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To think most of what people call “British” is actually borrowed from other cultures?

204 replies

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:07

From food to fashion to language, it seems like a lot of what’s considered traditionally British has roots elsewhere. Yet people still cling to the idea of a “pure” British culture. AIBU to think the whole concept is more mixed than most are willing to admit?

OP posts:
smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 22:01

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:55

I never claimed it was a groundbreaking discovery, just making a point that still seems to provoke strong reactions in threads like this. If it were truly as universally acknowledged and uncontroversial as you say, I doubt we’d see so many defensive replies. Sometimes the reminder matters just as much as the revelation.

You can window-dress it all you like OP, you’re not saying anything original. The replies are defensive because you’re not arguing in good faith and the badly-disguised attacks like yours on Britain and British identity are tedious now. If you had any sense, you’d stop - because we’re seeing the repercussions of your so called ‘reminders’ when hundreds of thousands of people march on the streets of London to assert their pride in their identity and their culture. You’re doing nothing but stoking division. But you know this.

CoffeeCantata · 18/09/2025 22:02

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:58

I’m not interested in erasing pride, I’m saying pride that refuses reflection becomes fragile. British culture is real and it’s also layered, shaped by centuries of global exchange, conquest, migration and creativity. That’s not a slight, it’s a truth. If we can’t acknowledge that complexity without defensiveness, then maybe the issue isn’t what I’m saying but how threatened people feel by nuance.

I really don’t know how old you are but you come over ad about 14.

The reason you’ve pissed pps off isn’t because you’ve raised a clever, challenging point (sorry to break that to you) but because your infantile ‘insights’ are insulting to people’s intelligence.

GrapesOnTheVine · 18/09/2025 22:03

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 22:01

You can window-dress it all you like OP, you’re not saying anything original. The replies are defensive because you’re not arguing in good faith and the badly-disguised attacks like yours on Britain and British identity are tedious now. If you had any sense, you’d stop - because we’re seeing the repercussions of your so called ‘reminders’ when hundreds of thousands of people march on the streets of London to assert their pride in their identity and their culture. You’re doing nothing but stoking division. But you know this.

Absolutely spot on

Redpeach · 18/09/2025 22:03

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:52

You’re not questioning that at all. It’s obvious what you’re doing. And British people don’t have to stand for this type of cultural attack. You wouldn’t dream of saying this about any other nation, denying them a pride in their heritage and unique achievements. It’s not on.

To be fair, doesn't bother me

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 22:03

AlasPoor · 18/09/2025 21:43

This a weird goady thread you’ve started here. I’m assuming you support Labour?

It’s interesting how asking a cultural question gets reduced to party politics. My post wasn’t about Labour, Tory or anyone else, it was about how cultures form and evolve. If that feels like a “goady” topic, maybe it’s because we’re not used to having honest conversations about national identity without turning it into a team sport.

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citygirl77 · 18/09/2025 22:03

Here we go again. Go and be miserable somewhere else. If you don’t like the Brits, stay well away.

AmpleLilacQuail · 18/09/2025 22:04

As a Scot, I find a lot of “British culture” is actually.. English culture.

AlasPoor · 18/09/2025 22:06

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:55

I never claimed it was a groundbreaking discovery, just making a point that still seems to provoke strong reactions in threads like this. If it were truly as universally acknowledged and uncontroversial as you say, I doubt we’d see so many defensive replies. Sometimes the reminder matters just as much as the revelation.

No one is falling for it OP. It wasn’t even that good an effort, 6/10 possibly 7 at a push.

You should have gone with ‘nation of immigrants’ , ‘colonised the world for spice..’ or ‘do the jobs British people are too lazy to do‘.

GoldThumb · 18/09/2025 22:06

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:54

Every other nation but Britain, apparently.

Edited

Literally.

So boring now 🥱

GrapesOnTheVine · 18/09/2025 22:07

it was about how cultures form and evolve

You’re doing it again OP with the bad faith. Your post wasn’t about how cultures form and evolve. It was specifically about British culture. We can all read what you wrote.

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 22:07

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:45

So is every other nation’s culture, by your logic. And therefore no one has a culture, nothing individual, nothing unique.

Could just as easily say Spanish have no culture of their own, no real individual history which shaped the people, nothing organic. They borrowed it all anyway, it all came from others. So what’s so special about Spanish culture anyway?

That’s not what I’m saying at all. Recognising that cultures are influenced by others doesn’t mean they’re not real or unique. It just means they’re dynamic - shaped by history, geography, migration and interaction. Spanish culture, British culture, Nigerian culture, all of them are distinctive because of how they’ve evolved through both internal development and external influence. That’s doesn’t diminish their value, it adds depth. Cultural pride and cultural honest can co-exist.

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smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 22:07

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 22:03

It’s interesting how asking a cultural question gets reduced to party politics. My post wasn’t about Labour, Tory or anyone else, it was about how cultures form and evolve. If that feels like a “goady” topic, maybe it’s because we’re not used to having honest conversations about national identity without turning it into a team sport.

We don’t need your type of bad faith discussion about national identity. Far from being unready, British people have witnessed their culture been relentlessly assailed and demonised from all sides over recent years.

Hollieandtheivie · 18/09/2025 22:07

Just popping on to say that if anyone is interested in the point made about food, Professor Panikos Panayi has written lots about this.

GoldThumb · 18/09/2025 22:08

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:30

Acknowledging that British culture includes global influence isn’t demonising it, it’s telling the truth. Every nation is shaped by exchange and yes, Britain has contributed plenty too. That doesn’t mean we can’t talk honestly about how layered that legacy is. It’s possible to be proud and reflective at the same time.

But unless you have an example of a ‘pure’ culture to compare to, isn’t it a pointless and universal point?

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 22:09

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 22:07

That’s not what I’m saying at all. Recognising that cultures are influenced by others doesn’t mean they’re not real or unique. It just means they’re dynamic - shaped by history, geography, migration and interaction. Spanish culture, British culture, Nigerian culture, all of them are distinctive because of how they’ve evolved through both internal development and external influence. That’s doesn’t diminish their value, it adds depth. Cultural pride and cultural honest can co-exist.

Again - this isn’t news to anyone. What makes you think anyone is unaware of such basic facts? If this is a revelation to you, it certainly isn’t to anyone else.

TeenagersAngst · 18/09/2025 22:09

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:58

I’m not interested in erasing pride, I’m saying pride that refuses reflection becomes fragile. British culture is real and it’s also layered, shaped by centuries of global exchange, conquest, migration and creativity. That’s not a slight, it’s a truth. If we can’t acknowledge that complexity without defensiveness, then maybe the issue isn’t what I’m saying but how threatened people feel by nuance.

It really hasn’t been shaped by ‘centuries’ of migration. Great Britain until the industrial revolution hadn’t changed much at all in hundreds of years.

I know people love this idea that we’re a melting pot of immigrants going back to the Norman conquest but it’s inaccurate.

Redpeach · 18/09/2025 22:10

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 22:07

We don’t need your type of bad faith discussion about national identity. Far from being unready, British people have witnessed their culture been relentlessly assailed and demonised from all sides over recent years.

Who are you to tell us what we need? You do not speak for all british people

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 22:10

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:46

It isn’t a fixed thing - and that’s news to anyone? Of course not. But then, you’re not arguing in good faith.

You’re entitled to disagree with me but dismissing it as bad faith isn’t fair. Plenty of people do talk about culture, especially British culture, as if it’s static and untouched by outside influence. I’m simply pointing out that it’s always been evolving, like every other culture. If that’s not news to you, great. But judging by some of the replies in this thread, it clearly is news to others.

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PollyBell · 18/09/2025 22:10

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:56

Have you ever traveled or seen anything of the world? Why bother, if people are all much the same and no culture is different or unique?

No country in the world is totally isolated from future of another, alright maybe some small island never seen anyone else type place

Yes i have travelled and evey place has influence from someome else and gives influence to others as well

AlasPoor · 18/09/2025 22:10

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 22:03

It’s interesting how asking a cultural question gets reduced to party politics. My post wasn’t about Labour, Tory or anyone else, it was about how cultures form and evolve. If that feels like a “goady” topic, maybe it’s because we’re not used to having honest conversations about national identity without turning it into a team sport.

So, yes?

CoffeeCantata · 18/09/2025 22:11

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 22:03

It’s interesting how asking a cultural question gets reduced to party politics. My post wasn’t about Labour, Tory or anyone else, it was about how cultures form and evolve. If that feels like a “goady” topic, maybe it’s because we’re not used to having honest conversations about national identity without turning it into a team sport.

It’s a hackneyed point . Have you just discovered it? Have you got a school essay to write?

It’s potentially a fascinating subject but only when the discussion is between well-informed, well-read people - and you’re coming over as very naive. No-one with anything interesting to say on the subject would write the daft things you’ve posted.

Kendodd · 18/09/2025 22:11

Yes, isn't it great to borrow and learn from other cultures..
I remember when I was young chatting to a Nigerian women in a nightclub in London. We talked about all kinds of things but I remember she told me that British and European people have no culture, unlike African countries. This was all while she was speaking my language, wearing Western fashion, in a club dancing to British music and studying the British legal system.
I just nodded.

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 22:12

TeenagersAngst · 18/09/2025 22:09

It really hasn’t been shaped by ‘centuries’ of migration. Great Britain until the industrial revolution hadn’t changed much at all in hundreds of years.

I know people love this idea that we’re a melting pot of immigrants going back to the Norman conquest but it’s inaccurate.

It serves their purposes to argue that we were always a nation of immigrants, but it’s absolutely untrue. People resent being lied to about themselves, their culture and their history.

totalrocket · 18/09/2025 22:13

When did society become this thing where everything or everyone had to be labelled good or bad. I’m sure this never used to be the case. Pride and love for where you come from is due to the familial, architectural, social, historical, geographical, meteorological and many more different types of threads that build and change over time. It represents comfort. It represents the familiar. It’s an individual yet common experience. Rapid immigration disrupts that. People get uncomfortable. Again, doesn’t make them good or bad. The governmental change management around immigration has been appalling.

MissyGirlie · 18/09/2025 22:14

I'm a product of the British Empire - had it not existed, I would not be here.

But I can see that there is 'British culture'. Some of it is like most cultures and has elements from the cultures with which it has interacted over the millennia.

Other bits are pretty much unique.
Bellringing, for example.