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To think most of what people call “British” is actually borrowed from other cultures?

204 replies

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:07

From food to fashion to language, it seems like a lot of what’s considered traditionally British has roots elsewhere. Yet people still cling to the idea of a “pure” British culture. AIBU to think the whole concept is more mixed than most are willing to admit?

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dizzydizzydizzy · 19/09/2025 12:21

ThisCanFuckOffToo · 18/09/2025 21:20

I kind of see what you’re coming from
but by that token pizza isn’t Italian, so 🤷🏽‍♀️

This reminds me..... apparently the Italians got the idea for pasta from the Chinese.

NuovaPilbeam · 19/09/2025 12:25

Well yes. The same is true of almost every culture in the world.

There are a handful of exceptions where certain groups live in extremely isolated circumstances (andaman islanders, brazilian uncontacted tribes etc) but pretty much everywhere else is subject to inbound influences changing and evolving "culture".

AlasPoor · 19/09/2025 12:30

CurlewKate · 19/09/2025 08:00

The problem is that on the one hand people are marching in the streets demanding Britain back, and the protection of British culture-but then the get all huffy when anyone asks what they mean.

Its quite a common tactic of people who are pro mass immigration and the degradation of British culture and people, to ask what is meant by British culture and then ridicule it to insinuate there is no such thing. People just don’t bother engaging with it now.

IcedPurple · 19/09/2025 12:33

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:33

Tea’s a great example actually, it’s so associated with Britishness but the leaves come from Asia and the British taste for it was shaped by colonial trade routes. It’s not about shaming, it’s just history. That blend of influences is part of what makes British culture what it is.

Obviously yes, the tea plant comes mostly from China and India.

However, there are distinctly British, or English, traditions around tea. In most parts of the world tea is drunk without milk or sugar, for example, but not in England. And the 'afternoon tea' ritual is very English, just as the tea ceremony is uniquely Japanese.

AlasPoor · 19/09/2025 12:33

dizzydizzydizzy · 19/09/2025 12:21

This reminds me..... apparently the Italians got the idea for pasta from the Chinese.

Tomatoes aren’t even native to Europe and didn’t arrive until the 1600s. What would Italian food be like without tomatoes?

MrsSkylerWhite · 19/09/2025 12:35

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:24

Every culture and nation has borrowed from others.

Yet no other country has given more to the world than the British. Modernity was invented here.

Is this yet another tiresome ‘Brits have nothing to be proud of since it was all anyone else’s idea anyway’ thread? Aren’t you tired of demonising this country yet?

Edited

You could equally argue no other country has stolen more from the world than Britain.

dizzydizzydizzy · 19/09/2025 12:37

YANBU, OP.

I think you have had a very hard time on this thread and some PP's have arguably strayed away from 'traditional British politeness' which is quite ironic.

By the way, English is officially classified as a Germanic language.

dizzydizzydizzy · 19/09/2025 12:39

AlasPoor · 19/09/2025 12:33

Tomatoes aren’t even native to Europe and didn’t arrive until the 1600s. What would Italian food be like without tomatoes?

Good point!

It’s similar story with the traditional British spud!

UK2HK · 19/09/2025 12:39

Christianity is middle - eastern.

MrsSkylerWhite · 19/09/2025 12:40

mrswhiplington · 18/09/2025 21:48

I raise you sausage rolls.😅

Ah, Greggs. Something everyone can rally round 😁

smallpinecone · 19/09/2025 13:15

MrsSkylerWhite · 19/09/2025 12:35

You could equally argue no other country has stolen more from the world than Britain.

That’s the history of the whole world, not a single unique to Britain.

The fact remains that as a force for good, and as the inventor of modernity, Britain’s legacy has been a positive one of which we should be proud, and should be grateful for. A little gratitude for those who went before us, and enabled us to live freely in this marvellous place, would not go amiss.

mathanxiety · 19/09/2025 13:43

as the inventor of modernity...

Is this a line from some 'history' textbook?

What exactly does it mean?

GoodLaudanum · 19/09/2025 14:13

dizzydizzydizzy · 19/09/2025 12:21

This reminds me..... apparently the Italians got the idea for pasta from the Chinese.

And the Chinese didn't even invent paper - they stole the idea from wasps.

AlasPoor · 19/09/2025 14:22

mathanxiety · 19/09/2025 13:43

as the inventor of modernity...

Is this a line from some 'history' textbook?

What exactly does it mean?

Industrial Revolution

dizzydizzydizzy · 19/09/2025 14:24

GoodLaudanum · 19/09/2025 14:13

And the Chinese didn't even invent paper - they stole the idea from wasps.

lol….. apparently the Chinese copied it from wasps about 2000 years ago. Chinese history is just incredible. Apparently before that, they used silk, bamboo and parchment.

ForgetMeNotRose · 19/09/2025 14:59

@LandRites I don't by any means blame a fictional "Craig", although I have seen this kind of narrative. I would however say that the many actual concerns I hear about immigration are often about the loss of jobs and services (if I ignore the outright racism and islamaphobia of some bigger names on the far right). Things that I would say are due to the remnants of various Tory governments - e.g. housing crisis, recession, loss of jobs, privatisation and loss of industry, underfunded NHS. This is by no means a "Craig" problem. The Prime Minister himself has called us an island of strangers and and vowed to stop the small boats. It's easier for those with power and money if we blame each other and scapegoat immigrants and, indeed, "Craig".

Astrak · 19/09/2025 15:01

RosesAndHellebores · 18/09/2025 21:18

I raise you rissoles!

Don't forget spotted dick!

Vaguelyclassical · 19/09/2025 15:32

What have the Romans ever done for us?

CurlewKate · 19/09/2025 15:49

smallpinecone · 19/09/2025 13:15

That’s the history of the whole world, not a single unique to Britain.

The fact remains that as a force for good, and as the inventor of modernity, Britain’s legacy has been a positive one of which we should be proud, and should be grateful for. A little gratitude for those who went before us, and enabled us to live freely in this marvellous place, would not go amiss.

Edited

Interested in “the inventor of modernity”. Do you mean the Industrial Revolution?

LandRites · 19/09/2025 16:00

ForgetMeNotRose · 19/09/2025 14:59

@LandRites I don't by any means blame a fictional "Craig", although I have seen this kind of narrative. I would however say that the many actual concerns I hear about immigration are often about the loss of jobs and services (if I ignore the outright racism and islamaphobia of some bigger names on the far right). Things that I would say are due to the remnants of various Tory governments - e.g. housing crisis, recession, loss of jobs, privatisation and loss of industry, underfunded NHS. This is by no means a "Craig" problem. The Prime Minister himself has called us an island of strangers and and vowed to stop the small boats. It's easier for those with power and money if we blame each other and scapegoat immigrants and, indeed, "Craig".

Many, including established media, are blaming Craig however. My socials feeds are full of posts in which images of white, working-class supposedly foolish flag-wavers are used as shorthand for The Problem.

The Problem is older than Tory or Labour policies - it's how societies change i.e. people currently with power and resources make decisions that materially affect people without them. The Problem is endless.

Life on these islands has been changing so rapidly on multiple fronts that more people may feel they had no say in decisions made or stake in their outcomes - and consensus to try to enact policies for a whole nation has gone, we live in our subcultures now.

I thought Kier Starmer's comment about an island of strangers was a good comment on cultural fragmentation. Typically he swithered and withdrew it, choosing not to address The Problem.

Craig, though, is real - he's just done my bathroom.

blacksax · 19/09/2025 16:59

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 22:00

That’s kind of my point though, if everyone has a different idea of what British culture is, then why do some get so defensive when it’s suggested that it’s a mix of influences? I’m not saying people go around shouting “pure British culture” out loud but the backlash to any reminder of cultural mixing suggests some are still invested in the idea, even subconsciously.

What I mean is this: people living in cities are not going to automatically think of dancing round the maypole on May Day, or the annual craft & produce show, or beating the bounds of the village, or the local pancake race, or well dressing as traditions, whereas people living in the countryside will. The English don't celebrate Burns Night, only the Cornish do the Floral Dance, lacemaking is a tradition in some counties, the folk of London are well versed in royal pomp and circumstance, and the annual New Year fireworks display on the Thames. As for swan upping... well, that's a weird one.

The majority of cultural traditions tend to be regional and whether you are rural or urban, don't they?

KTheGrey · 19/09/2025 18:09

UK2HK · 19/09/2025 12:39

Christianity is middle - eastern.

Well Jesus and his friends and relations are Jewish, for sure. Like tea, however, you can’t be even vaguely aware of the reformation and the King James Bible and the Royal Family's role in the modern church and not think England has its own very special version.

Although ultimately the great specialness of Brit Culture is religious tolerance.

CoffeeCantata · 19/09/2025 18:44

Kendodd · 18/09/2025 22:21

Oh, this annoys me.
Why do people always list or only value old stuff when thinking of culture? It's not just us, loads of countries do it.
I went to South Korea last year and visited a site billed as all about Korean culture. It was all old stuff. I wanted to learn/see all about modern South Korean culture, K-pop and TV, video games and street fashion. There was none of that.

I suppose it’s because the contemporary things are alive and happening all around us and easily accessible. The old things are only known to older or well-educated people and need to be promoted, interpreted and even explained to be understood in their historical context.

Eventually those new things will become old things though!

This is why, when I was teaching music at a not-very-affluent primary school, I used to include lots of classical, folk and world music. I didn’t dismiss contemporary pop, but the children were already immersed in that and had no trouble accessing it. What their families would never have introduced them to were the older genres.

TeenagersAngst · 19/09/2025 18:55

mercilousming · 19/09/2025 02:21

Yes I am one of those horrors who read the first page and felt a need to post. Apologies.

British culture. It always interests me as we are literally a nation of immigrants due to the number of times that we were invaded. The Saxons, Romans, Danes, Normans. And that's only England.

Wales and Scotland weren't joined with England until the Middle Ages.

No one born and bred here is ever truly "British". We've been multicultural forever - literally since before "Britain" existed.

Oh for goodness sake. Can we stop with this nonsense that we’re a nation of immigrants and always have been. Yes, we’ve been invaded a few times a thousand years ago but the numbers were TINY. The entire population of England in 1066 was under 2 million.

Until the Second World War there was minimal immigration. So the whole melting pot nonsense is no more than 75 years old.

CoffeeCantata · 19/09/2025 19:43

blacksax · 19/09/2025 16:59

What I mean is this: people living in cities are not going to automatically think of dancing round the maypole on May Day, or the annual craft & produce show, or beating the bounds of the village, or the local pancake race, or well dressing as traditions, whereas people living in the countryside will. The English don't celebrate Burns Night, only the Cornish do the Floral Dance, lacemaking is a tradition in some counties, the folk of London are well versed in royal pomp and circumstance, and the annual New Year fireworks display on the Thames. As for swan upping... well, that's a weird one.

The majority of cultural traditions tend to be regional and whether you are rural or urban, don't they?

And the fact that Hogmanay is more of an event in Scotland is because the Presbyterian church suppressed the celebration of Christmas, so the Scots moved their main mid-winter festival to NYE.

I find all this stuff fascinating!