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To remove the parking cones?

481 replies

NameChanger401 · 15/09/2025 16:33

i have a tight turnaround for the school run each morning as need to catch a train to office (commute to London). The only way to make it logistically possible is to drive to school breakfast club, drop kids off at 7.30ish then walk to station near school so I can get to office for 9am. Then the car is there when I pick up at 6pm later in the day so I can make pickup easily too. School is on a residential road, with on street open marked parking spaces there are usually a few spaces at 7.30 with no timing restrictions, I assume as some residents have left for work. However, I’ve noticed since the new term has started, a random traffic cone has been put in the middle a couple of the spaces, which I believe has been put there by those living on the road to stop people parking outside their house. If this is the case, would you think it would be unreasonable to move the cone to park if there is no other close by parking space?

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minipie · 15/09/2025 17:16

Agree with the PP who said you’re within your rights to move the cones BUT the end result will probably be residents only parking.

The spaces may be because other people are doing the school run for example - those cars aren’t necessarily going to be gone all day as you are assuming - so it will be very annoying if cars like yours are there all day.

Englishladyofacertainage · 15/09/2025 17:20

BruisedNeckMeat · 15/09/2025 16:41

I know the Mumsnet consensus is that a public road is a free for all, but I can’t imagine how frustrating it is for residents who have to live on a road with both a school and commuter parking.

Can you not park at the station?

It's not a Mumsnet consensus: it's literally, legally, a free-for-all.

Denim4ever · 15/09/2025 17:21

Whilst you are within your rights there are quite a few reasons a cone might be there. For example, tradespeople coming to do works. They will arrive 7:30 at the earliest. I'm amazed a child can be in before school club at 7:30. That is very early for nursery nevermind school aged.

notedbiscuits · 15/09/2025 17:22

SprayWhiteDung · 15/09/2025 16:51

You also have to wonder where these people get the cones from.

Do they buy them from a legitimate cone supplier, or do they just steal them from the council?

Are they stealing council-owned cones in order to steal exclusive parking access to council-owned roads?

Regards to traffic cones, on litter picks on major roads, we often find traffic cones. Most are broken. Obviously from some roadworks done in the past but the contractors have not collected every single cone. They may have found one in a similar situation. Or can buy them for £12 online

outerspacepotato · 15/09/2025 17:24

Move those cones at your own (and your car's) risk.

Ddakji · 15/09/2025 17:24

Bitzee · 15/09/2025 16:59

Presuming you’re legally parked, complying with permit restrictions etc. then I would definitely move the cones.

The homeowner with the cones is being ridiculous. They’ve presumably made a choice (assuming that the school isn’t brand new) to live in a house without a driveway on a busy road with a school so can’t reasonably complain about a legally parked car near their house.

There’s a different between having cars in your street twice a day at drop off and pick up, and cars left there all day.

We used to have this - popular nursery up the road (not on our road). Move your car in the day and you’d be lucky to get a space on the road, let alone by your house.

We ended up with residents parking. 8.30-6.30.

columnatedruinsdomino · 15/09/2025 17:28

Why don't you leave home earlier, park at the station then walk the dc to school?

Whammyyammy · 15/09/2025 17:48

HelplessSoul · 15/09/2025 16:37

Cone into boot, lock car and away you go to work!

Its a public road.

100% this.

Whammyyammy · 15/09/2025 17:49

columnatedruinsdomino · 15/09/2025 17:28

Why don't you leave home earlier, park at the station then walk the dc to school?

Because I'd imagine parking at the train station is very expensive. Parking on public highway is free.

Sixgeese · 15/09/2025 17:58

My DM lives opposite a secondary school which is around 15 minutes from the station. There are traffic cones in front of her and her neighbours house, but she didn't put them there, the school did.

Delivery trucks, emergency vehicles etc can't make the swing into the school if cars are left there all day, especially if they can't ask the car owner to move the car when needed.

Some cones outside schools might have been placed by the people who live in the houses, but not all, some have been put there by the school.

Silvers11 · 15/09/2025 18:00

@NameChanger401 Well if there are no restrictions shown, or parking permits needed etc, and a vehicle can be legally parked there, then you have as much right as anyone else to park there. Of course.

BUT I feel for the people who live there too, nevertheless. You are leaving the car for a long time every day. I would venture to suggest that when you find spaces at 7.30am, in many cases , those drivers, will be back home again long before you will, if they work more locally. Must be very difficult to not be able to get anywhere near your own house when you come back? Or to have carers who come in during the day etc etc who can't get parked?

It's one of those issues where legally you are in the right , but morally questionable, so you are in danger of getting your car keyed, or other damage. Not at all right either, but people get very frustrated. As others have said, sooner or later, the area will become resident's parking only or will have other restrictions placed on it.

Can you not park at the Station? I guess that will maybe cost you though?

Thistooshallpsss · 15/09/2025 18:02

Am I the only person wondering about children who are in school from 7.30 to 6pm? Poor kids

rwalker · 15/09/2025 18:06

Cause you can move them but I would fully expect your car to be keyed

Whaleandsnail6 · 15/09/2025 18:13

columnatedruinsdomino · 15/09/2025 17:28

Why don't you leave home earlier, park at the station then walk the dc to school?

Because she has the option of parking legally and for free somewhere that is convenient for her

If it ever becomes an option that she can't park there, then op will have to cross that bridge but for now, no real reason not to park there.

Hankunamatata · 15/09/2025 18:21

Personally I wouldnt as wouldnt want my car keyed or damaged

NameChanger401 · 15/09/2025 18:30

Thistooshallpsss · 15/09/2025 18:02

Am I the only person wondering about children who are in school from 7.30 to 6pm? Poor kids

Poor kids who are housed, fed, clothed and get family holidays and do nice things at weekends etc with our salaries that we need to work/commute for. Do you live near London?

if one of us can pick up early we always do, but don’t know until on the day.

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NameChanger401 · 15/09/2025 18:35

I can park at the station (pricey!) but its a one way system and would probably miss my train by the time I drove, parked up and walked to the platform.

its quicker to walk straight from the school, but still a 15-20 min walk which I wouldn’t want the kids to do at 7am so parking at station first isn’t ideal either.

but thanks for the suggestion. Doable but parking at the school is way more convenient.

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Friendlygingercat · 15/09/2025 18:36

There was a TV parking wars program about a street near a station where the parking prices went up. Commuters would not pay the extra. So they began to park on the street instead, causing inconvenience to residents. When approached some of the commuters were abusive. Bear in mind that these cars were being left outside the resident's houses all day. The residents got together and worked out a parking plan so there was no room for any extra (commuter) cars to get in. They quite enjoyed the sight of the commuters becoming more and more desperate in their efforts to save a few pounds. I love this story.

Bambamhoohoo · 15/09/2025 18:38

Totally just move the cones. Put a note on them to say you’re reporting them for placing an obstruction on a public road 😉😉

Bambamhoohoo · 15/09/2025 18:39

Thistooshallpsss · 15/09/2025 18:02

Am I the only person wondering about children who are in school from 7.30 to 6pm? Poor kids

Totally normal?! Why do you think schools have breakfast and after schoool clubs? 😂

Thistooshallpsss · 15/09/2025 19:06

I just think it’s a very long day for the children I’m not sure such long hours are that normal

GleisZwei · 15/09/2025 19:12

I think you're being a bit cheeky tbh OP.
Yes, it's a road that anyone can currently park on, but you're leaving your car there, outside other people's houses, for quite a long time evers single weekday. You need to think of a more considerate long term solution.

GleisZwei · 15/09/2025 19:12

Thistooshallpsss · 15/09/2025 19:06

I just think it’s a very long day for the children I’m not sure such long hours are that normal

I agree. Poor children.

SprayWhiteDung · 15/09/2025 19:15

DoraSpenlow · 15/09/2025 16:57

You can get them on Amazon.

Oh, I know you can buy them quite easily - but I'm also aware that the kind of person who feels entitled to claim exclusive rights to a public facility is probably also the kind of person who would feel that the council should pay (by providing cones for them to swipe) to 'protect' it for them.

I know there are plenty of perfectly legitimate cases of people wanting/needing to cone off their own property to protect it, and do so with cones that they've bought legitimately from Amazon or another cone supplier.

SprayWhiteDung · 15/09/2025 19:20

HappyHunting101 · 15/09/2025 17:05

You absolutely could move it, but the fact that they've put it there indicates that it's clearly a problem for them. People who put cones out might be willing to go to "next steps" if you park there anyway.

To be honest I don't think I'd be thrilled about a car being dumped outside my house for 9 or 10 hours a day, Monday to Friday. It's not illegal to do it, but it's crappy, you can see their point.

It's not 'dumped', 'abandoned' or any other loaded description that some people like to employ.

Unless they're taxis shared by two or more drivers, virtually every car spends the majority of its time parked somewhere, ready for when it is needed. This is entirely normal.

Do you think that people who have drives 'dump' them on there when they aren't using them? Is your sofa 'dumped' in your living room whilst you're out at work or in bed?

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