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To be worried about emigration

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YourOpenNavyAnt · 03/09/2025 03:54

Our neighbours, 2 highly skilled Indian immigrants, who have been in the UK for 8 years are emigrating to another country. He’ll get an 50% pay increase for doing the same job in another country, plus a lower housing costs. According to him, a sizeable cohort of his friends, also want to leave the UK.

I have two cousins who have spent £10000s for their children to study for a masters in another country to make it easier for them gain the right to work.

A colleague’s children (both junior doctors) have both migrated to Australia, with no plans to return. Another colleague’s daughter (a dentist) has moved to New Zealand for 6 months, to determine if she wants to settle permanently.

I have a large circle Aussie friends and acquaintances from my time living in London and most (8-10 people) have either returned or are planning to return. These are people who’ve lived here for 10+ years and have British citizenship but they view the UK as being in terminal decline.

Has anyone else noticed this trend? Is this country really that shit?

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deeahgwitch · 09/09/2025 15:27

Where are your neighbours going @YourOpenNavyAntthat salaries are way better and housing cost much less than the UK. It sounds good.

Eloeeze · 09/09/2025 15:29

I think it’s excellent that people are able to leave when they want to. It’s not always possible to leave, of course. We can’t just emigrate easily and expect it all to go well in a new country. Where would we go? We have to prove a fairly high income and ensure employment in advance, it’s a lot of hoops to jump through to prove our worth.

KhakiTiger · 09/09/2025 15:44

We should be worried about emigration.

Unfortunately the people emigrating all high earner, high skilled people. And people coming in are net takers on average. So guess what, the country gets poorer.

How genius of successive governments to replace high earning, net contributors with low or non earning net takers.

KhakiTiger · 09/09/2025 15:45

Snorlaxo · 03/09/2025 04:27

We are quickly heading towards where the US is today. There’s a loud minority who want no immigration (legal or not ) because they think that’s why things are shit for them today. Who wants to live in a country where they feel unsafe and unwelcome? Asylum hotels today can progress quickly into other risks tomorrow.

We are heading towards US?

You wish.

A quarter of the world’s GDP, high growth economy and a country that is self sufficient on energy. We could only dream of being like the US.

Dangermouse999 · 09/09/2025 18:07

Ablondiebutagoody · 03/09/2025 08:51

Labour Governments ALWAYS crash the economy. Every single one.

The tax burden is way too high and is stifling growth but they are politically incapable of cutting spending (or even slowing the rate of increase). I will be preparing DS for a move abroad. No point in working hard here for the Government to confiscate everything.

The Tories have presided over many recessions - more than Labour since the war, as well as various other economic crises such as sterling devaluations and bond market crises.

Some of these (under both parties) were triggered by global factors outside of the UK’s control like the 1973 oil price crisis and the 2007 credit crunch.

But you conveniently forgot all that, didn’t you? Because of course it’s always Labour who crashes the economy.

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Batelyboo · 09/09/2025 20:39

Dangermouse999 · 09/09/2025 18:07

The Tories have presided over many recessions - more than Labour since the war, as well as various other economic crises such as sterling devaluations and bond market crises.

Some of these (under both parties) were triggered by global factors outside of the UK’s control like the 1973 oil price crisis and the 2007 credit crunch.

But you conveniently forgot all that, didn’t you? Because of course it’s always Labour who crashes the economy.

🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

Right! Liz truss anyone 🙄

Grammarnut · 10/09/2025 22:15

AnPiscin · 05/09/2025 10:27

Yes it did. Between 2016 and 2021, 135 companies moved from the UK to Dublin as a direct consequence of Brexit. Bearing in mind that Dublin has a population of 1.5 million and the country as a whole has a tiny population of just over 5 million, that's a huge number.

Ireland had a budget surplus in 2024 of 21.9 billion euros.

But will be hit soon by the EU's tax policies. Dublin has allowed huge tax breaks to companies such as Amazon but is facing the removal of their right to do this. 135 companies sounds a lot, but is a minute number of such companies in the City. London remains one of the greatest financial hubs of the world and the UK regulatory system is considered one of the best and safest, which is why companies want to locate here.

SophW89 · 19/09/2025 16:28

ninjahamster · 03/09/2025 09:37

I think the biggest issue is the cycle of negativity that’s being perpetuated by the media. Everything is doom and gloom. The entire narrative is that the economy is shit, COL is shit, benefit users are shit, asylum seekers are shit, the nhs is shit, the education system is shit, MH has gone to shit etc etc.
I really don’t think everything is as bad as the media would have us believe.

Completely agree. The media makes out that there's rioting, mugging, and God knows what else on every street corner. I'm not saying the country is without problems, but I also this we love a bit of negativity!

AzurePanda · 20/09/2025 04:33

@Grammarnut yes, Ireland’s success is built on sand and Trump has the country’s tax incentives well in his sights.

StandFirm · 20/09/2025 05:26

HappiestSleeping · 03/09/2025 04:15

I never thought I'd say this about England, but since Brexshit, I'd leave if I could. The Conservatives screwed the country up, climate change pushing prices up, Farage pushing division and racism, the economy in decline, effects of Ukraine etc

It will take a long while to recover, if it ever does.

As a Remainer since the very first minute that dreadful referendum was announced (will NEVER forgive Cameron for that irresponsible decision), I absolutely hate being right about all of it. You have no idea how much I wanted to be proved wrong by Leavers.

HappiestSleeping · 20/09/2025 06:19

StandFirm · 20/09/2025 05:26

As a Remainer since the very first minute that dreadful referendum was announced (will NEVER forgive Cameron for that irresponsible decision), I absolutely hate being right about all of it. You have no idea how much I wanted to be proved wrong by Leavers.

I know exactly how you feel. Cameron was a complete buffoon.

tramtracks · 20/09/2025 08:20

CheeseyOnionPie · 09/09/2025 00:12

A year is nothing. You can’t turn around a whole country within 1 year. It took the best part of 20 years to get here, it’s unrealistic to think there would be sweeping change in just 1 year. A year goes by like that!

Yes - but what are they actually planning to do to get economic growth in the country. Gifting huge pay rises to striking government employees isn’t helping.

AzurePanda · 20/09/2025 09:51

@CheeseyOnionPie nobody was expecting them to turn it around in a year but their decisions and policies have made pretty much every single economic metric worse. The borrowing levels are terrifying and spending continues to balloon while growth flat lines,

ExtraOnions · 20/09/2025 10:06

This country has been on the slide since 1979. Thatcherism sold off anything of value, and we’ve been beholden to the ravages of Capitalism ever since.

Brexit made it worse, as we lost and guaranteed trading partner, and were left scrubbing about for deals.

I am actively encouraging my DD to get a profession that allows her to leave.

AzurePanda · 20/09/2025 10:47

@ExtraOnions I don’t agree with you on the causes but do agree on the outcome, 2 of my 3 children have left the country and DH and I are planning on following imminently. Sick of being bled dry for taxes in a country where little functions.

OrigamiOwls · 20/09/2025 10:56

If I had anywhere I could go I would be leaving given the option.

Climbingrosexx · 20/09/2025 11:38

ExtraOnions · 20/09/2025 10:06

This country has been on the slide since 1979. Thatcherism sold off anything of value, and we’ve been beholden to the ravages of Capitalism ever since.

Brexit made it worse, as we lost and guaranteed trading partner, and were left scrubbing about for deals.

I am actively encouraging my DD to get a profession that allows her to leave.

I agree that Thatcher had a lot to answer for and personally I thought she was a despicable woman, but go back to 1974, the labour government of the late 70s crippled industry. We had unions running the country, a 3 day week, constant power cuts (mum was always digging out the candles). Companies took their business elsewhere because they couldn't rely on the UK fulfilling orders as they were always out on strike. Sadly I am old enough to have lived through the winter of discontent. As for this shower of shit we have now, well I have no words I knew it would be bad but I wasn't prepared for this

EasternStandard · 20/09/2025 14:41

AzurePanda · 20/09/2025 09:51

@CheeseyOnionPie nobody was expecting them to turn it around in a year but their decisions and policies have made pretty much every single economic metric worse. The borrowing levels are terrifying and spending continues to balloon while growth flat lines,

Yes they’ve created a bigger issue with huge amounts of borrowing and debt servicing and the NI has hit growth and jobs.

coxesorangepippin · 20/09/2025 14:54

Well yes

And given the current nurses thread and the fact that there are no jobs for new nurses, what do you expect?

EasternStandard · 20/09/2025 15:11

Climbingrosexx · 20/09/2025 11:38

I agree that Thatcher had a lot to answer for and personally I thought she was a despicable woman, but go back to 1974, the labour government of the late 70s crippled industry. We had unions running the country, a 3 day week, constant power cuts (mum was always digging out the candles). Companies took their business elsewhere because they couldn't rely on the UK fulfilling orders as they were always out on strike. Sadly I am old enough to have lived through the winter of discontent. As for this shower of shit we have now, well I have no words I knew it would be bad but I wasn't prepared for this

Agree re the unions and 70s

CheeseyOnionPie · 23/09/2025 22:07

tramtracks · 20/09/2025 08:20

Yes - but what are they actually planning to do to get economic growth in the country. Gifting huge pay rises to striking government employees isn’t helping.

Record number of major infrastructure projects approved

6bn investment and trade deal with India (who may well become a major global power in the next 2 decades)

150bn investment in uk tech

there are things happening but both progression (and regression) happen slowly

AlinaRawlings · 23/09/2025 22:46

HappiestSleeping · 03/09/2025 04:15

I never thought I'd say this about England, but since Brexshit, I'd leave if I could. The Conservatives screwed the country up, climate change pushing prices up, Farage pushing division and racism, the economy in decline, effects of Ukraine etc

It will take a long while to recover, if it ever does.

Climate change pushing prices up 😆😆 open your eyes Jesus Christ

zeddybrek · 23/09/2025 23:05

This thread seems to involve a lot of doctors moving abroad.

Anyway, personally I don't know anyone emigrating. I did phone my friend in Dubai, he has lived three for decades now. He said cost of living is high there too especially rent. He is baffled that so many think the grass is greener there. It will be interesting to see how many people come back in the next day 5 to 10 years. Racism has always been a problem, I remember the BNP being given a lot of air time years ago. Overall crime is down. We need to take a step back and think about how quality of life has improved over the longer term albeit slowly with some ups and downs.

HappiestSleeping · 24/09/2025 06:36

AlinaRawlings · 23/09/2025 22:46

Climate change pushing prices up 😆😆 open your eyes Jesus Christ

I meant all of those things, but yes, haven't you seen how the weather changes are affecting crops? This years yields are 50% down. Do you not think that reduced supply pushes prices up?