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Payment late for work

52 replies

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 10:33

My husband and I own a small decorating company and have a selection of clients who we regularly do work for. One couple who are retired in their 70s we did some work for on monday. They generally pay about 2 days later by bank transfer, I think it's a case of when the husband checks his emails and sees the invoice. Anyway, it's now Thursday and we haven't received payment. AIBU to text with a polite reminder or should we wait another day or two?

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Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 11:47

TheSwarm · 11/09/2025 11:33

2 days after receiving an invoice is not a huge amount of time, i think it's premature to be chasing at this point. If you desperately need the money then that is an issue with how you manage cashflow.

But, as a professional company, you should have policies and terms for this in place, and not have to revert to asking a bunch of randoms on the internet.

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Isn't asking a bunch of randoms their opinions the point of Mumsnet?

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Arlanymor · 11/09/2025 11:47

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 11:43

Yes. We just had our car looked at by a mechanic in the garage and paid them immediately. Wasn't sure their terms were but they had completed everything so I paid when i collected the car. Thank you

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As the consumer, it is your responsibility to understand the terms before or at the point of booking. I had my tyres replaced - all details of the ways to pay are on my garage's website: https://www.protyre.co.uk/legal-advisory/terms-condition

Terms and Conditions | Protyre

Here you can see all of the retail terms and conditions of sale that the Protyre website operates under.

https://www.protyre.co.uk/legal-advisory/terms-conditions

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 11:56

Thank you to everyone who helped me decide. I am going to leave it until Monday.

We always aim to be clear and transparent with our customers. Before starting any work, we make sure to explain in writing our terms and conditions so there are no surprises. All are on our website too.

While these aren’t repeated in full on my invoices, they shall be going forward.

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tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 11:58

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 11:25

Ugh. Who said we don't have legal protection? It just doesn't say it on the invoice. It's clearly stated on the elsewhere

I simply asked if it's reasonable to remind them

Edited

Whether it’s stated elsewhere or not is irrelevant - if they haven’t signed a contract or received an invoice that states they need to pay within X amount of time, then the general legal position is that they have 30 days to pay.

You can “ugh” all you want but as a business owner it’s your responsibility to know this stuff. Morals don’t come into it - if you choose not to write proper contracts and invoices then you open yourself up to all kinds of problems.

As a dog walker, my clients have until Friday each week to pay me. It’s in the contracts they sign when they start services and is written on all invoices. If they don’t pay me then services are suspended until they do. If no payment is made after 30 days then they can be taken to small claims.

Luxio · 11/09/2025 11:58

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 11:56

Thank you to everyone who helped me decide. I am going to leave it until Monday.

We always aim to be clear and transparent with our customers. Before starting any work, we make sure to explain in writing our terms and conditions so there are no surprises. All are on our website too.

While these aren’t repeated in full on my invoices, they shall be going forward.

Edited

Sorry you're not being very clear? Is there a part in your terms and conditions that they agreed and signed that specifically states how long they have to pay upon the work being completed?

ForeverPombear · 11/09/2025 11:59

What's the length of time stated on your website?

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 11:59

x-post. You need to get them to sign and say they agree to your terms.

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:00

On completion

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ForeverPombear · 11/09/2025 12:00

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:00

On completion

Ok well in that case I'd be following up today or tomorrow.

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 12:01

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:00

On completion

Right, but have they signed anything to say they agree to that?

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:03

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 12:01

Right, but have they signed anything to say they agree to that?

Yes.....at the beginning. I just simply wanted to know if despite this, and having had their loyal custom for 2 years, AIBU to remind them.

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tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 12:05

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:03

Yes.....at the beginning. I just simply wanted to know if despite this, and having had their loyal custom for 2 years, AIBU to remind them.

In your shoes I would send a reminder 24 hours after payment is due - especially if they’ve signed to say they’ll pay once work if completed.

Luxio · 11/09/2025 12:05

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:03

Yes.....at the beginning. I just simply wanted to know if despite this, and having had their loyal custom for 2 years, AIBU to remind them.

I think your problem then is that in the past you've not enforced this by giving them several days to pay.

If the payment is due upon completion then surely they should be paying before you leave?

BeltaLodaLife · 11/09/2025 12:07

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:03

Yes.....at the beginning. I just simply wanted to know if despite this, and having had their loyal custom for 2 years, AIBU to remind them.

So why didn’t you answer that after the first time you were asked?

Some people send out invoices and payment terms are 7 days, but they’ll send reminders on day 2 and 5, leaving customers feeling harassed. I was asking in case you’d given them a payment window but wanted to nudge them earlier. Just since your OP said he usually pays within 2 days, so maybe you were expecting the money in 2 days and didn’t want to wait for the full payment window.

If you’ve give them payment terms which they agreed to (on completion) then it is not unreasonable to send a reminder on day 3. It would be unreasonable to send a reminder if the payment terms were 7 days or some other number.

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:08

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 11:58

Whether it’s stated elsewhere or not is irrelevant - if they haven’t signed a contract or received an invoice that states they need to pay within X amount of time, then the general legal position is that they have 30 days to pay.

You can “ugh” all you want but as a business owner it’s your responsibility to know this stuff. Morals don’t come into it - if you choose not to write proper contracts and invoices then you open yourself up to all kinds of problems.

As a dog walker, my clients have until Friday each week to pay me. It’s in the contracts they sign when they start services and is written on all invoices. If they don’t pay me then services are suspended until they do. If no payment is made after 30 days then they can be taken to small claims.

Ugh. They have signed.
I just simply wanted to know if despite all that, AIBU to remind them given their loyalty as customers.

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tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 12:09

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:08

Ugh. They have signed.
I just simply wanted to know if despite all that, AIBU to remind them given their loyalty as customers.

Ugh. You didn’t say that until after I replied 😏

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:13

BeltaLodaLife · 11/09/2025 12:07

So why didn’t you answer that after the first time you were asked?

Some people send out invoices and payment terms are 7 days, but they’ll send reminders on day 2 and 5, leaving customers feeling harassed. I was asking in case you’d given them a payment window but wanted to nudge them earlier. Just since your OP said he usually pays within 2 days, so maybe you were expecting the money in 2 days and didn’t want to wait for the full payment window.

If you’ve give them payment terms which they agreed to (on completion) then it is not unreasonable to send a reminder on day 3. It would be unreasonable to send a reminder if the payment terms were 7 days or some other number.

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I didn't think i needed to. We're a business. Of course they signed, of course there are terms and conditions. I said we are company.

I have written this many times now. All i wanted to know is AIBU reminding them given their loyal custom?

Surely anyone can see that's a dilemma? Regardless of terms and conditions in place. These are customers of two years who we regularly do work for. Is a reminder unreasonable? Simply that.

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Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:14

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 12:09

Ugh. You didn’t say that until after I replied 😏

D

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tumblingdowntherabbithole · 11/09/2025 12:15

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:13

I didn't think i needed to. We're a business. Of course they signed, of course there are terms and conditions. I said we are company.

I have written this many times now. All i wanted to know is AIBU reminding them given their loyal custom?

Surely anyone can see that's a dilemma? Regardless of terms and conditions in place. These are customers of two years who we regularly do work for. Is a reminder unreasonable? Simply that.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking loyalty means you owe them a kindness. Payment is now several days overdue so of course you should remind them.

Havanananana · 11/09/2025 12:20

Another way that you can avoid the hassle of chasing for payment is to take on-the-spot payments by credit/debit card. There are numerous providers that can facilitate this and it is particularly useful for small businesses and trades. Checkatrade has a good article on this approach > How To Take Card Payments For Your Trade Business | Checkatrade

TheSwarm · 11/09/2025 12:24

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 11:47

Isn't asking a bunch of randoms their opinions the point of Mumsnet?

The point being that you should have policies in place already and the client should be informed of them so everyone knows where they are, without having to make things up on the spot.

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:26

TheSwarm · 11/09/2025 12:24

The point being that you should have policies in place already and the client should be informed of them so everyone knows where they are, without having to make things up on the spot.

We do have those in place.

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Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:27

Havanananana · 11/09/2025 12:20

Another way that you can avoid the hassle of chasing for payment is to take on-the-spot payments by credit/debit card. There are numerous providers that can facilitate this and it is particularly useful for small businesses and trades. Checkatrade has a good article on this approach > How To Take Card Payments For Your Trade Business | Checkatrade

Thank you

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Cosyblankets · 11/09/2025 12:33

If they've signed something then I wouldn't hesitate.
Hi Sue and Bob just a reminder that payment is now due
Regards
Decorator

TheSwarm · 11/09/2025 12:43

Greenfingered1 · 11/09/2025 12:26

We do have those in place.

Edited

Well then follow them. If I get an invoice which is due for payment in say 7 days I would not be impressed to get a reminder after 2.

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