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Why are ‘Hobbies’ so top secret on Mn?

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Alltheplantsarejustdying · 17/08/2025 17:19

😂Always when someone talks about a hobby on here, it’s never said what the hobby is and a reason for this is often that it’s ‘Outing’
I honestly can’t think of that many hobbies and especially ones that should be kept secret or are especially outing, it’s such a mystery!

Is it just me 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Encrochat · 18/08/2025 07:31

Oh, it's so fucking annoying

BreadstickBurglar · 18/08/2025 07:32

C95 · 17/08/2025 23:11

There was a great thread a few months, years or decades ago where a poster was complaining about a man who was rubbish at the "hobby" and was trying to take over.

Loads and loads of posters were asking for the hobby as it couldn't be that unique.

In exasperation she said what it was ... and it was unique!! It was something like a 17th century string instruments band.

I mean they played 17th century music not they from the 17th century! Because that would definitely be unique.

The guy was absolutely terrible at playing and spoiled the whole group.

Anyway every time I read "outing hobby" I think of that thread!!

I remember that, he was absolutely rubbish and kept telling the others they were doing it wrong?

jaundicedoutlook · 18/08/2025 07:37

Because it is Vicar’s Arse Rubbing, or Old Man Collecting.

You may drink your weak lemon drink now…

C95 · 18/08/2025 09:50

@BreadstickBurglar yeah that's the one!!

Ended up being an interesting thread about her hobby. Can't remember what they did with man. They wanted to do paid gigs but he was so awful they couldn't.

SweetPenelope · 18/08/2025 10:01

Does anyone remember a man complaining on MN about his girlfriend's hobby taking up too much time? It turned out to be sailing solo across the Atlantic in a particular race. That really was outing!

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