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Loss of 30 free hours will cost me £37,000 of pre-tax income

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ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 09:59

9 month olds are eligible for 30 free hours from September. If you earn over the threshold, you do not get this 30 free hours plus the £2,000 of tax-free childcare.

My nursery typically charges £2,150 a month for an under-3. This works out at c. £10 an hour assuming a 50 hour week (open 8-6).

They have circulated the free hours schedule this week, and the monthly cost with 30 free hours is £1,100 hours for an under-3 (noting funded hours only cover 38 weeks).

This means the loss of the 30 free hours will cost me £12,600 a year. Plus of course the loss of tax-free childcare at £2,000.

So, I need to earn an extra £14,600 net just to cover the cost of not being eligible for this scheme.

To earn that £14,600 over £100,000 – I need to earn a gross figure of £137,000.

Surely this is not fair on the parents excluded from the scheme? It doesn't seem proportional that I need to earn an extra £37,000 just to recoup the loss as a result of not being eligible!

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Addictedtohotbaths · 15/08/2025 14:37

I never qualified for child benefit or 30hrs childcare. I accepted that I could afford to pay for it myself so it was fair.

SnackAckerTack · 15/08/2025 14:37

KarmaKameelion · 15/08/2025 14:01

this is obviously tongue and cheek. I used to earn a 6 figure salary until childcare costs fucked my career and now I earn min wage. I know hard work doesn’t equate to salary but I would never begrudge anyone their success.

How did "childcare costs fuck your career"?

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 14:37

DarkForces · 15/08/2025 14:36

At £160k op is well past the cliff edge. They're behind the safety fence and down the road.

Well no, because it means on that £60k over £100k you have an 82% effective tax rate.

Which is still well into ‘how can I optimise this to my benefit’ territory.

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DarkForces · 15/08/2025 14:37

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 14:35

People seem to really struggle to understand that the loss is so significant it creates incentives to eg work less like you are suggesting.

People won’t work for free.

Earning an extra £37,000 and having nothing to show for it because of the personal allowance removal + 39 free hours seems quite clearly insane to me.

Then go part time, get a less well paid job and take the hit that way.

Squirrel1818 · 15/08/2025 14:38

DrCoconut · 15/08/2025 14:28

Threads on this topic always contain advice on how very well off people could reduce their on paper income to qualify for state help (known as benefits for poor people and allowances or other euphemisms for the better off), but heaven help someone on universal credit if they dare earn a tenner in cash handing out leaflets for their local takeaway. That's fraud and ripping off the taxpayer.

Tax avoidance and tax evasion are very different activities.

People who refuse to work more than 16 hours or are reducing hours to qualify for funded childcare are doing so for tax avoidance reasons. People who get paid for undeclared work are committing tax evasion. That’s a criminal activity. Equating them as being the same is ridiculous.

Biskieboo · 15/08/2025 14:38

JLou08 · 15/08/2025 14:27

There needs to be a cut off somewhere. My older DC were in nursery before 30 hours funding and tax free childcare was a thing and I had to pay full cost. My youngest was in nursery between 1 and 3.5 before funding expanded to include children from 9 months. I had much less than £100,000 to so I don't have much sympathy for you.

But why does there need to be a cut off? You can't have it both ways, saying that the OP is in the top 1% of earners (probably the top 0.5% of earners with young kids), but also that it would cost loads to provide people like the OP with the same benefits as those under £100k are getting. The £100k cliff edge doesn't save much money anyway as there just aren't all that many people with young kids earning that much, but given it also provides an incentive for those on £100-200k to actually reduce their income (and tax paid), it's even less revenue generative. It's an almost entirely pointless, fundamentally unfair, needless complication in an already too complicated tax system.

AnnaBalfour · 15/08/2025 14:39

The help is for people that truly need if. You do not.

If you begrudge childcare costs, even being fully able to afford it while setting yourself up well in your industry while they’re little, don’t have children.

SamphiretheTervosaur · 15/08/2025 14:39

You aren't being excluded

You dont qualify

Its that simple

RealOliveTraybake · 15/08/2025 14:40

Not unreasonable at all. The £100k cliff edge is absolutely bonkers and anyone who thinks it makes sense needs their head checked.

SnackAckerTack · 15/08/2025 14:40

Biskieboo · 15/08/2025 14:08

Gaaah! Look, imagine the OP and 9 other MNers are on a night out. They pay into a kitty for drinks according to their means. Because the OP earns a lot they put in £110, because the other 9 earn average wage they put in £10 each. Then when they get to the first bar the other 9 say 'actually OP, because you're earning a lot you can't use the kitty and will have to pay for your drinks on top'. I think most people would see that as clearly unfair. The point is - and it's a very simple one but one that many on here are nevertheless bending over backwards to ignore - THE OP IS 'THE TAXPAYER' - far more so than the vast majority of people having a go at her.

But with this example, why can't the OP claim UC?

JLou08 · 15/08/2025 14:40

8misskitty8 · 15/08/2025 14:36

You earn £160,000 a year. Far more than a lot of people including those caring for your child up to the 50 hours a week the private nursery is open do. And you are moaning about earning too much to get free childcare ?
YABU

Over £160,000, and we're supposed to feel for this poor disadvantaged woman but look down on people on minimum wage who need a UC top up to be able to feed their family.

MindfulSis · 15/08/2025 14:41

Soggyspaniel · 15/08/2025 14:33

Putting your child into childcare for 50 hours a week is a lot, OP. Did I read it right, they’re at nursery 10 hours a day 5 days a week?

Surely between you and your partner you can reduce this a bit, just for a couple of years whilst they’re little.

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Nursery charge you a full day, OP mentioned earlier she isn't planning on using the full hours but as a business the nursery will charge you the full amount of hours they are open for. We are charged for 10 hours a day but reality is our little one is only there approx 7.5 hours every day.

Nottodaythankyou123 · 15/08/2025 14:41

AluckyEllie · 15/08/2025 11:11

You will get flamed but yup it’s shit. My husband earns over the threshold. I earn massively under (ICU nurse.) We can’t afford for him to overpay into pension as we need money now (2 kids under 5) and so he haemorrhages money to the taxman. We live in an expensive area and yes we are homeowners, albeit with a mortgage. But we aren’t rich. We would be better off having the same household income split equally between us and then we’d get the free hours. But unless the government decides to double my salary it won’t happen!

I think the OP is being somewhat unreasonable, given how high her salary is. That said, I was thinking this morning about how unfair it is that 2 income household on £198k is eligible for the childcare but a 1 income household (or 1 high and 1 normal income household) on £100k is not. It should absolutely be done per household, not per individual.

KarmaKameelion · 15/08/2025 14:42

SnackAckerTack · 15/08/2025 14:37

How did "childcare costs fuck your career"?

My husband earnt over the he threshold. He works long hours and travels for work. Before I had dc I earnt 98k a year before bonus but was made redundant on mat leave.

I got a ‘part time’ job once my dc was one but quickly realised it was part time pay but full time hours and I was working myself to the bone and realised i was working to pay for dcs nursery fees so quit. Anyone will tell you that for a woman working in technology 4 years out of the game is career suicide. So I basically committed career suicide. I work part time in a school bow earning just about min wage.

Squirrel1818 · 15/08/2025 14:43

BluntPlumHam · 15/08/2025 14:29

Given that she pays 7 times more tax as you say she should be just as much entitled to the benefits for childcare available. If people like OP up and leave which is happening then there won’t be her tax contributions available to subsidise whatever benefits you may be claiming.

I think a lot of the ire comes from OP's salary however not a lot of consideration is being given to how much her take home pay is after tax and contributions. OP isn’t the millionaire/billionaire that don’t pay their fair share.

It’s not 7x more tax for 7x more income.

Ignoring pensions, if the OP earns 160k they pay 28 times more income tax than someone on 1/7th of that salary.

Soggyspaniel · 15/08/2025 14:43

MindfulSis · 15/08/2025 14:41

Nursery charge you a full day, OP mentioned earlier she isn't planning on using the full hours but as a business the nursery will charge you the full amount of hours they are open for. We are charged for 10 hours a day but reality is our little one is only there approx 7.5 hours every day.

Ah I see, thanks I missed that bit. We pay hourly so I didn’t realise this was a thing.

Kitte321 · 15/08/2025 14:43

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 14:12

But you ate again, missing the point.

With no childcare provision for anyone… the incentives are different.

By providing generous childcare subsidies that are removed at a cliff edge, the government has created very significant incentives for higher earners to work less, pay less tax etc. - as they may still end up better off overall.

That is irrational of the tax system.

Honestly. Talk about missing their point spectacularly?!
This thread is wild. Almost everyone saying “get a minimum wage job if you don’t like it” or “why should someone earning £160k have childcare subsidies”. To the delightful “greedy” comments and accusing high earners salary sacrificing to avoid the cliff edge being responsible for the issues in the childcare system. Utterly offensive and untrue. We are talking about someone who contributes vast amounts of tax.
Are people so financially illiterate that they cannot see if you remove the incentive to earn more, you lose tax revenue. Because why should anyone earn more but take home less? Who does that?
That if you engineer a system that keeps working parents in work - you increase tax revenue - for the long term. You also keep mothers in the work place and lower inequality.
That an equitable system allows net contributors to take out some of what THEY have contributed, otherwise they look at ways to reduce their tax burden.

The childcare sector is on its knees because it isn’t be funded properly by the government. The universal 15 hours has wreaked havoc. Maybe if we kept a minimum hours worked requirement that would be more sensible?

PrittStickMan · 15/08/2025 14:44

PersephoneSmith · 15/08/2025 10:54

You earn over £160k you pay for your own child care.
cheeky fucker

Nice. Swings and roundabouts, we benefit from higher taxpayers. Does that make us cheeky fuckers?

MikeRafone · 15/08/2025 14:44

Why do you want benefits for all and a socialised system?

Do you want to claim Universal credit as well and talk about the money you have lost due to your income being over £40k and having a spouse possibly?

If you want to have a socialised system for all then you're going to have to pay more tax, then you can claim winter fuel allowance, nursery fees for 30 hours, universal credit for everyone as a basic wage - but your wages will decrease dramatically if youre then paying a top tier of 50% tax

Dorisbonson · 15/08/2025 14:45

PersephoneSmith · 15/08/2025 14:15

Here’s a similar argument OP.

I earn minimum wage - £12 something an hour. I went to the supermarket to buy some groceries and it cost me £25. It’s unfair that I have to work for 2 hours to afford to buy those groceries. It’s not fair that someone who earns £160k a year would only have to work for 20 minutes to earn enough to buy the groceries.

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Absolutely clueless comment. You make assumptions about short hours, pay no attention to training, stress, sacrifice or any other factors that go into earning higher salaries.

OneCoralCat · 15/08/2025 14:46

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 14:33

Well - say I earn £160k, it creates a 82% tax rate on any income over £100k, which is quite a significant disincentive in itself.

So it is still an issue - I’m not worse off that if I earned £99k, but the net benefit is quite small compared to the sum needed to earn it.

So go work in Tesco and get free childcare and UC top up then? Would you be happier relying on state handouts?

Dreamondreaminon · 15/08/2025 14:47

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 10:54

There is a cost to me of not being eligible to the scheme - and that is £37,000 pre-tax.

Given people seem to be doing lots of tax and pension planning to be able to claim these, it is not so simple as ‘oh well you aren’t eligible so there’s no issue’.

There’s a point where working less may make more sense financially.

Me me me me me 🙄

You do know that before 2024-2025 the 30h were only for 3+ yo, so before that, most ppl had to pay full price too. You earn £160k, get a grip!

Inyournewdress · 15/08/2025 14:47

I appreciate your point about the irrationality of it on paper OP, but I do think the reality of wealth distribution is more nuanced. If I were you I would write a letter to your MP, and then focus on spending more time with your baby while you can rather than posting about financial policy.

In case you’re ever wondering who, aside from child development specialists, is telling me most repeatedly and firmly that a nine month old shouldn’t be in the nursery you resent paying for, it’s multiple friends of mine who work in nurseries.
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Squirrel1818 · 15/08/2025 14:49

MikeRafone · 15/08/2025 14:44

Why do you want benefits for all and a socialised system?

Do you want to claim Universal credit as well and talk about the money you have lost due to your income being over £40k and having a spouse possibly?

If you want to have a socialised system for all then you're going to have to pay more tax, then you can claim winter fuel allowance, nursery fees for 30 hours, universal credit for everyone as a basic wage - but your wages will decrease dramatically if youre then paying a top tier of 50% tax

That’s a ridiculous comment and one that is conflating a number of irrelevant comparisons.

The point being made is the current system of tax free personal allowance removal and removal of funded childcare hours both kick in at the same time and can create a marginal tax rate that can be over 100%. That is a disaster for parents and the economy. Literally nobody wins.

NewsdeskJC · 15/08/2025 14:49

I must admit I tapped out at more than £160000 salary.

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