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To want to know what good you do?

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fightbackorriseabove · 18/09/2025 19:50

Life has been tough recently, and I find myself watching YouTube vids, podcasts, the news, and getting more and more down.

I feel as if we're losing ourselves as a race. Genocides, wars, the far-right, climate change, racism, misogyny, cost of living... it goes on and on.

I'd rather not discuss politics. I seem to have got myself in a permanent loop of rage-watching...

I need a break.

I want to find a bit of joy. There must be more kindness out there that we can use to counter all the shit.

So... what good do you do? What acts of kindness are out there? Even if it's not that big a deal in the grand scheme of things, what's happy - or neutral - in your life? What's made you laugh? Give me some positive stories! What are you pleased about? What are you looking forward to? hat have you achieved - big or small?

  • I help cats. I help rehabilitate stray cats and find them new homes.
  • I listen to my friends. I think/hope I'm a good friend.
  • I take care of my daughter well and have at least one great big belly laugh a day with her. She is a joy. And very kind. Today, she told me she'd read "thousands of pages" at school, so I could "just forget" the library book. She also saw me having a lemsip-type thing and told me not to do drugs. And every day, she thinks it's a miracle that I can "feel" in her belly what she had for lunch at school. She doesn't seem to have worked out that I read it on the notice board next to the school gate.
  • I have a very loving sister. We try to look out for each other.
  • I have piles of unread books. I like to pretend I'm a big reader, but in reality, I WAS a big reader. But it's nice to have the pile.

Over to you.

OP posts:
Hoppinggreen · 19/09/2025 15:47

Help at a Sunday Street kitchen once a month
Rescue driver for a Wildlife centre
Home check for a dog charity
I used to do a couple of other voluntary things when the DC were younger but I work more now and also just don't have the energy

Randomchat · 19/09/2025 16:33

Great thread op. I can't fix the world's problems but I try every day to make my little corner better.

I volunteer at a dementia cafe. I love it. I love the first time a carers feels able to leave their person in our care and go for a walk round the garden or have a cup of tea in another room. I feel really lucky that they trust me and that I'm giving them some breathing space in their day.

CurlewKate · 19/09/2025 19:06

StrongLikeMamma · 19/09/2025 15:45

I went over to my mum’s and planted a rose in her garden for her

I love this one! 🩷

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