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AIBU to keep my son off school tomorrow?

60 replies

BigCheese24 · 24/08/2025 18:53

Tomorrow is an English bank holiday. We live in Scotland. My DH and myself both work for an English bank so we’ve got the day off tomorrow. Because it’s not a Scottish bank holiday, school is on.

Weather looks to be fantastic tomorrow - should I give my son a cheeky day off & we go out and have some fun?

YABU - It’s a school day, send him to school.

YANBU - it’s a one off, have a family day out!

P.s. we don’t get fined in Scotland like they do in England (if that makes a difference? As I wouldn’t lie to the school I would tell the truth about why I was keeping him off.)

OP posts:
Dryshampoofordays · 24/08/2025 22:09

AintNoPunshineWhenShesGone · 24/08/2025 20:08

Yes, pissing about with family instead of going to school just because the weather's nice, is definitely most important of all.

He'll be able to tell them that down the benefits office when he's an adult 👍

Dear lord they want a family day in the sun on August bank holiday, not sack off all their kid’s GCSEs or stop him learning how to read and write 😂

TheShed7 · 24/08/2025 22:15

July is the warmest month in England and Scotland.

Also I love getting July off up here, with the sun not setting till about 11pm at times, it's wonderful for the kids to be off.

mondaytosunday · 24/08/2025 22:27

You just had the weekend to enjoy as a family. I’d enjoy some adult only time!

tinyspiny · 24/08/2025 22:31

BigCheese24 · 24/08/2025 20:04

I think the message would be that family is most important of all?

If family was most important then you’d have spent the weekend with him , ridiculous . Scotland have the right idea for the timing of the holidays , August is invariably the worst of the summer months .

Cynic17 · 24/08/2025 22:34

If school is open, then that is 100% where your child should be. Do you not value education, OP?

HardworkSendHelp · 24/08/2025 22:34

Have the cheeky day off. He is in P4🤣
My daughter had many a cheeky day off from school. I was always very honest with primary school, they actually asked me not be honest and told me to say she was sick in the notes. She never misses work at her part time job and got three A’s in her A levels. The cheeky days off never hurt her.

Step5678 · 24/08/2025 22:36

BigCheese24 · 24/08/2025 20:04

I think the message would be that family is most important of all?

This. Have a quality family day OP and enjoy it. Some of these posters need to lighten up!

I have very little memory of my mum as she died when I was young, but everything I do remember is based on a holiday or other special occasion, so I always make sure to prioritise family time. Those memories are precious

KilkennyCats · 24/08/2025 22:39

Step5678 · 24/08/2025 22:36

This. Have a quality family day OP and enjoy it. Some of these posters need to lighten up!

I have very little memory of my mum as she died when I was young, but everything I do remember is based on a holiday or other special occasion, so I always make sure to prioritise family time. Those memories are precious

The summer holidays are literally just over and op has just returned from a three day weekend without the child.
Now she wants to prioritise family time on a school day.

SummerFrog25 · 24/08/2025 23:11

Newrumpus · 24/08/2025 20:25

But if it is a state school, this is wasting public resources.

Say what??

littleorangefox · 24/08/2025 23:54

AtomHeartMotherOfGod · 24/08/2025 20:58

Meh. I know it's just one day but these things add up, I guess. One day out of a step by step maths curriculum - might be OK if he's a whizz, or it might be the difference between him staying afloat for the rest of the module.

One day out of an English planning cycle... I reckon it could be nearing the day they plan their own piece of writing based on the book; so he'll be doing that when the others are starting to write their work and he'll probably lose the publishing day, so missing the chance to hone his handwriting, missing that pride in his work.

Plus the message it sends to an impressionable mind - school doesn't really matter.

Edited

The Scottish curriculum/lesson planning is very different from the English one. There isn't a set plan for what happens at the exact same point every year. And missing one day wouldn't have such a dramatic impact.

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