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School stopping Meat Free Monday doesn’t make any sense

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Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 18:59

Our schools trust has recently stopped being part of Meat Free Monday for school lunches. The school have said some parents complained about it.

The school is very focused on being environmentally conscious- crisps not allowed as a break time snack due to potential errant packets, single use plastic actively discouraged etc. I can’t see a single reason why a school or a parent would have any issue with lunches being meat free for one day a week but maybe I’m missing something?

You are being unreasonable- being meat free for one meal is not a reasonable request

You are not being unreasonable -being meat free for one school meal is not a bad thing

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Plasticwaste · 01/09/2025 19:59

tripleginandtonic · 01/09/2025 19:54

This. Why force vegetarian/vegan food on people? There should be a choice of meat/ non meat every day.

Because meat is carcinogenic while plants are the building blocks of good nutrition.

HeddaGarbled · 01/09/2025 20:00

These sorts of initiatives are all very laudable but if the children don’t like what’s on offer, and the parents are voting with their money, then the school is stuck.

tripleginandtonic · 01/09/2025 20:01

Plasticwaste · 01/09/2025 19:59

Because meat is carcinogenic while plants are the building blocks of good nutrition.

We're omnivores.

LlamaNoDrama · 01/09/2025 20:03

Bushmillsbabe · 01/09/2025 19:27

As others have said, this may have causes issues for children with allergies,coeliac disease etc. My daughters school has just completely changed their menu, and it has been an absolute nightmare for her as coeliac. The new provider uses extra cheap meat, with lots of fillers - gluten. So she is having to become a vegetarian at school - which isn't an issue if it was fresh food - she loves fresh veggies etc more than meat, but they often have meat replacements in them which also often contain gluten, so we are now a bit stuffed.

I would have thought ensuring they have a gluten free option is a reasonable adjustment

Serencwtch · 01/09/2025 20:06

Many in the rural & farming communities find it a boy offensive. Slogging your guts out all year to provide quality British food & it's not good enough for the local schools.

Personally I don't have a problem with it as long as it's quality & healthy meat free food (veg, pulses etc) and not UPF fake meat, but backed up with serving quality British meat rather than UPF nuggets, burgers etc.

The problem is kids prob turn their noses up at quality food both meat & meat free plus budgets don't allow for it

Frenzi · 01/09/2025 20:08

I get the reasoning behind it and it and it wouldnt bother me in the slightest but I do also see where some parents are coming from.

Their child eats meat - why do they have to do a meat free Monday with no other option with meat in it.

If your child was vegan/vegetarian and Tuesday was meat only with no vegetarian option you wouldn't be happy.

So why is it okay to have a day where meat eaters have no choice to eat meat but its not okay for vegetarians to have a day where they have no choice to only eat meat?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 01/09/2025 20:09

The obvious reason for it is that people send their children in with packed lunches on Mondays due to not wanting/liking the food that day - they can't afford the wastage.

Snorlaxo · 01/09/2025 20:09

If there’s more food waste on a Monday then it’s not really environmentally friendly.

It’s good that they aren’t just serving processed fake meat butI assume they are serving pasta in tomato sauce with cheese rather than adding something more nutritious and interesting like mushrooms.

Lucy5678 · 01/09/2025 20:09

My children’s primary got rid of meat free Mondays, “street food Thursdays”, etc etc - it boiled down to money. The catering company want maximum lunch take up as otherwise it’s almost not viable to provide a hot lunch at all - that means the meals most kids will eat and as cheap as possible. A vegetarian option is still available each day as well - usually macaroni cheese, tomato pasta, cheese pizza or jacket potatoes with cheese and beans. All that happened on “meat free Mondays” was they did two of those options that day instead of one - and lunch take up was lowest on Mondays because of it. Significantly lower - and that’s no affordable.

As it is I wouldn’t be surprised if the menu was just sandwiches and jacket potatoes by next year.

Frenzi · 01/09/2025 20:11

Plasticwaste · 01/09/2025 19:59

Because meat is carcinogenic while plants are the building blocks of good nutrition.

Maybe but its still personal choice.

Whats the difference between having one day where all children have no choice other than something vegetarian and the following day all children only have a choice of something meat based?

JudgeJ · 01/09/2025 20:11

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 19:05

So are they making the children eat meat on Monday? No vegan/veggie option at all?

I doubt that anyone would be forced to eat meat on that day, unlike the non-vegetarians who have been forced to not eat meat o one day!

Coldnightsapproachingwhereismyduvet · 01/09/2025 20:13

Ds is vegetarian and always has been. School lunches are a pain as it is.

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 20:16

JudgeJ · 01/09/2025 20:11

I doubt that anyone would be forced to eat meat on that day, unlike the non-vegetarians who have been forced to not eat meat o one day!

Of course no one would be forced to eat meat.. its just its ridiculous the want to control others diet.

pinkbackground · 01/09/2025 20:19

Surely they should provide the choice of meat and meat free each day.

AlertEagle · 01/09/2025 20:24

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 19:07

Still a veggie option everyday but they’ve just stopped being part of meat free Monday where no one was offered meat.

Tbh thats fine as long as there is vegetarian for the vegetarians then its fine.

Vitriolinsanity · 01/09/2025 20:26

Every school in England didn’t collectively decide on Meat Free days. These directives, as well as the balance of food, is ordained by the DfE.

With a school menu, attempting to fulfil those requirements and making food children want to eat is a challenge that makes you want to lay down and weep.

Multiply that by several hundred kids, SEN kids with sensory requirements, allergies, religious preference, diabetics and coeliac children and children you know full well don’t get to eat healthily or well at home you get a better idea of that challenge.

I can tell you the crowd pleasers are Mac and Cheese, Cauliflower and Broccoli bake, Roasts, and Toad in Hole.

PamIsAVolleyballChamp · 01/09/2025 20:31

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 19:07

Still a veggie option everyday but they’ve just stopped being part of meat free Monday where no one was offered meat.

But why? If the dc want to eat meat, and there's a healthy option, why should they be prevented from this because of adults political agendas?

SpryUmberZebra · 01/09/2025 20:31

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 19:06

They’ve said it’s to do with some parents not liking it but didn’t specify why. The food choices on meat free days were not any more processed than offerings on other days ie not fake meat

I don’t get why there needs to be a meat free day, everyday there should be both meat based and non meat based options to choose from.

lizhmj · 01/09/2025 20:33

Glenkirie larder glenshee.

campaign to stop ultra processed food in schools and increase choice of fresh local produce.

SpryUmberZebra · 01/09/2025 20:34

Miriamfriend · 01/09/2025 19:07

Still a veggie option everyday but they’ve just stopped being part of meat free Monday where no one was offered meat.

And why does there need to be a non meat day? How does it impact vegetarians at the school? As long as vegetarians have their options and meat eaters have their options I can’t see why you’re upset. You seem to want ensure there’s a day where meat eaters must adhere to a vegan or vegetarian diet.

TheGreatWesternShrew · 01/09/2025 20:34

Bushmillsbabe · 01/09/2025 19:27

As others have said, this may have causes issues for children with allergies,coeliac disease etc. My daughters school has just completely changed their menu, and it has been an absolute nightmare for her as coeliac. The new provider uses extra cheap meat, with lots of fillers - gluten. So she is having to become a vegetarian at school - which isn't an issue if it was fresh food - she loves fresh veggies etc more than meat, but they often have meat replacements in them which also often contain gluten, so we are now a bit stuffed.

Why would lack of meat affect a gluten allergy?

ManyATrueWord · 01/09/2025 20:36

Meat free seems to mean "carbs and fat" here. Not healthy or filling or delicious. They have fishy Friday every week, which is meat free.

UsernameMcUsername · 01/09/2025 20:37

My guess- having seen all this from the other side- is that the school found that school meal take up was very low on meat free days, which schools can't afford, so they scrapped it. That's probably the real reason. IME vegetarian / vegan options in schools are pretty poor & take up is very low.

AnimalFarm567 · 01/09/2025 20:39

My child is allergic to dairy and eggs so meat free Mondays would be quite restrictive. Veggie options are always covered in cheese and more often than not have some egg in it.

He's not school age yet but I wouldn't be thrilled by meat free Monday. At home he eats lots of fish, but I can't imagine a school serving him sardines or roast salmon as part of veggie Monday.

lizhmj · 01/09/2025 20:40

Can you imagine if we started a meat only day.

there should be choice for all, every day.