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To think that if you cancel on the day with the NHS, you should be put to the bottom of the list?

507 replies

SaltAirAndTheRust · 28/08/2025 13:07

Unless you have a good reason of course!

I’ve just started and I’m in my first week, in this week we’ve had multiple cancel due to nerves or just not turning up. Seeing the amount of work that gets them to this point, it’s staggering! I just can’t get my head around it

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daleylama · 20/10/2025 20:24

JenniferBooth · 18/10/2025 22:57

Do you also include the painful hysteroscopies that are performed with no anesthetic There has been a lot of publicity and also a campaign to stop this barbaric practice. So women may well cancel due to nerves. There wouldnt have been publicity in the first place if women had not been expected to endure immense pain. Sometimes you have to own your shit

An inflammatory and incorrect post.

JenniferBooth · 20/10/2025 20:37

daleylama · 20/10/2025 20:24

An inflammatory and incorrect post.

Well we shall see

Vinvertebrate · 20/10/2025 23:15

daleylama · 20/10/2025 20:24

An inflammatory and incorrect post.

Actually @JenniferBooth has very accurately described my experience of a hysteroscopy without GA - “barbaric” and “immensely painful”. I didn’t cancel (unfortunately), but the procedure was abandoned and the appointment time wasted because I was screaming in agony. It’s definitely not an experience I am willing to repeat in any circumstances.

MyAutumnalCrow · 21/10/2025 00:39

daleylama · 20/10/2025 20:24

An inflammatory and incorrect post.

No it isn’t. You don’t know jack shit about reality.

daleylama · 21/10/2025 00:53

MyAutumnalCrow · 21/10/2025 00:39

No it isn’t. You don’t know jack shit about reality.

I've had one. It wasn't nice. It also wasn't 'barbaric'. You?

PearlClutzsche · 21/10/2025 03:12

daleylama · 20/10/2025 20:24

An inflammatory and incorrect post.

Rubbish. It is absolutely correct. From NHS website:

"Pain relief options
Having a hysteroscopy can be uncomfortable and may feel like period pain. Taking ibuprofen or paracetamol 1 hour before the procedure can help.
However, for many people a hysteroscopy can be very painful. If you're worried about pain, or have questions about pain relief, you may want to speak to staff at the hospital or clinic before the day of your hysteroscopy.
Tell them in advance if:

  • you have painful periods that make you faint
  • you've had painful vaginal examinations or cervical smears in the past
  • you've experienced sexual violence, which could make the procedure difficult for you

It may be possible to have a general anaesthetic or an injection to help you relax (intravenous sedation) during the hysteroscopy. Not all hospitals or clinics offer this, so you may need to be referred to one that does."

GA or sedation are not the norm, paracetamol is. This is utterly barbaric and sexist.
I was so freaked out by this, and seeing the diagrams of the procedure, that I had my hysteroscopy done privately.

Vinvertebrate · 21/10/2025 07:20

daleylama · 21/10/2025 00:53

I've had one. It wasn't nice. It also wasn't 'barbaric'. You?

Telling patients that most women “cope” and then performing a procedure where the patient has to be physically restrained, while screaming in pain, is pretty much the textbook definition of barbaric in my book.

I have Lynch syndrome so I have an annual hysteroscopy btw. Only the first one was done without GA. They know better than to ask if I “just want local” now.

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