A friend had a baby around 2 months ago, her second. This is somebody I went to school with and I've been to all the hen, wedding and baby showers and so on she's had. I moved an hour away, probably more like 50 mins drive, they have in their words a very top of the range car worth over 50k.
I moved before the 2 kids came along and she's never once been here, never seen the place I bought, never met my new boyfriend.
Im not yet married with kids, after her baby was born I sent a card congratulating her, I messaged saying I would love to come and meet her newborn son, she read it and never replied. I know people are going to pile on me for that, but she's posting plenty on social media and has clearly met up with other people.
Another one, not as big of a deal but an old colleague from a job I left. She got in touch to message asking how I was doing and if I fancied a coffee. I was surprised as this doesn't happen to me often. We met and I thought we got on well, though she kept telling me she doesn't like people and doesn't gel with them easily. Around 6 weeks later I messaged her again asking how she was doing, she was trying to be polite, I messaged if she wanted to meet up again and no response, it's been 4 weeks.
So it just feels like 2 recent snubs and I don't know what I've done wrong. I know I won't be everyone's cup of tea but I think I'm likeable. I've heard when people become parents and get married they tend to hang around with similar couples and move on from people they feel they can't relate to anymore.