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To remove the parking cones?

481 replies

NameChanger401 · 15/09/2025 16:33

i have a tight turnaround for the school run each morning as need to catch a train to office (commute to London). The only way to make it logistically possible is to drive to school breakfast club, drop kids off at 7.30ish then walk to station near school so I can get to office for 9am. Then the car is there when I pick up at 6pm later in the day so I can make pickup easily too. School is on a residential road, with on street open marked parking spaces there are usually a few spaces at 7.30 with no timing restrictions, I assume as some residents have left for work. However, I’ve noticed since the new term has started, a random traffic cone has been put in the middle a couple of the spaces, which I believe has been put there by those living on the road to stop people parking outside their house. If this is the case, would you think it would be unreasonable to move the cone to park if there is no other close by parking space?

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Gloriia · 16/09/2025 11:24

The fact that there is a cone there shows that someone, whether residents or school, are not happy with people parking on a residential street for a full day. So yes move the cone if you've really got no alternative but I'd guess it's just a matter or time before it is designated residents parking only.

Noaparkday · 16/09/2025 11:25

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:22

I can work out why it's different to those with similar views to OP, yes.

It is different because OP isn't placing cones in the road to save the spot for herself or asking others to move so she can park there. Anyone can park there, when a space is free.

Megifer · 16/09/2025 11:27

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:24

On this thread it's ok if OP does it, but not if others do it, apparently.

If you mean the cone i think thats because op is actually legally entitled to park there, whereas the resident isnt entitled to obstruct a public highway.

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:29

Noaparkday · 16/09/2025 11:25

It is different because OP isn't placing cones in the road to save the spot for herself or asking others to move so she can park there. Anyone can park there, when a space is free.

What is the female equivalent of mansplaining?

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:32

Megifer · 16/09/2025 11:27

If you mean the cone i think thats because op is actually legally entitled to park there, whereas the resident isnt entitled to obstruct a public highway.

I wouldn't stick cones out, and I understand the legalities, but OP is being quite inconsiderate with the length and frequency of parking there. Essentially she's ensuring nobody else can ever park there during the day! If it's more than once or twice a week or for more than a couple of hours, then most considerate folk would consider using the nearby car park. Folk living in those houses may be as busy/more busy than OP, yet her busyness is somehow deemed more important.

sandyhappypeople · 16/09/2025 11:34

Surely there is somewhere between the school and the train station that has on street parking that may not be taking up a residents only parking space? Outside someone house with a drive etc?

I think you'll be asking for trouble dumping your car there all day from early morning to early evening, I suspect things may start to happen to it, especially if you are moving cones to access it.

They may have carers coming in 4 times a day so want to leave the space free, or they may just think they own the road, either way it is bloody annoying for someone to block residents from parking when there are alternatives they could find if they could be bothered to walk more than 1 minute to the school gates.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/09/2025 11:34

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:24

On this thread it's ok if OP does it, but not if others do it, apparently.

Where did anyone say that? It seems to be something that everyone is wholeheartedly either for or against doing.

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:35

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/09/2025 11:34

Where did anyone say that? It seems to be something that everyone is wholeheartedly either for or against doing.

RTFT

Noaparkday · 16/09/2025 11:36

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:29

What is the female equivalent of mansplaining?

Sorry, I genuinely thought you was struggling to understand given you are filling the thread with the same repetitive nonsense. Campaign to change the law if you disagree with it.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 16/09/2025 11:36

Almost all of the streets in my commuter town have become permit holders only, due to behaviour like this. Once people realised how easy it was to apply, it was like dominoes. One street after another.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 16/09/2025 11:39

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:35

RTFT

I have, hence why I asked the question because nowhere have I read anyone say that it's wrong for anyone to do so expect for the OP and her alone.

Haveaproperty · 16/09/2025 11:52

Well the neighbours of our school got their whole and surrounding roads marked with double yellows or parking permits and a barrier where you can't go down the road between certain times. And they call up the traffic warden to come at least once a week at drop off and pick up times.
So you could do this in theory, but be careful what you wish for...

Londonlassy · 16/09/2025 11:54

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:21

It is a public road indeed, not the long stay car park OP has decided it is. HTH

There is no traffic sign advising of time restrictions to how long she parks her car. There is no traffic sign saying resident parking only. She is free to park on the street for as long or as little as she likes. Whether you see this as long day parking is inconsequential. HTH

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/09/2025 12:00

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 11:19

It is true, even if entitled folk like you don't see it.
Sounds like you don't understand what resorting to insults in debates reveals. HTH

Edited

Nobody has insulted you.

The only "entitled folk" are the ones who think that buying parcel of land A also entitles them to exclusive use of parcel of land B which is in fact publicly owned and maintained by the taxpayer.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/09/2025 12:02

Haveaproperty · 16/09/2025 11:52

Well the neighbours of our school got their whole and surrounding roads marked with double yellows or parking permits and a barrier where you can't go down the road between certain times. And they call up the traffic warden to come at least once a week at drop off and pick up times.
So you could do this in theory, but be careful what you wish for...

If the residents of that street want to campaign for that, they can.

In the meantime the OP and other commuters can continue to enjoy free parking for as long as it is available.

"Be careful what you wish for", indeed.

It is bonkers to suggest that people like the OP should stop using free parking voluntarily in case their use of it now results in it becoming unavailable for their use later. How would the OP benefit in any way from not using it now?

TipsyWriter · 16/09/2025 12:03

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/09/2025 12:06

sandyhappypeople · 16/09/2025 11:34

Surely there is somewhere between the school and the train station that has on street parking that may not be taking up a residents only parking space? Outside someone house with a drive etc?

I think you'll be asking for trouble dumping your car there all day from early morning to early evening, I suspect things may start to happen to it, especially if you are moving cones to access it.

They may have carers coming in 4 times a day so want to leave the space free, or they may just think they own the road, either way it is bloody annoying for someone to block residents from parking when there are alternatives they could find if they could be bothered to walk more than 1 minute to the school gates.

Surely there is somewhere between the school and the train station that has on street parking that may not be taking up a residents only parking space?

You have just described exactly where the OP is parking.

In a space between the school and the station. ✅

Has on street parking. ✅

Is not taking up a residents' only parking space ✅ (because she is not parking in a residents' only parking space).

BettysRoasties · 16/09/2025 12:11

Just be careful as they may damage your car and also residents may be pushing for permits or banning school traffic.

There seems to be three types of school bans. One they actually close the road with cones, two they use an anpr camera and any car going into the road must be a registered resident/career between school hours on weekdays or they have a warden/camera and the road is closed by sign only between 7-9am and 2-4pm. All incur fines if you break the rules and they are becoming more and more popular from the council because money and residents want them.

So you might want to make a plan for if that happens.

Pinkelephant66 · 16/09/2025 12:14

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/09/2025 12:00

Nobody has insulted you.

The only "entitled folk" are the ones who think that buying parcel of land A also entitles them to exclusive use of parcel of land B which is in fact publicly owned and maintained by the taxpayer.

I wonder if GleiszWei is the owner of said cone

sandyhappypeople · 16/09/2025 12:18

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/09/2025 12:06

Surely there is somewhere between the school and the train station that has on street parking that may not be taking up a residents only parking space?

You have just described exactly where the OP is parking.

In a space between the school and the station. ✅

Has on street parking. ✅

Is not taking up a residents' only parking space ✅ (because she is not parking in a residents' only parking space).

How obtuse of you, well done. 👏

If it is such a residential area where they only have space for one car outside of their house, then OP will be taking up a space of someone who lives there while she leaves her car there all day.. I didn't say residents-only parking space, I said a residents ONLY parking space.. but I'm sure you knew that.

My point is, there is very likely more available parking in the surrounding area, a minute or two walk away from the school where you aren't being inconsiderate to people who live there by leaving your car all day.

Unfortunately most school run people wouldn't even consider doing that because they want to open their door and walk straight in the school gates.

DrAmeliaShepherdMD · 16/09/2025 12:29

I get why that’s frustrating but I’d be reluctant to move them, purely because of an experience I had a while back when I had to oversee some electrical repair work at a relatives house. UK Power Networks had to dig up the road to do something with the cables and they’d put cones out the night before because if anyone had parked there it would have been impossible for the work to be completed until the cars were moved

Our village fb group was awash with outraged people bemoaning the cones when there wasn’t even any work being done. True, but there was going to be work the following morning, hence the cones. So there was in fact a valid reason for the cones to be there even though the outraged drivers didn’t know what the reason was.

For that reason I’d leave the cones alone and park somewhere else. As mentioned upthread, they might need those spaces left clear for genuine reasons and without asking them I wouldn’t want to assume

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/09/2025 12:38

sandyhappypeople · 16/09/2025 12:18

How obtuse of you, well done. 👏

If it is such a residential area where they only have space for one car outside of their house, then OP will be taking up a space of someone who lives there while she leaves her car there all day.. I didn't say residents-only parking space, I said a residents ONLY parking space.. but I'm sure you knew that.

My point is, there is very likely more available parking in the surrounding area, a minute or two walk away from the school where you aren't being inconsiderate to people who live there by leaving your car all day.

Unfortunately most school run people wouldn't even consider doing that because they want to open their door and walk straight in the school gates.

I didn't say residents-only parking space, I said a residents ONLY parking space.. but I'm sure you knew that.

If you learned how to use apostrophes correctly, I would have known that. Unfortunately...

It is not the "resident's only parking space". It is not the resident's parking space at all. The resident might not even own a car, for all the OP knows.

It is, as people have pointed out ad infinitum, the public highway, with no parking restrictions. The OP pays as much to maintain it as the person outside whose property it happens to be.

I have no idea why you think an area within walking distance of a station which serves London is likely to be full of other streets with ample parking and no houses. What an odd thing to think.

WibbleyPie · 16/09/2025 12:47

Suppose it depends on how you'd feel if you were inconvenienced in some way by someone else doing the same.

Using the 'legally parked' argument is valid, but ime people are not happy when they're the ones experiencing the inconvenience. People are perfectly happy to park where it may inconvenience others because it's legal, but reserve the right to complain about it when it's them being inconvenienced.

GleisZwei · 16/09/2025 13:00

Noaparkday · 16/09/2025 11:36

Sorry, I genuinely thought you was struggling to understand given you are filling the thread with the same repetitive nonsense. Campaign to change the law if you disagree with it.

Rightio.

sandyhappypeople · 16/09/2025 13:01

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 16/09/2025 12:38

I didn't say residents-only parking space, I said a residents ONLY parking space.. but I'm sure you knew that.

If you learned how to use apostrophes correctly, I would have known that. Unfortunately...

It is not the "resident's only parking space". It is not the resident's parking space at all. The resident might not even own a car, for all the OP knows.

It is, as people have pointed out ad infinitum, the public highway, with no parking restrictions. The OP pays as much to maintain it as the person outside whose property it happens to be.

I have no idea why you think an area within walking distance of a station which serves London is likely to be full of other streets with ample parking and no houses. What an odd thing to think.

So you don't think they even own a car.. but have put a cone outside.. yep sounds likely.

Just because you can park somewhere legally, doesn't mean you should, especially when parking is limited for residents and especially when it is near a school so will be busy, and you don't know if people need access for carers, support, disability etc.

I have no idea why you think an area within walking distance of a station which serves London is likely to be full of other streets with ample parking and no houses.

Not sure where you are getting 'no houses' from, it's not what I said, but you quite obviously read something then decide to put your own spin on it just so you can make an argument against it.. very odd indeed.