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School stopping Meat Free Monday doesn’t make any sense

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Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 18:59

Our schools trust has recently stopped being part of Meat Free Monday for school lunches. The school have said some parents complained about it.

The school is very focused on being environmentally conscious- crisps not allowed as a break time snack due to potential errant packets, single use plastic actively discouraged etc. I can’t see a single reason why a school or a parent would have any issue with lunches being meat free for one day a week but maybe I’m missing something?

You are being unreasonable- being meat free for one meal is not a reasonable request

You are not being unreasonable -being meat free for one school meal is not a bad thing

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GleisZwei · 02/09/2025 02:48

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 19:55

@BusMumsHoliday why can't they just give them healthy food that's meat free? Baked potato and beans/cheese, vegetable curry and rice, bean chilli? Why do they need to put this TVP crap?!

Or healthy food that contains meat.

GleisZwei · 02/09/2025 02:48

Plasticwaste · 01/09/2025 19:59

Because meat is carcinogenic while plants are the building blocks of good nutrition.

Incorrect.

Meadowfinch · 02/09/2025 02:57

My ds' school tried it for a year then abandoned it too, because dcs simply weren't eating the food, which rather defeats the object. The main purpose of school meals is to ensure dcs are fed and ready to learn, and they weren't

The only meat-free food the kids would eat was cheese & tomato pizza.

Now there is a veggie option, but meat/fish based meals are always available.

Making meat-free food taste good requires it to be freshly cooked which makes it expensive. Child-friendly, nutritious & tasty ready meals are not easy.

Meadowfinch · 02/09/2025 03:06

Plasticwaste · 01/09/2025 19:59

Because meat is carcinogenic while plants are the building blocks of good nutrition.

No it isn't. Don't be absurd. Humans are omnivores and our digestive systems have evolved to digest meat safely.

Some highly processed meats such as cured sausage can be carcinogenic in large quantities but fresh meat is fine.

StayALittleLonger · 02/09/2025 04:00

My children’s school only offers vegetarian and vegan options. It seems to suit all the kids. I’ve only ever heard one parent complaining, but she’s very pro meat eating and quite weird about it. She knew the menu when she enrolled her child there and the child eats the food happily, which the mum clearly isn’t too happy about. Apparently the child wants to be vegetarian at home but her mum won’t let her.

Some people seem to think they’ll die if they don’t eat meat multiple times a day.

sashh · 02/09/2025 05:49

TheGreatWesternShrew · 01/09/2025 20:34

Why would lack of meat affect a gluten allergy?

Because, as the poster says, the vegi food often has gluten in it. This is not home made vegi food it is mass produced, usually frozen.

We could learn a lot from Japan, and yes I know money is tight but some of the things they do make sense.

Lots of schools in Japan have vegetable gardens maintained by teachers and students and used in the school lunches.

I know there isn't time in the day to add in gardening and obviously money is an issue, as is the lack of kitchen / cooks at some schools.

Leave me to dream, it makes me happy.

verycloakanddaggers · 02/09/2025 06:03

I assume some parents were not happy to have the choice of meat/vegetarian removed.

BlueJuniper94 · 02/09/2025 06:05

TheNightingalesStarling · 01/09/2025 19:03

What were the meal options like? It was often cheese pizza for example at Primary. Or fake meat, which isn't good for them.

What's wrong with fake meat? You mean like Quorn?

verycloakanddaggers · 02/09/2025 06:10

Meadowfinch · 02/09/2025 03:06

No it isn't. Don't be absurd. Humans are omnivores and our digestive systems have evolved to digest meat safely.

Some highly processed meats such as cured sausage can be carcinogenic in large quantities but fresh meat is fine.

"Red meat is classed as a probable cause of cancer. There is lots of good-quality evidence of a link between eating red meat and bowel cancer, but it is not as strong as the evidence for processed meat. In scientific studies, it’s hard to investigate eating red meat separately from eating processed meat.
There is some evidence that processed and red meat may increase the risk of other types of cancer, like stomach and pancreatic cancers. But we need more research to know for sure."

https://www.cancerresearchuk.org/about-cancer/causes-of-cancer/diet-and-cancer/does-processed-and-red-meat-cause-cancer

The amount of red meat some people eat is very high compared to our ancestors, it is not so hard to get hold of now we don't have to hunt it ourselves!

user1492757084 · 02/09/2025 06:11

Sounds like a political statement that is not necessary in a school.
There are meat free options every day, you say, so why make an absolute ban on meat on a Monday and announce that?

Kids can choose vege options. If they run out the kids can choose a pie.

Do the kids bringing a packed lunch also have to comply?
I would hate having to stick to a regimented No Meat Monday rule if I wanted to use the left over Sunday roast in a sandwich.

Iocainepowder · 02/09/2025 06:20

Our nursery feeds the kids a lot of quorn, due to a high number of kids there not eating beef. So I found it a big relief that my son is now moving to school with a much better menu of meat options.

Neemie · 02/09/2025 06:29

NuovaPilbeam · 01/09/2025 19:33

It depends what the alternatives are and if they are nutritionally good enough. The vast majority of school dinners are atrocious and the meat is often most of the calories. Thousands of schools also continue to flout the rules against sugary items, and provide a chocolate biscuit or the like (ive seen tunnocks etc) because they simply cant provide enough calories on the budget provided without resorting to sugar/puddings.

My concern would be that with a lack of creative effort and a weak budget, you could end with a vegetarian option thats lower calorie, overly carby, and lacking protein & B vitamins. Meat is a very nutritionally dense food.

‘I’ve seen Tunnocks’. I hope you wrote to your MP about that one. 😂

Setyoufree · 02/09/2025 06:35

Because it's a political statement, because it usually involves fake meat/fish, and presumably because it's not popular. Pure virtue signalling.

RawBloomers · 02/09/2025 06:43

I think for most Brits, generally, vegetarian options are less likely to be appealing than meat options on a menu. So if the issue is that parents have complained they've likely complained because what the school's vegetarian offerings, either normally or as part of "Meat Free Monday" have been unappealing to quite a few kids.

And from a school's perspective, if they've had a few parents turn to packed lunches for Mondays they probably need to do something to try and win them back as most school meal systems need as many kids as possible eating to make it more effective.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 02/09/2025 06:45

TheNightingalesStarling · 01/09/2025 19:03

What were the meal options like? It was often cheese pizza for example at Primary. Or fake meat, which isn't good for them.

The crap quality, meat sausages are much worse than the veggie ones tho.

Needspaceforlego · 02/09/2025 06:46

AnnaBegins · 01/09/2025 21:35

Last term at our school, meat free Monday was a choice of either the disgusting pizza that even the kids won't eat, or macaroni cheese.

To be fair, this term they are trying, it's either the disgusting pizza, or a 3 week rotation of spaghetti with garlic butter (so much less to make than £2.80), veg risotto, or vegan curry (sounds delicious but my kids tell me it's not).

But it's the waste that gets me - most of the kids either eat very little, or opt for a cheese sandwich, so all that effort goes in the bin. I'd be happy if they'd scrap the "title" and with it the pizza, and just offer a decent quality meat option on Mondays too.

Mine would opt for cheese sandwich with those options.

No allergies just doesn't really do mushy wet food. And never has even as a baby he refused all mush.
I often pull his dinner out the pot before I add sauce. So things like carbonarra without the cream.
Also describes schools pizza as disgusting (how is it possible to make pizza disgusting?)

GleisZwei · 02/09/2025 06:47

Quorn is, quite frankly, revolting.
Lots of folk feel sick/upset stomach after eating it too. I was a vegetarian for years but avoided it after a few attempts with it, due to the digestive effects.

GleisZwei · 02/09/2025 06:51

Needspaceforlego · 02/09/2025 06:46

Mine would opt for cheese sandwich with those options.

No allergies just doesn't really do mushy wet food. And never has even as a baby he refused all mush.
I often pull his dinner out the pot before I add sauce. So things like carbonarra without the cream.
Also describes schools pizza as disgusting (how is it possible to make pizza disgusting?)

Ways to make pizza disgusting are numerous, but cooking in batches and then attempting to keep individual slices warm, as many schools do, is a sure way to produce unpleasant pizza! The cheese congeals and the dough either goes like it's raw/mushy or turns really hard. The toppings might harden too, which won't help.

Needspaceforlego · 02/09/2025 07:11

Mushy base that will be it. He doesn't do mush.

For long enough he wouldn't touch pizza at all. Then asked for a budget 49p individual pizza. Which I started adding extra cheese too.
He will now eat thin pizza cheese and pepperoni but is still picky.

Ekkekkkeekkkekk · 02/09/2025 07:31

Meat doesn’t cause cancer FFS.

Ancient foods don’t cause modern diseases.

Cows are PART of the carbon cycle, they don’t contribute to it. Unlike tilling and fossil fuels.

SumUp · 02/09/2025 07:33

Ekkekkkeekkkekk · 02/09/2025 07:31

Meat doesn’t cause cancer FFS.

Ancient foods don’t cause modern diseases.

Cows are PART of the carbon cycle, they don’t contribute to it. Unlike tilling and fossil fuels.

Read some actual research. Red and processed meats ARE carcinogenic. Ask your doctor or a medical professional if you don’t believe Cancer Research UK.

GleisZwei · 02/09/2025 07:34

SumUp · 02/09/2025 07:29

Red and processed meats are carcinogenic.

https://www.cancerresearchuk.org/about-cancer/causes-of-cancer/diet-and-cancer/does-processed-and-red-meat-cause-cancer

Cancer research UK specifically recommend Meat Free Mondays as one of a number of ways to help reduce consumption.

So, 'meat is carcinogenic' as a blanket statement is indeed incorrect.
Overconsumption of certain meats may contribute to cancer.
Lots of environmental and dietary factors may contribute to cancer.
There's no need for a specific day to be assigned to eating a certain way.

NCSue87 · 02/09/2025 08:05

Frenzi · 01/09/2025 20:08

I get the reasoning behind it and it and it wouldnt bother me in the slightest but I do also see where some parents are coming from.

Their child eats meat - why do they have to do a meat free Monday with no other option with meat in it.

If your child was vegan/vegetarian and Tuesday was meat only with no vegetarian option you wouldn't be happy.

So why is it okay to have a day where meat eaters have no choice to eat meat but its not okay for vegetarians to have a day where they have no choice to only eat meat?

This is nonsensical. A vegetarian child wouldnt have anything to eat on a meat only day but a child who eats meat would still have options on a no meat day.

NCSue87 · 02/09/2025 08:06

Ekkekkkeekkkekk · 02/09/2025 07:31

Meat doesn’t cause cancer FFS.

Ancient foods don’t cause modern diseases.

Cows are PART of the carbon cycle, they don’t contribute to it. Unlike tilling and fossil fuels.

Part of it that we created. You dont 'get' wild cows. We engineered the breed.

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