Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Would you like to round up to £1? No I fucking wouldnt.

384 replies

DavAtTheCampaignForMoreBankHolidays · 31/08/2025 15:28

I cant be the only one who is getting increasingly pissed off at being asked to donate 20p everytine I pay for something?

The recent one in a charity shop was being asked to round up to the nearest pound AND then being asked to donate 25p. In fact, it wasnt even asked, it was "shall I round it up?" and "press green to say yes".

I always end up feeling really tight but apart from the fact that it would cost a fortune if I gave a donation every time I was asked, I really resent that businesses get tax relief for this whilst also bragging that they donated £x to charity.

OP posts:
3678194b · 31/08/2025 17:20

No, even if it's 1p I never say 'yes' at the checkout.

I do give generously and take part in activities to raise money for charities of MY choice, however.

Strider55 · 31/08/2025 17:21

I hate it as well. Why don't these companies who earn billions ever single year start rounding up to a £1 on what their customers spend and donating money to charity instead of asking their customers.

Maybe sacrifice those huge bonuses the CEOs and board of directors are getting. Oh, and pay their staff fairly and stop treating them like crap while they're at it.

Funnywonder · 31/08/2025 17:28

It irritates me. I feel as though I’m being presented with a moral dilemma every time I buy my tinned beans and teabags. On the one hand, it’s just a few pence, but on the other, I want to make clear decisions about what I do with my own money, rather than feeling pressured to do so when I’m distracted or in a hurry. It strikes me as a bit sly and underhanded. One of the guys who works in our local Superdrug just reaches over and presses ‘no’ for everyone. Clearly not a fan!

IzzyHandsIsMySpiritAnimal · 31/08/2025 17:33

TheRealMagic · 31/08/2025 16:10

I appreciate that it's more intrusive and direct, but presumably it's supposed to replace the old habit of putting your change in the collection box? Collection boxes must get very little now.

The problem with collection boxes is that people try to steal them. We've had ours ripped off the chain and taken before.

Notmyreality · 31/08/2025 17:33

I just say no and/or press the red button. But I agree it’s ridiculous it’s everywhere now.

MostArdently · 31/08/2025 17:36

The only place I do it rightly or wrongly is McDonalds because we stayed in one of the houses when my DD was little. Other than that I always say no.

AngryBookworm · 31/08/2025 17:44

I don't mind so much in charity shops (though nobody should be made to feel guilty for not doing it so I voted YANBU). I never do it in supermarkets or other shops though. It also annoys me when I'm invited to 'donate' money or points (eg cashback on my credit card) to charity. Er, no, if I want to donate to charity I'll do it myself rather than you being able to claim the credit for it.

stimpy1 · 31/08/2025 17:46

Absolutely agree, the verbal request really irritates me... Looking at you superdrug. I also round up in McDonald's as I love to support their charity but the rest I find hugely irritating in the same way I won't respond to people who accost you in the street. I will decide when and where I donate 🤬

user1471538283 · 31/08/2025 17:48

Poundland ask for 25p. It's madness considering I'm going into Poundland because the bleach is 20p cheaper. If a company wants to donate they can do so themselves.

Aussiesgettingsmashed · 31/08/2025 17:54

Never give anything to so called charity. They are businesses and in a lot of cases criminal enterprises.

OneFlewOverMy · 31/08/2025 17:57

I always say NO loudly with the biggest smile. I already do 12 charities a month on standing order !

Friendlygingercat · 31/08/2025 17:58

The one that ticks me off is companies and chuggers unwilling to take a small cash donation and wanting me to set up a direct debit by giving me their bank details. Like Im going to give away such sensitive information to some random who stops me in the street or knocks at my door. Yeah, right!

Middlemarch123 · 31/08/2025 18:00

I donate to charities of my choosing.
This grinds my gears. Holland and Barrett, Superdrug, I’m looking at you.
I don’t want to donate, I don’t want countless emails, I just want to buy my items and go,

BrightYellowDaffodil · 31/08/2025 18:01

YANBU. Superdrug are particularly bad for this.

OhNoNotSusan · 31/08/2025 18:04

at coop you have to press how your service was at the manned checkout,
i wonder what the check out operator would do if you put the angry face

RenovatingTimes · 31/08/2025 18:09

It’s even worse when they ask you at the till and you say no. I do donate to charities so I’m not donating more at the till. Still makes me feel ashamed when I say no.

dynamiccactus · 31/08/2025 18:09

I say no, I don't care what people (or a machine!) think of me. I have my selected charities that I donate to via GAYE and I am a member of a few other charities like my local wildlife trust.

I also might not like the retailer's chosen charity anyway. Not all charities are good causes for all people.

StepAwayFromGoogling · 31/08/2025 18:13

I'm not sure where anyone is getting the idea that it is any kind of tax break for the company. It isn't. I work at a retailer. We do round up at the tills from time to time. Every penny goes to the charity and they make HUGE amounts from it so I do it every single time I'm asked, because I know how much that money means to the charities it goes to. If you don't want to donate, just say (or press) no. It's not hard.

Jigglypuffff · 31/08/2025 18:14

Oh I just had this today, in Uniqlo - it popped up on the self service screen. I was particularly irritated by the choice of options increasing from I think £1 down to £5, with the ‘not now’ option tucked at the bottom of the screen just below the £5. Not only in a darker colour so hard to make out if your eyes aren’t sharp, but also placed so that those of us with fat / clumsy fingers are at risk of hitting the £5 by mistake!

ns87 · 31/08/2025 18:21

Yes, I am sick of companies doing this, especially supermarkets.

ItsNotYou852 · 31/08/2025 18:22

Strider55 · 31/08/2025 17:21

I hate it as well. Why don't these companies who earn billions ever single year start rounding up to a £1 on what their customers spend and donating money to charity instead of asking their customers.

Maybe sacrifice those huge bonuses the CEOs and board of directors are getting. Oh, and pay their staff fairly and stop treating them like crap while they're at it.

This
And I will choose my own charities to donate to thanks, not the ones where only 2p in the pound goes to the actual cause!

Sunnysideup999 · 31/08/2025 18:25

All the questions and button pressing drives me mad. I just want to buy my milk and get out.
i donate generously to charities of my choosing out of household budget not my grocery budget .

SchrodingersParrot · 31/08/2025 18:25

It's annoying constantly being asked.

Absolutely. You're made to feel mean if you say no, and I think the shops rely on that to guilt-trip you into agreeing.

If I buy something and I'm asked to round up the payment, I say "I'd rather not, because it isn't my money. I'm buying this for someone else."

FastMauveQuoter · 31/08/2025 18:28

I always decline and don't feel one iota of guilt. I give regularly to my chosen charities and won't be guilt tripped. One advantage of getting older I suppose.

immalesorry · 31/08/2025 18:37

PauliesWalnuts · 31/08/2025 15:37

I refuse. They donate and say oh, this is from “insert retailer name here” when it’s the customers doing the donating.

Perhaps I'm missing something here, but I've tended to the view that the important part of giving to charity is that a worthwhile cause is supported, not that my name gets publicity about the 20p I've donated.