boring. However, I am assuming you’re not a police officer dealing with rapists and violent thugs day in and day out - naturally your work chat in that case is going to veer into opinions on that.

I’m not saying their views weren’t horrible to hear or that they haven’t fallen very short of the standard we should expect from police officers, but I can see how it would be easier for them to start sharing how they think we should shoot rapists in the dick once they’re a few pints in vs you or I at our work drinks. So for the average person it’s really shocking to talk about that, but for a police officer it’s a daily topic at work.

Which is why the clips should have been shown to higher ups and them be fired, but I don’t see the public benefit in identifying the individuals in question. They could have blurred their faces and used their conversations as “examples” of the terrible culture, we didn’t need to know the identity of the police officer who was basically just spouting Reform talking points with a police brutality twist.

And I just totally disagree that if you don’t say anything you’re ashamed of you shouldn’t have to fear documentaries like this. It’s like saying “people with nothing to hide have nothing to fear” to excuse mass surveillance. It’s Orwellian!

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sugarapplelane · 01/10/2025 23:28

JazzyJelly · 01/10/2025 23:24

From what I saw I don't think he thought she lied.

I think he just didn't give a shit that she'd been attacked, or that releasing the suspect could well lead to him attacking her again.

I know and I thought that because of this a females would look down on these men and be ashamed and disgusted, but then you get awful posts like the one I quoted.

VimtoIcePop · 01/10/2025 23:29

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