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To ask what you think a reasonable price for a small “starter” home is?

105 replies

TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 19:39

We talk a lot about housing costs being too high but what would be affordable for young people wanting a 2 bed property in your mind? I’m intrigued by different perceptions and perspectives on this subject.

dh and I were very low paid (local newspaper journalists, graduates on terrible pay) when we purchased our first home. We did have 2 incomes but in 2005 I was on £11,500 and dh was on £10,500 when we bought our first home.

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TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 20:48

Judashascomeintosomemoney · 23/09/2025 20:14

Blimey - where was that? I was on £40K in 2001 when I bought my 1 bed flat in Wanstead - only just about affordable. Looked at it just now and it's 'worth' £350K now.
Anyway, advising DDs to stay in or near their Welsh and Northern Uni towns to buy their first property if at all possible - they've got no hope down here.

We initially worked in Kent on £9k each but moved to the south west for affordable homes and a different lifestyle. Our £98k home is now worth £150k - very tiny but there’s a ceiling for that size home. 2 people on minimum wage could earn enough for that. We moved for affordable housing but there’s an assumption these days that you should be able to afford a family home where you grew up.

I was looking on rightmove and it struck me there’s actually a lot of homes available under £200k and wondered what people are asking for when they want “affordable” homes. And no, I don’t live in a rough area - a car is needed ideally for the location.

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dontmalbeconme · 23/09/2025 20:49

Firstly, a "starter home" is a studio or a 1 bed flat, surely? A 2 bed house is the next step up the ladder.

Sensibly, a studio (for 1 person) should be 4-5 times the annual salary of 40 hours at min wage, or 1 bed starter flat should be up to 4-5 x 2 40 hour minimum wages (based on lending criteria).

Family homes, 2 bed+, should be based on 2 people having moved up the payscale to average wage, so be priced at approx 2x annual salary of 40hrs at average wage x4 or 5.

TickyandTacky · 23/09/2025 20:51

TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 20:40

I apologise for not meeting the filing standards of the self proclaimed mn police. Feel free to ignore and respond on threads that you deem appropriately categorised.

No need to apologise. I realise that the attention seekers can't help themselves and need to 'post for traffic' like a teen shouting out in class.

padso · 23/09/2025 20:53

Firstly, a "starter home" is a studio or a 1 bed flat, surely? A 2 bed house is the next step up the ladder.

Is it? Surely it depends on age? Also moving frequently and climbing up that ladder is expensive & a bit outdated in the current climate

soupyspoon · 23/09/2025 20:54

childofthe607080s · 23/09/2025 19:45

I would like it to go back to 3 times a median salary - say around 100k for small starter

I agree with limiting lending amounts to around that multiple

But a median salary wouldnt be a starter salary. So I would like to see a starter home at around 70ish, up to 90ish max

ArghCheese123 · 23/09/2025 20:55

Depends where it is. I would say perhaps a studio flat in a cheap area.

TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 20:55

TickyandTacky · 23/09/2025 20:51

No need to apologise. I realise that the attention seekers can't help themselves and need to 'post for traffic' like a teen shouting out in class.

Wow, mean girls are out tonight. Only one attention seeker on this thread and it’s not me 😂

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ArghCheese123 · 23/09/2025 20:56

TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 20:48

We initially worked in Kent on £9k each but moved to the south west for affordable homes and a different lifestyle. Our £98k home is now worth £150k - very tiny but there’s a ceiling for that size home. 2 people on minimum wage could earn enough for that. We moved for affordable housing but there’s an assumption these days that you should be able to afford a family home where you grew up.

I was looking on rightmove and it struck me there’s actually a lot of homes available under £200k and wondered what people are asking for when they want “affordable” homes. And no, I don’t live in a rough area - a car is needed ideally for the location.

I am not sure about this assumption OP. I think it's desire, but it's quite often not possible.

Tubestrike · 23/09/2025 20:59

I bought a 2 bed semi back in 1994 for £42,500 , I had a £5k deposit on a £20k salary , it's now worth £335,000.

TickyandTacky · 23/09/2025 20:59

TeenLifeMum · 23/09/2025 20:55

Wow, mean girls are out tonight. Only one attention seeker on this thread and it’s not me 😂

Haha 😂 Have a good evening!

dontmalbeconme · 23/09/2025 21:01

padso · 23/09/2025 20:53

Firstly, a "starter home" is a studio or a 1 bed flat, surely? A 2 bed house is the next step up the ladder.

Is it? Surely it depends on age? Also moving frequently and climbing up that ladder is expensive & a bit outdated in the current climate

Well, yes, it depends on age.

But if you're a single in your late teens early twenties, then a studio is fine, and affordability should be based on 4-5 x one persons annual salary on average wage.

If you're a couple in your 30s, then you should have reached at least average wage, and there's 2 of you, so affordability is based on 4-5 x 2 full time average wage annual salaries, and that would probably get you a 2 bed in all but the most expensive/desirable areas.

ainsleysanob · 23/09/2025 21:03

Bought our first and only home in 2005, when I was 21, in a relatively nice Northern town for 85k. We wanted a 3 bedrooms house, with a garage and a garden because we didn’t want to ever move again! It’s paid off now. The area is still nice, we have lots on our door step and it’ll be our sons eventually. I really really wish young people today had the opportunity we did 20 years ago. Our house is worth about 160k now, that’s a ridiculous increase.

padso · 23/09/2025 21:03

But if you're a single in your late teens early twenties,

The average FTB is not in their teens or early 20s....

Bundleflower · 23/09/2025 21:09

£175k-ish

dontmalbeconme · 23/09/2025 21:14

padso · 23/09/2025 21:03

But if you're a single in your late teens early twenties,

The average FTB is not in their teens or early 20s....

Did I say they were?

Just that expectations around affordability and property size should be based on reasonable age related salary expectations and the number of people buying.

If you try to raise a family, in your 30s, on one minimum wage job, then it's not reasonable to be able to expect to buy a family size property.

Affordability should be broadly based on 4-5 x annual full time salary per person, based on expecting starter homes (studios/1 beds) for young singles or couples to be minimum wages, but family homes to be based on the same multiplier of average wage.

I do think that property ownership of a family home is an unrealistic expectation if you aren't prepared to bring in at least 2 x average wage (split across you however you choose) by your 30s.

KateKontent · 23/09/2025 21:19

We bought a 2 bed starter home which had a loft conversion added by the people before us, turning it into a 3 bed.

We bought it in 2015 and paid £415k for it. It is a nice area and not too far from London, but even still, that's about two and a half times what my parents paid for their 6 bed, detached, victorian villa in the early 90s

angelspike2025 · 23/09/2025 21:20

dontmalbeconme · 23/09/2025 21:14

Did I say they were?

Just that expectations around affordability and property size should be based on reasonable age related salary expectations and the number of people buying.

If you try to raise a family, in your 30s, on one minimum wage job, then it's not reasonable to be able to expect to buy a family size property.

Affordability should be broadly based on 4-5 x annual full time salary per person, based on expecting starter homes (studios/1 beds) for young singles or couples to be minimum wages, but family homes to be based on the same multiplier of average wage.

I do think that property ownership of a family home is an unrealistic expectation if you aren't prepared to bring in at least 2 x average wage (split across you however you choose) by your 30s.

That means you’re ruling out people on lower salaries being able to have a family home - it effectively forces people to stay in relationships they can’t afford to leave

I’m 41 and don’t even earn 30k, not through choice but through health issues

padso · 23/09/2025 21:21

You seem to be misunderstanding, I just don't think that a starter home is necessarily a studio flat because the average FTB is 32 and as I said the concept of climbing the ladder doesn't really exist now. But you can disagree.

dontmalbeconme · 23/09/2025 21:25

angelspike2025 · 23/09/2025 21:20

That means you’re ruling out people on lower salaries being able to have a family home - it effectively forces people to stay in relationships they can’t afford to leave

I’m 41 and don’t even earn 30k, not through choice but through health issues

I think it's fairly normal that only those that earn at least averagely can afford property ownership with its associated costs and responsibilities, and I don't see a problem with that. The problem is actually the lack of affordable, long term, secure rented housing for those who are low earners.

Youraveragelass · 23/09/2025 21:27

I can’t believe people are saying under £200k! I was in uni when I bought my house and so thankful I did because it’s a nightmare now.

We don’t really have 2 bed properties (other than new builds) and flats are almost non-existent. I actually think the first house you buy (in my area) is the hardest to achieve because there are not that many “starter” homes.

dontmalbeconme · 23/09/2025 21:28

padso · 23/09/2025 21:21

You seem to be misunderstanding, I just don't think that a starter home is necessarily a studio flat because the average FTB is 32 and as I said the concept of climbing the ladder doesn't really exist now. But you can disagree.

Ok then, for two 32yr olds, I think that 4-5 x 2 average wages would be a reasonable cost for a "starter" 2 bed. Weighted to broad area.

soupyspoon · 23/09/2025 21:28

The average wage is not what I associate with starter homes. Someone on average wage is not on a low wage, by definition, so NMW yearly income x 3, is a one bed home ( dont consider a studio to be appropriate for purchasing to be honest) and a NMW yearly income x 5 for a couple to buy a 2 bed flat/house.

Cheapest house round here just looking which is a 2 bed is 170k but there are plenty of flats of a good size, 2 beds from 140k upward.
I didnt look at 1 bed flats

Eyesopenwideawake · 23/09/2025 21:29

About 4 or 5 times the national average wage, allowing for regional variations.

Tollington · 23/09/2025 21:31

TickyandTacky · 23/09/2025 19:41

Does everything just get bunged in AIBU topic now???

AIBU should be changed to General as 99% of the posts are not AIBU

Yamamm · 23/09/2025 21:33

We bought a 2 bed Victorian terrace in 1994. Good area in zone 5 London but. On a main road. Downstairs bathroom. No parking. Salaries were £14k and £15k. House was £88k. That sounds about right for a starter home.

Same job now pays £47k. So house should be around £270k. It sold recently for £600k.

My children are going to have to move up North or somewhere far away from London if they ever want to leave home.