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To go on a long cruise instead of renting?

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needanewstart2026 · 24/08/2025 17:51

I'm in my 60s and retired and my family home is being sold due to DH divorcing me as he has met someone else. I'm devastated and told a friend I was going to rent for a few months before buying while I get my head together. She said I should go on a 6 month cruise rather than renting as wouldn't cost much more and I'd get to see the world. I laughed but I'm seriously thinking about whether it is feasible. Anyone else done this?

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WorriedRelative · 24/08/2025 21:28

Your friend is a genius

Look at the ones that are cheaper because they are relocating the ship at season change. Maybe add in a hotel stay or a few to see you through

Zodiacrobat · 24/08/2025 21:32

CountryQueen · 24/08/2025 19:14

https://www.pocruises.com/find-a-cruise/R701/R701?categoryCode=I_I&cruiseCode=R701&rateCode=KU2&typeCode=I

75 nights Caribbean and Americas.

Can you imagine his face when he asks for your forwarding address.

Fuck off Dave, I’m off to the Bahamas

Haha yes fuck off Dave from all of us!!

Id love to follow your adventures if you do decide to go OP. It could be a brilliant change of scene for you.

IhadaStripeyDeckchair · 24/08/2025 21:32

Personally a cruise is my idea of a nightmare however I would look into a series of 4-6 week rentals or house sitting in places that i would like to visit.

itsachickeninnit · 24/08/2025 21:35

I’d do it! Love a cruise. Might also be worth joining trusted housesitters if you like animals, once you get going and get a couple of reviews you could get one sit after another.

AllyDally · 24/08/2025 21:40

needanewstart2026 · 24/08/2025 18:46

Love to know where you saw that. I don't really drink, odd glass of wine so any inclusive alcohol would be wasted on me.

Its P&O, on the Arcadia. I saw it on a Hays page. The prices dont vary massively from P&O to any other agent selling them but now and then there are good deals. The long cruises tend to be pretty good value.

To go on a long cruise instead of renting?
To go on a long cruise instead of renting?
AllyDally · 24/08/2025 21:41

AllyDally · 24/08/2025 21:40

Its P&O, on the Arcadia. I saw it on a Hays page. The prices dont vary massively from P&O to any other agent selling them but now and then there are good deals. The long cruises tend to be pretty good value.

The images are under review but they are screenshots of it, i was going to send it to my husband haha! We both work so cant but we can dream!

RedRock41 · 24/08/2025 21:41

💯 go for it. Nothing beats the freedom at sea and you’ll see so many places, meet new people (they have events for singles)… couldn’t think of a better way to reset, take stock and decide what you want for the rest of your life. The world cruises for likes of Cunard and P&O usually leave January from UK so you’ll have choice (would recommend) to do full one or can pick a leg.

AllyDally · 24/08/2025 21:43

needanewstart2026 · 24/08/2025 18:50

That's a good thing to research about a cruise. I like the idea of a laundry room I could use. I don't need anything posh

P&O have laundry rooms, I went on Anthem of the Seas (RCI) and that was only paid for laundry which is really expensive. P&O is normal pub prices for drinks, RCI is a lot more expensive overall.

TrickyD · 24/08/2025 21:43

Try a short cruise first. Have a look at Fred. Olsen and Saga. Saga will send a taxi to pick you up from and return you to home. Their crew are mainly from the Philippines and it is hard to describe how caring they are to older passengers. They always explain that this is part of their culture.
Saga is truly all inclusive
’Which?’ Recently did a survey of cruise companies, Saga came out top.
P&O is cheap but very ‘bargain basement’ and will ‘nickel and dime’ you for everything, drinks, water to take ashore and extortionate WIFI.

WorriedRelative · 24/08/2025 21:44

Zodiacrobat · 24/08/2025 21:32

Haha yes fuck off Dave from all of us!!

Id love to follow your adventures if you do decide to go OP. It could be a brilliant change of scene for you.

God yes, start an Instagram of your experience as a newly separated woman going on an adventure, we would love to follow you

LibertyKnickers · 24/08/2025 21:48

Cunard do a fantastic round-the-world cruise. I've crossed the Atlantic multiple times on the QM2 and they are really great—amenities, service, food, activities, shore excursions, everything. We are thinking of taking such a cruise with them when DH retires.

PS You'll be about 10 kilos heavier at the end if you're not careful. Make sure you get your daily exercise in!
PPS Can I come too please?

AllyDally · 24/08/2025 21:49

myplace · 24/08/2025 19:33

@needanewstart2026 Arcadia, planet cruise. 6th Jan 2027. It’s £11,383pp but that’s sharing. Not sure about solo.

Of course, I completely missed that and posted from the Hays page, its often nearly double unfortunately, I didnt actually think of that!

AllyDally · 24/08/2025 21:51

TrickyD · 24/08/2025 21:43

Try a short cruise first. Have a look at Fred. Olsen and Saga. Saga will send a taxi to pick you up from and return you to home. Their crew are mainly from the Philippines and it is hard to describe how caring they are to older passengers. They always explain that this is part of their culture.
Saga is truly all inclusive
’Which?’ Recently did a survey of cruise companies, Saga came out top.
P&O is cheap but very ‘bargain basement’ and will ‘nickel and dime’ you for everything, drinks, water to take ashore and extortionate WIFI.

I disagree re P&O, you can spend very little extra on there, they have water stations so you just refil your own bottle so thats kind of irrelevant. I know its not the poshest liner but I totally disagree its bargain basement.

IwanttotakeyoutoaNailaBar · 24/08/2025 21:56

fruitfly3 · 24/08/2025 21:26

This sounds like such a good options - from most standpoints, without breaking the bank. It looks like a cruising for six months would cost around £18-20k. If rent is £1500, so £2k with bills - renting would cost you £12k if that time. There is a bit of a gap but I wouldn’t let it put you off for a second. Go for it and have the time of your life.

I’m on my own in a new build 2 bed terrace Gas/electric, water, council tax, broadband and car insurance come to £500. Then theres food and petrol. Then socialising etc.

I love the idea of not having to think about food or cleaning products for 6 months!
The gyms on board are free. There’s always a running track and pools.
You could use the six months to get really fit and healthy ( if you aren’t already!).
Well travelled and the best version of you!

Seacatt · 24/08/2025 22:17

This is another helpful website, the community pages are informative too.

https://www.cruisecritic.com/cruiseto

MrsSuckling · 24/08/2025 22:44

I love cruising, so I would say do it. You'll see so much, meet lovely people and learn lots. It's a very comfortable way to travel.

They have excellent medical facilities, although they are expensive, so you need good insurance. I've even experienced requests for blood donors far from land, so they do their best for the severest problems.

The longest I have done is 11 weeks around South America, including up the Amazon. I didn't want to get off.

As PP say, you need to do your research and a week or two cruise would be good to make sure you don't hate it. A long trip has a very different feel to a holiday, however. It attracts people who are really interested in the travelling, rather than a break and of course people who can take the time off, so tend to be older. But as PP say, insurance can be an issue so it's mostly young older people who can afford that and feel up to travelling for a long time. There are plenty of companies offering cover for long cruises and many include pre-existing conditions.

It would be easiest to go from Southampton so you can take as much luggage as you like. P&O and Cunard run World Cruises of around 100 nights, usually leaving early January. P&O would be cheaper, their drinks are city pub prices, gratuities are included and their tours tend to be cheaper, but Cunard don't usually charge daily gratuities on World cruises. With both you can take a little wine and any soft drinks you want on board to drink in your cabin. You can also buy soft drinks ashore as you go, but water, tea and coffee are included and there is a kettle and cups etc in your cabin, so you could take hot chocolate. The launderettes are free, Cunard provide washing sheets, P&O don't. Neither of these lines 'nickel and dime' you, you can spend 100 days on board and quite easily buy nothing extra. There are things like extra restaurants or drinks on offer, but no pressure. They also offer excellent free talks on board, specially during the longer cruises and all sorts of free classes. P&O tend to only use their two adult only, smaller ships, Aurora and Arcadia for World cruises. Cunard encourages dressing up about twice a week, but a couple of posh frocks or similar should do and it is quite fun to get involved.

There are lots of other cruise lines, but watch for things like gratuities, no kettle (do you mind running through the ship for an early-morning or late-night cuppa?), laundry service only, etc. A proper walk-around deck fairly low down is a real asset on a long cruise, for exercise, social life and the joy of walking about and gazing out to sea. Also experiencing some interesting weather!

We only use cruise excursions in exceptional circumstances. We either explore on foot or using public transport, pick up a tour at the port gate (join some other people and haggle for price), or use a company like Viator or Get Your Guide, depending on the port. Often you can team up with people you meet on board and book a trip together. Every operator I've used is extremely keen to make sure you get back on board in time, so I wouldn't pay for ship's tours just to be sure of getting back. The people who get left behind are the ones who go off on their own and forget the time, or get very drunk.

I find the Iglu cruises website is very user-friendly to see what's available, although I wouldn't necessarily book through them, I prefer to book direct. Websites like Cruise Critic, Cruise Mummy, Facebook and You tube carry loads and loads (too much) information and opinions.

Hoardasauruskaren · 24/08/2025 22:49

Nothungrycat · 24/08/2025 19:40

I'd also look at joining Trusted Housesitters as a sitter - you could go practically anywhere in the world to look after people's houses and pets...It seems ideal for people with minimal commitments who want to travel.

I worked with a woman from NZ who did this! She travelled all over Europe housesitting.

Pinkfreedom · 25/08/2025 12:59

My aunt cruises a lot (P&O), her tip is to always have a night at hotel in/near departure port. Be that Southampton or abroad. Aunt claims it cuts out the stress of potential traffic jams or flight delays.

There are usually meet ups on board for solo travellers and couples often "adopt" a solo traveller egone of the couple wants to watch a sporting event the other wants to shopping sightseeing so the sightseer joins up with solo on a trip.

This is such a thrilling topic. I'm sorry that your marriage has ended but love that you are trying new things.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 25/08/2025 13:02

Pinkfreedom · 25/08/2025 12:59

My aunt cruises a lot (P&O), her tip is to always have a night at hotel in/near departure port. Be that Southampton or abroad. Aunt claims it cuts out the stress of potential traffic jams or flight delays.

There are usually meet ups on board for solo travellers and couples often "adopt" a solo traveller egone of the couple wants to watch a sporting event the other wants to shopping sightseeing so the sightseer joins up with solo on a trip.

This is such a thrilling topic. I'm sorry that your marriage has ended but love that you are trying new things.

All my friends who cruise so the same do the same reason!

Zanatdy · 25/08/2025 13:09

needanewstart2026 · 24/08/2025 20:45

Thank you to everyone who has posted. Too many to reply to but I have read every one of them and taking the comments on board. I have no commitments, no pets, not much to store. Rental is very expensive round here, about £1500 minimum for a one bed flat plus bills, food, socialising so yes a cruise costs more but if I don’t have living expenses it makes a difference and will earn interest on the capital I get from the house sale . I have adult dc who I would miss but they are well travelled themselves and I think would encourage me. My problem will be I can’t book until exchange of contract on the house just in case it all falls through so may have to stay somewhere before I travel but do have family and friends go can give me a bed 😀. I’m not confident enough to go solo travelling at my age but thought a cruise with organised tours may be doable. Thanks again and do keep the suggestions coming

Lots of people do solo and the cruise I went on had a solo meet up on night 1. There will be plenty of others travelling alone so sure you’ll meet someone. Go for it!

GiveDogBone · 25/08/2025 17:52

I suspect it would be a pretty basic cruise for it to actually be cheaper, particularly when you include costs for storing furniture. But if that doesn’t matter, go for it.

Obviously, not something to do if you get seasick.

IwanttotakeyoutoaNailaBar · 25/08/2025 18:02

GiveDogBone · 25/08/2025 17:52

I suspect it would be a pretty basic cruise for it to actually be cheaper, particularly when you include costs for storing furniture. But if that doesn’t matter, go for it.

Obviously, not something to do if you get seasick.

Even “basic” cruises include all your food from the buffet and a main dining room and snack bars . Your sheets and towels are laundered , your room cleaned daily. There’s multiple staff, free events and entertainment, films, gym, open air jacuzzis, pools.
I mean you would have to wash your clothes from time to time and without paying extra you wouldn’t have Wi-Fi until in port but that’s about it

DelilahMy · 25/08/2025 18:03

Wow, what a brilliant idea!

TheLudditesWereRight · 25/08/2025 18:07

Do it. what a great fuck you to your arsewipe husband.