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To ask what you think a reasonable price for a small “starter” home is?

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TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 19:39

We talk a lot about housing costs being too high but what would be affordable for young people wanting a 2 bed property in your mind? I’m intrigued by different perceptions and perspectives on this subject.

dh and I were very low paid (local newspaper journalists, graduates on terrible pay) when we purchased our first home. We did have 2 incomes but in 2005 I was on £11,500 and dh was on £10,500 when we bought our first home.

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TickyandTacky · 23/09/2025 19:41

Does everything just get bunged in AIBU topic now???

MrsSkylerWhite · 23/09/2025 19:44

Our eldest and her husband bought their lovely but very small, new build home off plan in 2021 for £148k. It’s now valued at £225.
Our youngest is in the process of buying his first home atm. Traditional but large and refitted 3 bed Victorian terrace in a less desirable area, £115K so I imagine that location is the key factor in your question.

Both are on the NW coast. If we had remained in our native London or Cornwall, neither would have had a hope of buying.

TomatoSandwiches · 23/09/2025 19:44

Where we are central south-south easterly you would need a minimum of 300k for a 2 bed starter mid terrace we paid 210k in 2014 for a 3 bed mid terrace, one bedroom could only house a toddler bed.

childofthe607080s · 23/09/2025 19:45

I would like it to go back to 3 times a median salary - say around 100k for small starter

WithManyTot · 23/09/2025 19:49

What ever price that means that the mortgage payments are 1/3 of a household take home income. This is the one constant in houses, everything else is variable to achieve it.

gudetamathelazyegg · 23/09/2025 19:51

Well I wouldn't like to say what's reasonable! I bought my first house - well, 2 bed flat - in a shared ownership scheme in 2022. We pay mortgage for 75% and rent on the other 25% (we will staircase to buy the rest over time). Including deposit it was £275k and the full value was £360k.

This was part of an affordable housing scheme (!) in Manchester, very central. At the time we both earned about £40k each and if we earned any more we wouldn't have qualified for the scheme. But equally I didn't want to own a smaller percentage because it is very hard to staircase from. 75% is the max amount we could own as a starting point, lowest was I think 25%

Obviously it's an expensive location but easy walk to the office, lots of public transport and amenities. We could have looked further out of Manchester and got a house as some friends have but decided we prefer city living. We were both 30 at the time.

Cantseetreesforthewood · 23/09/2025 19:52

A house on the street I first bought as a single recent graduate at the turn of the millennium has just gone up for 140k (all be it I bought a dump and this is beautiful).
I wouldn't be able to by that now on a typical graduate starting salary now, but it should be achievable as a couple.
BUT I live in a region that has cheap housing, and low employment rates. Probably not the first place graduates would move to these days.

FancyCatSlave · 23/09/2025 19:54

Around £200k
That should be affordable for 2 people working just over minimum wage at 4x combined salary.

There’s still quite a lot of property at that dort of price near here. Plenty of 2 beds around the £220k market or under.

Orangemintcream · 23/09/2025 19:55

You need to say where in the Uk you mean. Assuming you do mean the UK.

As it’s so so variable. I bought mine 10 years ago for 95k. 2 bed new build.

MrsSkylerWhite · 23/09/2025 20:00

Cantseetreesforthewood · 23/09/2025 19:52

A house on the street I first bought as a single recent graduate at the turn of the millennium has just gone up for 140k (all be it I bought a dump and this is beautiful).
I wouldn't be able to by that now on a typical graduate starting salary now, but it should be achievable as a couple.
BUT I live in a region that has cheap housing, and low employment rates. Probably not the first place graduates would move to these days.

My family lived in a 2 bed council house in Regent Road in Brixton when I was a child in the mid/late 60s. Even then, the bathroom was regularly mouldy. Poor construction.
Those same tiny houses are now mostly privately owned and you’d be lucky to get one for less than 3/4 million. Rentals are upwards of £2.5k per month. It’s insane.

padso · 23/09/2025 20:03

We did have 2 incomes but in 2005 I was on £11,500 and dh was on £10,500 when we bought our first home.

And how much was your home?

SevenHundredandFortyThree · 23/09/2025 20:04

Where I live a small one bed flat is £400-500k. Madness.

NettleandBramble · 23/09/2025 20:13

We have friends who are stuck in new build 2 bed homes that are just like a corridor and no one wants to buy an old corridor from them when they can get a new build corridor.

The first home that I would be comfortable with my kids going for - in terms of area and ability to resell is a 3 bed for £100,000 (I couldn't find a 2 bed that would be a safe bet) . I'm actually surprised it's as much as that. Around the £130 mark there is a lot more choice.

Judashascomeintosomemoney · 23/09/2025 20:14

TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 19:39

We talk a lot about housing costs being too high but what would be affordable for young people wanting a 2 bed property in your mind? I’m intrigued by different perceptions and perspectives on this subject.

dh and I were very low paid (local newspaper journalists, graduates on terrible pay) when we purchased our first home. We did have 2 incomes but in 2005 I was on £11,500 and dh was on £10,500 when we bought our first home.

Blimey - where was that? I was on £40K in 2001 when I bought my 1 bed flat in Wanstead - only just about affordable. Looked at it just now and it's 'worth' £350K now.
Anyway, advising DDs to stay in or near their Welsh and Northern Uni towns to buy their first property if at all possible - they've got no hope down here.

angelspike2025 · 23/09/2025 20:16

I paid 125k for my apartment 19 years ago. Bought at the wrong time. It’s probably worth 110k now

user593 · 23/09/2025 20:25

Paid £250k for a one bed in London in 2010. Ex DP and I were on very average wages but had help with a 20% deposit. Sold in 2024 for £450k. Average salary in the UK is about £35k, so four times that, £140,000-£280,000 (single/couple), seems about right but that wouldn’t get you very far in London anymore.

Zempy · 23/09/2025 20:28

XH and I earned just slightly above minimum wage when we bought our two bed Victorian terrace for £53k in 1996.

That same house recently sold for £475k. Well beyond the reach of a young couple in the same jobs we were in, with just 5% deposit.

I am in SE, but 50 miles from London. A three bed semi would cost around £600k

ZenZazie · 23/09/2025 20:30

3 x annual income for full-time work on minimum wage.

So let’s say £75k for a 1-2 bed flat and £150k for a 3-4 bed house. Maybe a little less than that for a house to take things like maternity leave loss of income into account.

That just about tracks for round here.

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 23/09/2025 20:30

It’s entirely location dependent, it’s impossible to answer without the context of which area of the country.

Burntt · 23/09/2025 20:37

Varies too much by area. Just checked Rightmove. Around me the cheapest 2 bed property is a horrible flat over the shops for £200k. The cheapest house is £350k. There is a park home on at £200k also.

TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 20:40

TickyandTacky · 23/09/2025 19:41

Does everything just get bunged in AIBU topic now???

I apologise for not meeting the filing standards of the self proclaimed mn police. Feel free to ignore and respond on threads that you deem appropriately categorised.

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FallingIntoAutumn · 23/09/2025 20:42

South east (not London) £350k(you’d be fighting people and probably paying over)-£450k

It’s obscene really

£1200+ a month rent for a park home, my heart breaks a bit as I see the little kids skipping home to theirs from school.
£1800 for a private rental 2 bed.

miniaturepixieonacid · 23/09/2025 20:42

I have just bought my firrst house (I'm not remotely young but I'm single so getting something on 1 salary that I could bear to live in has been tough.)

It was 275K for a very small 2 bed but it's a character property in Buckinghamshire. I could have got a 1 bed place for 180K in some areas locally but nothing habitable much cheaper than that.

Idk about what feels reasonable. 180ish seems fair, I guess given that most people do have 2 salaries but I think you should be able to get 2 bedrooms for that.

mamagogo1 · 23/09/2025 20:44

My dd viewed a house last Sunday, it was £140k for a 3 bed detached, location is everything

miniaturepixieonacid · 23/09/2025 20:47

mamagogo1 · 23/09/2025 20:44

My dd viewed a house last Sunday, it was £140k for a 3 bed detached, location is everything

wow!! Is it a location that is pleasant to live in? I have never seen anything for 140K round here that wasn't a 1 bed flat with lots of corruagted iron and plasterboard in a notorious area.

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