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To think neighbour changed her mind

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ForZanyTraybake · 08/09/2025 13:42

My neighbour asked me to go to flower arranging with her in the community centre. I agreed and she called for me and we went together. The following week was bank holiday but she said she'd call me and we'd go out for the day. The call never came. Last week I waited for her to call for me for flower arranging as agreed but she walked past and didn't look in. Same thing this week only ten minutes into the flower arranging she text me and said she forgot to call for me and was I going round. I've ignored the text as I think she didn't want to see me and for whatever reason has now changed her mind. This is a very intelligent woman in her forties with no clear signs of Alzheimer's. Aibu to not trust her.

OP posts:
Tetchypants · 11/09/2025 16:00

What was the deleted post about?

Agree with others it’s a bit sad / churlish to think you have to wait for a call in order to do something in your local community centre. Odd.

nomas · 11/09/2025 16:05

ForZanyTraybake · 11/09/2025 15:50

Update: the forgetful neighbour knocked and said she forgot to call me over bank holiday and went away for 3 days in her caravan. Forgot to call for me for flower arranging the following week because she went with her daughter and forgot to call for me again this week. Asked me to go next week and said she'd call for me so I said I didn't want to go to which she said she'd call for me anyway. Weird!

Did she, aye.

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