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Would you allow a 6 year old to go out alone?

310 replies

tonari · 24/08/2025 19:38

Almost 7.

To walk around the block with (very) small placid dog. Takes less than 5 mins.

Small, quiet village.

OP posts:
CinnamonBuns67 · 24/08/2025 20:18

No

FlinFlonLass · 24/08/2025 20:19

No

TheCurious0range · 24/08/2025 20:20

BeltaLodaLife · 24/08/2025 20:13

6 year olds can walk home by themselves from school. I know it’s different in England, but where I am, they are only supervised leaving with a parent in primary 1 and after that, the kids are just allowed to run out the gate at hometime and head home. It’s up to the parent if you go to collecting them or they walk home alone.
My kid was 5 when he started primary 2, and turned 6 a couple weeks later. And he was allowed to walk by himself along with a load of others in his class.

English people just do things differently from a lot of other countries. And mumsnet is full of middle class English people so…

Switzerland?

Missj25 · 24/08/2025 20:20

SunshineAndFizz · 24/08/2025 20:05

Round here we have a 3 tier school system meaning they start middle school in year 5 (age 9 turning 10) and they all walk to school from middle school without parents. The last term of year 4 (last year of first school) they’re encouraged to practice walking to school with friends (with parents walking at a distance behind them watching).

Sure it makes no odds whether it’s middle school or what level school it is , the fact is they are aged 9/10 ..
Too young in my opinion to be walking to school without others .
That’s just my opinion…

InMyShowgirlEra · 24/08/2025 20:20

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/08/2025 20:16

What?
I had to walk home from Jessop primary school in Brixton when I was 6 years old, 55 years ago. It was terrifying then. I’ve no doubt whatsoever that it’s worse now.
Because you can doesn’t mean you should. No 6 year old should be left to cope with that.

You do know that London is not the whole of the UK and most of us do not live in Brixton, right? There's a substantial number of people who live in small, safe villages where the neighbours mostly know each other, the kids look out for one another (and tell on each other if they're not being safe) and they're not afraid to let their kids out.

Pigtailsandall · 24/08/2025 20:20

I wouldn't here in the UK, but i have cousins in Norway/Denmark and kids walk to school alone at 6.

OnAMissionToLoseWeight · 24/08/2025 20:21

I wouldn’t even consider it.

My first concern (of many!) is that an aggressive dog could go on the attack!

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/08/2025 20:21

Amazed at how many parents tell themselves that a 6 year old walking to/from school is perfectly safe.
Convenient?, yes, probably. Perfectly safe, probably not.

Zov · 24/08/2025 20:22

Of course I would! Ignore all the other posters.

I'm KIDDING! Of course I wouldn't let such a young child out alone to walk a dog - around the block! If 'it's only 5 minutes' it's not much of a walk for the dog is it?!

laesosalt · 24/08/2025 20:23

6 is just a baby 🥺 Nooooooo!

VIOLETPUGH · 24/08/2025 20:24

absolutely NO !

BeltaLodaLife · 24/08/2025 20:24

TheCurious0range · 24/08/2025 20:20

Switzerland?

Scotland

TeenLifeMum · 24/08/2025 20:25

No, not a chance.

Zanatdy · 24/08/2025 20:25

Absolutely not.

Momstermash94 · 24/08/2025 20:25

A little boy drowned in a canal where I used to live in a quiet rural village because he was out with just his dog and a friend and the dog went into the canal swimming, the boy thought the dog was in danger and went in after him. He shouldn't have been anywhere near there but sadly he was and lost his life. Even if you have no water near you the point is that children can get into danger so easily and even if you tell them they aren't allowed in a certain area or passed a certain point once they are out of sight how do you stop it happening. At that age I definitely wouldn't. I'd give it a couple more years at least

Zezet · 24/08/2025 20:25

My six years old comes and goes in our own street to and fro friends unsupervised.

I wouldn't leave her in charge of a small dog in the street. The risk of a bad interaction with another (big) dog are too big IMO.

Sheldonsheher · 24/08/2025 20:25

People
do where I am. Well I don’t have a dog but I let my seven year old out round my estate. People walk home from 7 and 8 here Scotland , so I think it depends what you mean by round the block. Also depends maybe a dog would be too much of a hazard.

Laura95167 · 24/08/2025 20:25

Not with the dog. I wouldnt risk them encountering another dog.

If they want to take the dog id go with them

BeltaLodaLife · 24/08/2025 20:25

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/08/2025 20:16

What?
I had to walk home from Jessop primary school in Brixton when I was 6 years old, 55 years ago. It was terrifying then. I’ve no doubt whatsoever that it’s worse now.
Because you can doesn’t mean you should. No 6 year old should be left to cope with that.

I assure you my children were not terrified. They are now very secure, independent and street savvy tweens. It’s all fine, don’t you worry.

Pppppplease · 24/08/2025 20:25

Not a chance, i have a 6 year old and I've seen a child from his class riding their bike around our estate on his own and its awful parenting if I'm totally honest. Anything could happen.

chunkybear · 24/08/2025 20:25

Is this a joke?! A 6 year old is too young to be out alone with no adult to care.
a dog may be fine, but if another dog comes or if someone wants to steal your dog your child is going to be traumatised forever
if someone wants to take your 6 year old they can pretty much say or do anything and he’ll obey
FFS parent your child and care for your dog … whether it’s you or a person you’re asking advice for - insane idea

ForgottenPasswordNewAccount · 24/08/2025 20:26

Absolutely yes

I am shocked at how little independence people give to children

No wonder we have a generation of young adults with feck all coping skills

Zezet · 24/08/2025 20:26

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/08/2025 20:21

Amazed at how many parents tell themselves that a 6 year old walking to/from school is perfectly safe.
Convenient?, yes, probably. Perfectly safe, probably not.

Cultural habit partly I think. Germany has large parts where it's firmly ingrained that the kids walk alone at that age.

GroovyChick87 · 24/08/2025 20:28

No chance. It's not only that I don't think it's safe for the 6 year old, but what if the dog runs off or the child doesn't want to pick up the poo? Too many things to go wrong.

TheGreatWesternShrew · 24/08/2025 20:29

No. It’s not just about them being abducted - which could happen - what if an aggressive dog attacks them or the dog? The child couldn’t handle that. What if they’re hit by a bike or car?