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Loss of 30 free hours will cost me £37,000 of pre-tax income

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ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 09:59

9 month olds are eligible for 30 free hours from September. If you earn over the threshold, you do not get this 30 free hours plus the £2,000 of tax-free childcare.

My nursery typically charges £2,150 a month for an under-3. This works out at c. £10 an hour assuming a 50 hour week (open 8-6).

They have circulated the free hours schedule this week, and the monthly cost with 30 free hours is £1,100 hours for an under-3 (noting funded hours only cover 38 weeks).

This means the loss of the 30 free hours will cost me £12,600 a year. Plus of course the loss of tax-free childcare at £2,000.

So, I need to earn an extra £14,600 net just to cover the cost of not being eligible for this scheme.

To earn that £14,600 over £100,000 – I need to earn a gross figure of £137,000.

Surely this is not fair on the parents excluded from the scheme? It doesn't seem proportional that I need to earn an extra £37,000 just to recoup the loss as a result of not being eligible!

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Bunnycat101 · 15/08/2025 12:37

We earnt too much for the 30 hours. You do just have to suck it up. It is for a short time period and you’ll get the 15 hours after 3. You will then be in a great position when your child is primary age unless you go private. You have to see it that you have great earning potential which comes with high costs in the early years but will reap benefits later on. You’ll be putting a good chunk into pension as well which buys you choices.

Now do I think some of the tax thresholds are stupid- yes absolutely. However, I think you’re also making too big a deal over the childcare hours and need to get a bit of perspective. There should be a cut-off somewhere and you’re well over it.

StatisticallyChallenged · 15/08/2025 12:37

Mustbethat · 15/08/2025 12:34

That’s a point, aren’t childcare vouchers a thing any more?

we used to be able to salary sacrifice, which reduced your salary to salary-childcare and saved a shit ton of tax, especially for higher rate payers…

so back of the envelope, if nursery costs 30k a year, you earn 160k. Salary sacrifice brings your taxable income down to 130k. 5k into pensions and you’re down a tax bracket and saving all that tax on everything over 125k- which will be over 15k saved in tax?

so in reality you could get a big chunk of that 37k back through such a scheme as a higher earner. A lower bracket tax payer would still be paying the childcare and wouldn’t benefit from the salary sacrifice to such an extent.

but that doesn’t give you so much to whinge about.

Childcare vouchers are closed to new entrants, and were capped at a pretty low amount.

Sarah2891 · 15/08/2025 12:37

I'd be so embarrassed to be complaining about this if I was on 160k a year.

WhereIsMyJumper · 15/08/2025 12:38

20thcenturygirlwithherhandsonthewheel · 15/08/2025 11:05

Seriously, £100k is not megabucks, particularly if the parent is a single parent, pays a lot in childcare or lives in London /
other expensive area.

why should she pay a shit load in tax to allow others to get free childcare, but not be entitled to it herself

lol - I’m a single parent on £80k and feel like I am loaded tbh

cattykinns · 15/08/2025 12:38

DodoTired · 15/08/2025 12:35

Well you were patronising towards the OP no?

Public services like NHS are only possible because people outside public services pay their taxes.
period
Strange to be so hateful towards people who pay taxes

😴😴😴

Emmaheather · 15/08/2025 12:39

YourSnugGreyPanda · 15/08/2025 10:47

YABVU. If you earn over £100000 you do not require the tax payers’ support for childcare. To suggest so shows you are out of touch with the average working person and extremely greedy. The funded childcare hours are there to support those who couldn’t afford to work otherwise.

Exactly

LivingDeadGirlUK · 15/08/2025 12:39

I can't imagine earning the amount you do OP and even giving my childcare costs a second thought. What a self centred post.

Fedupmumofadultsons · 15/08/2025 12:39

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 12:34

It’s not designed for the lowest paid in society, individuals earning up to £100k can claim it, so households might earn up to £198k and still be eligible.

I don’t think it’s ‘greed’ to object to what are huge effective tax rates on my income.

Ok so those with a income of 19999 and still taking free childcare are just beyond greedy stupid of government to allow this .

Leapintothelightning · 15/08/2025 12:40

Imagine having a salary of over £100k and crying that you don’t get free hours of nursery for an under 3. Some of us earn pittance and/or live in a place where there is no under 3 funding. How do you think people in Scotland manage to fund nursery for their under 3s? They just do it.

Bluevelvetsofa · 15/08/2025 12:40

Surely a nanny or au pair would be more effective financially. Would it be tax deductible?

Having never had child care, except for what I did for my grandchildren, I don’t know the ins and outs. I can see that a sliding scale cut off could be a fairer system.

Fetaface · 15/08/2025 12:40

How does it just impact on you? Surely it is both parent's responsibility to pay the childcare. It is a shared cost so maybe get your child's father to stump up the extra you are unhappy about.

It isn't your payment alone to make.

Glide · 15/08/2025 12:41

@ChildcareCost I agree with you that the system is messed up and you are not being unreasonable. Unfortunately the UK tax system doesn't reward work. At 160k, you contribute a whole lot more to the tax pot to enable subsidies for lower earners as a good portion of your income is taxed at 45%. So you should be able to get something out too for childcare when you need it rather than nothing at all. It's people like you that have made it possible for others too. Higher income earners are leaving to other countries that incentivise wealth building. I fear for the future of this country. It's a shame that most people don't see it that way but majority thinking isn't always right thinking.

OneNewLeader · 15/08/2025 12:42

Many, many years ago there was no funded childcare, I went part time, so I could have time with my children, but pretty much all the rest of my income went into childcare. I wasn’t a high earner.

I’m really glad there is support now.

I can understand that you as a high tax payer are getting no tangible benefit from that. But them’s the breaks, and you can only pay £60k max into your salary as pension, so you’re above £100k. You could dip a few hours a week, max out your pension contribution and probably do it?

JuneauBound · 15/08/2025 12:42

I agree it doesn’t seem like a smart policy and ultimately seems likely to have a negative impact on the careers of women who will choose to go part time to retain the benefit, and will reduce the overall tax revenue from a significant tax bracket. It intended (I think) to help women, but I think it’ll harm them instead, and especially impacts single working mothers of young children.
I would be really interested to see the government’s calculations on this, because surely raising the threshold and getting rid of the cliff edge would result in better outcomes both for tax revenue and women’s workforce participation?

i think it’s pretty unfair to go after the OP for daring to point out an unfair policy even if she has the privilege of doing well in her career. No one seems to go after people who benefit from family help, but that privilege is immense. The ability for grandparents to provide childcare, to step in due to nursery closure or absence, to help out around the house etc, means that some people have the equivalent of 10s of thousands of pounds in extra support. I never see tiny violins coming out for those fortunate folks (though maybe people attack them too and I just haven’t noticed!)

Bunnycat101 · 15/08/2025 12:42

Also the OP has been rather coy about what the child’s father is earning and overall household income.

cannynotsay · 15/08/2025 12:43

Omg are you aware of how delusional you’re coming across! You earn £160k! Are you a single parent or something, lots of kids? Pay for thou child care, you do not need free childcare hours!!!!!!!!!! I earn £12k a year and get it, because I’m limited atm. You do not need it. I repeat you do not need it… you’re in the 1% of earner in this bracket, I’m frustrated with your entitlement.

OhHellolittleone · 15/08/2025 12:43

Fedupmumofadultsons · 15/08/2025 12:31

You earn this wage and still you want to have tax payers funded hrs .if you want to progress in your male dominated career great
you don't need it you just want something that is designed for the lowest paid in society just pure GREED that's all GREED

It’s not greed. She already pays 45% tax! She’s not asking ‘tax payers’ to fund she’s asking for some of the tax she already bloody pays to benefit her too!!

The system is flawed. Martin Lewis argues it’s flawed.

lalaloopyhead · 15/08/2025 12:43

I think maybe the eligibility threshold is set too high if anything. It is difficult to feel sorry for someone earning 160K having to pay their own childcare.

I know its not a race to the bottom and all that but when my kids were at nursery there were not tax breaks and funding kicked in when they are 3.5 (I think) DD1 was July baby so only go a term before she went to school. I can't remember the hours either but it wasn't many. I think most of my income went on nursery fees but i knew that would be the situation when I decided to have kids/go back to work.

30 free hours for the majority of kids is brilliant, and surely pretty costly.

I know someone that runs a business and limits earnings to £199K (big pension payments etc) between him and his wife (shareholder, doesn't actually work in the business) to keep below the threshold - it makes me think he is a dick head to be honest.

TiredMummma · 15/08/2025 12:43

ByQuaintAzureWasp · 15/08/2025 12:18

She's already paying lots ... I'd put an additional £61k per annum in my pension ... be foolish not to as long as you can afford to do so.

Agreed but should not expect to have anything free. However, 3 years of £61k in pension could be fantastic as you’ll reap the benefits - and you’d still have a monthly income of £5k after tax!

OhHellolittleone · 15/08/2025 12:44

cannynotsay · 15/08/2025 12:43

Omg are you aware of how delusional you’re coming across! You earn £160k! Are you a single parent or something, lots of kids? Pay for thou child care, you do not need free childcare hours!!!!!!!!!! I earn £12k a year and get it, because I’m limited atm. You do not need it. I repeat you do not need it… you’re in the 1% of earner in this bracket, I’m frustrated with your entitlement.

Except of that £160k she’s paying HUGE amounts of tax already! And probably works bloody hard.

Boohoo76 · 15/08/2025 12:45

Fetaface · 15/08/2025 12:40

How does it just impact on you? Surely it is both parent's responsibility to pay the childcare. It is a shared cost so maybe get your child's father to stump up the extra you are unhappy about.

It isn't your payment alone to make.

For most single mums it is their payment alone. The small amount of maintenance they get from the DC’s father does not cover half of the childcare fees. My colleagues are paying between £2500 to £3k per month in nursery fees for one child.

Dadpp · 15/08/2025 12:45

PersephoneSmith · 15/08/2025 10:54

You earn over £160k you pay for your own child care.
cheeky fucker

@PersephoneSmith she’s actually being forced to pay for everyone else’s childcare, too! Is that fair?

Namechangerage · 15/08/2025 12:45

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 12:37

Designed to redistribute money from someone earning £100k to someone earning £99k? To the tune of £14,6000 net income? Why?

That doesn’t make any sense.

I’d also argue that no, the function of the state has a remit beyond wealth redistribution - we provide many universal services and there is no particular logic as to why this is excluded.

And of course - the impact of this policy is that incentivises those earning over the threshold to work less, pay into pensions and so reduce their tax bill to claim the support… which doesn’t make a great deal of sense from a productivity or tax raising standpoint.

How can you have a job earning 160k yet not understand that there has to be a cutoff? Surely you’re clever? And not seem to understand that society very much needs road sweepers, nurses, teachers and that yes they do need subsidised childcare to be able to work. Someone on over 100k, not so much.

To be honest though, I am surprised it’s 100k. And I agree totally that there should be a household cut off. not per individual.

OhHellolittleone · 15/08/2025 12:45

OP You won’t get any support on mn. The ‘I earn 25p an hour and am grateful for it’ brigade will tell you that you deserve nothing. Not a single penny of the tax that you pay to benefit you. Well the system is flawed and you’re losing out. It’s rubbish. Sorry!

Zov · 15/08/2025 12:46

PersephoneSmith · 15/08/2025 10:54

You earn over £160k you pay for your own child care.
cheeky fucker

This in spades. ^

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