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Loss of 30 free hours will cost me £37,000 of pre-tax income

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ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 09:59

9 month olds are eligible for 30 free hours from September. If you earn over the threshold, you do not get this 30 free hours plus the £2,000 of tax-free childcare.

My nursery typically charges £2,150 a month for an under-3. This works out at c. £10 an hour assuming a 50 hour week (open 8-6).

They have circulated the free hours schedule this week, and the monthly cost with 30 free hours is £1,100 hours for an under-3 (noting funded hours only cover 38 weeks).

This means the loss of the 30 free hours will cost me £12,600 a year. Plus of course the loss of tax-free childcare at £2,000.

So, I need to earn an extra £14,600 net just to cover the cost of not being eligible for this scheme.

To earn that £14,600 over £100,000 – I need to earn a gross figure of £137,000.

Surely this is not fair on the parents excluded from the scheme? It doesn't seem proportional that I need to earn an extra £37,000 just to recoup the loss as a result of not being eligible!

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Inyournewdress · 15/08/2025 12:31

Cantspeakwontspeak · 15/08/2025 12:21

What does this even mean. Do you realise in the US average maternity leave is 6 weeks. Are women just not meant to work??

I am not saying there is a realistic solution, but clearly 6 weeks maternity leave is ridiculous. I am just saying it’s sad that society has ended up in a place where so many people either don’t or literally can’t prioritise the best care for their child. There are many around me who frankly don’t need to return to work so soon, and many who have no real choice. It doesn’t have to be the mother who stays home of course.

I guess cost of living crisis, housing prices soaring while salaries don’t…it is so much harder now to get by on one salary. Not enough flexibility provided for taking time out, and many people unfairly disadvantaged on returning to the workplace after time out. Sometimes it seems policy makers just shrug their shoulders at these issues and ratchet up the childcare hours and funding. It’s important to tackle it in a more balanced way I think.

Fedupmumofadultsons · 15/08/2025 12:31

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 10:49

I earn over £160,000 so can’t salary sacrifice to get under the threshold. I could go part time and salary sacrifice to get there - but as a woman in a male dominated industry where I want to progress, that’s not optimal.

But - even if I were able to, if I salary sacrificed from £137,000 to £99,000 - the government would lose over £20,000 in tax revenue.

Plus have to pay the extra £14,600 towards my childcare.

So they are vastly worse off than if I am able to claim it surely?

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You earn this wage and still you want to have tax payers funded hrs .if you want to progress in your male dominated career great
you don't need it you just want something that is designed for the lowest paid in society just pure GREED that's all GREED

Ginmonkeyagain · 15/08/2025 12:31

Look at it this way - we all pay tax - sometimes we get stuff back and sometimes we don't. I am a fairly high earner (nowhere near as as high as you though) and pay higher rate tax. I have no children however so I am paying for all sorts of people's free childcare - including some who earn more than me.

It's just part of being society.

DodoTired · 15/08/2025 12:32

RimTimTagiDim · 15/08/2025 12:28

Entitlement to me is expecting freebies you don't need.

The point is that she needs them

to me entitlement is to expect something you don’t deserve or haven’t earned so we have a different understanding

cattykinns · 15/08/2025 12:32

DodoTired · 15/08/2025 12:28

It’s great you work for the NHS but you do realise that NHS is only possible because people from PRIVATE industries like OP are paying a lot of taxes?

she’s pretty much paying your salary (and at least one more)
that’s the reality

I know you’re clearly a troll but I’ll bit anyway. Are you always this patronising?

I couldn’t give a shiny shite if you or the OP think you’re ‘paying my wages’. What a stupidly ignorant thing for you to say.

Boohoo76 · 15/08/2025 12:32

Cinaferna · 15/08/2025 12:29

OP, you earn £160k. Pay for your own childcare - obviously splitting the cost with DC's father.

Free childcare is for people who need to earn money in order to pay for the basics, but their salary would be swallowed whole by childcare costs.

But it’s not in other countries. For example, my German colleagues are paying about 250 euros per month. Why do you think that it’s acceptable that UK childcare is some of the most expensive in the World?

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 12:32

Cinaferna · 15/08/2025 12:29

OP, you earn £160k. Pay for your own childcare - obviously splitting the cost with DC's father.

Free childcare is for people who need to earn money in order to pay for the basics, but their salary would be swallowed whole by childcare costs.

Well - it isn’t though is it, as the threshold is £100k individual income, and households earning up to £198k can claim it.

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StatisticallyChallenged · 15/08/2025 12:32

Cinaferna · 15/08/2025 12:29

OP, you earn £160k. Pay for your own childcare - obviously splitting the cost with DC's father.

Free childcare is for people who need to earn money in order to pay for the basics, but their salary would be swallowed whole by childcare costs.

Except it's not just for those whose salary would be swallpwed whole, because the threshold is as much as £199,999 for a dual earning, equally split salary household.

It's a poorly designed system - the fact that op earns very well doesn't change the fact that it is a very stupid way to do it.

numbfromlife · 15/08/2025 12:33

LizzyEm · 15/08/2025 12:27

Why do you think on that salary, the taxpayer should pay childcare for you? Childcare for a child you chose to have?

That applies to everyone though. They chose to have children, they should pay for their nursery fees. No matter what the income, unless it's an early intervention kind of situation.

FortheloveofCheesus · 15/08/2025 12:33

Ok im a high earner too and not eligible

Honestly? Shut up.

You earn over £160k p.a. working is already worth your while even after the cost of childcare.

Tax is not "fair". It is redistributive. Duh.

It is designed to even out the financial impact to those people whom we need to work and drive our economy, but capitalise does not reward enough for them to pay childcare.

You are incredibly self centred if you can't see this.

Fletchasketch · 15/08/2025 12:33

Whilst I have limited sympathy for someone earning 160k having to pay for childcare, she's right in that the current tax set-up is bonkers. Once you earn 100k, you start to pay a marginal rate of 62%, take into account the loss of childfree subsidies and it's more like 90%. Most of the higher earners I know are salary sacrificing huge amounts to avoid this cliff-edge, and who can blame them? If the 100k threshold had kept pace with inflation it would be up to 150k and there would be far fewer people trying to avoid going over it.

YetiRosetti · 15/08/2025 12:33

There’s 2 issues - one is whether or not it is unfair in OP and people in her position, but there is another issue which is the impact this has on society. Even if it is entirely fair to expect those on over £100k to pay full childcare (personally I support a taper on a combined household income), we have to step back from that and look at whether or not this policy helps society.

One example is the shortage of GP appointments when there are many GPs who work reduced hours to avoid going over the threshold. It doesn’t matter if it’s “fair” or not that they pay their way, the fact is it is not good for anyone to have them cut their hours. The Laffer curve is real and we need to engage with that instead of telling high earners to “read the room”.

We don’t want to get into cutting off our noses to spite our face whereby we are so keen to ensure high earners stop moaning and pay their way that we ignore there is an adverse impact to the rest of society of this, and that there might be a net benefit to us all of changing these cliff edge policies.

Avantiagain · 15/08/2025 12:33

Are you actually expecting people to sympathise with you?

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 12:34

Fedupmumofadultsons · 15/08/2025 12:31

You earn this wage and still you want to have tax payers funded hrs .if you want to progress in your male dominated career great
you don't need it you just want something that is designed for the lowest paid in society just pure GREED that's all GREED

It’s not designed for the lowest paid in society, individuals earning up to £100k can claim it, so households might earn up to £198k and still be eligible.

I don’t think it’s ‘greed’ to object to what are huge effective tax rates on my income.

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AlexisP90 · 15/08/2025 12:34

FortheloveofCheesus · 15/08/2025 12:33

Ok im a high earner too and not eligible

Honestly? Shut up.

You earn over £160k p.a. working is already worth your while even after the cost of childcare.

Tax is not "fair". It is redistributive. Duh.

It is designed to even out the financial impact to those people whom we need to work and drive our economy, but capitalise does not reward enough for them to pay childcare.

You are incredibly self centred if you can't see this.

Here here! Totally right

Mustbethat · 15/08/2025 12:34

Janie143 · 15/08/2025 12:22

Yes this definitely happened or they gave child card vouchers. Companies wanted to retain their workforce.

That’s a point, aren’t childcare vouchers a thing any more?

we used to be able to salary sacrifice, which reduced your salary to salary-childcare and saved a shit ton of tax, especially for higher rate payers…

so back of the envelope, if nursery costs 30k a year, you earn 160k. Salary sacrifice brings your taxable income down to 130k. 5k into pensions and you’re down a tax bracket and saving all that tax on everything over 125k- which will be over 15k saved in tax?

so in reality you could get a big chunk of that 37k back through such a scheme as a higher earner. A lower bracket tax payer would still be paying the childcare and wouldn’t benefit from the salary sacrifice to such an extent.

but that doesn’t give you so much to whinge about.

Inyournewdress · 15/08/2025 12:34

As often with these threads, people think it is easy to see who is a net contributor and a net recipient. It’s really not, it’s incredibly complex particularly when state intervention in the maintenance and rise of housing costs are taken into account.

DodoTired · 15/08/2025 12:35

cattykinns · 15/08/2025 12:32

I know you’re clearly a troll but I’ll bit anyway. Are you always this patronising?

I couldn’t give a shiny shite if you or the OP think you’re ‘paying my wages’. What a stupidly ignorant thing for you to say.

Well you were patronising towards the OP no?

Public services like NHS are only possible because people outside public services pay their taxes.
period
Strange to be so hateful towards people who pay taxes

CriticalOverthinking · 15/08/2025 12:35

But it’s not costing you £37k at all, that’s some mental gymnastics.
you are not eligible for funded hours valued at £14,600. The same way you aren’t eligible for child benefit. It’s not a personal cost to you at all and that £37k is useless anyway because you’ve already said you earn well above £100k.

AlexisP90 · 15/08/2025 12:35

Mustbethat · 15/08/2025 12:34

That’s a point, aren’t childcare vouchers a thing any more?

we used to be able to salary sacrifice, which reduced your salary to salary-childcare and saved a shit ton of tax, especially for higher rate payers…

so back of the envelope, if nursery costs 30k a year, you earn 160k. Salary sacrifice brings your taxable income down to 130k. 5k into pensions and you’re down a tax bracket and saving all that tax on everything over 125k- which will be over 15k saved in tax?

so in reality you could get a big chunk of that 37k back through such a scheme as a higher earner. A lower bracket tax payer would still be paying the childcare and wouldn’t benefit from the salary sacrifice to such an extent.

but that doesn’t give you so much to whinge about.

They were replaced by the tax free childcare scheme i believe

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 15/08/2025 12:36

Backforawhile · 15/08/2025 10:58

I am on the threshold and pay more into my pension to take me under.

For those saying you don’t need childcare help on this salary - this does my head in. I am the main earner in our house. DH’s job doesn’t pay well but is an important role in society and he enjoys it. We live in an expensive part of the country and have no family help with childcare. DDs nursery bill for 4 days is over £2k a month. With mortgage on our perfectly normal small terraced house, and the usual bills, and upkeep of two old cars we are not rolling around in banknotes like Scrooge McDuck jetting off on fancy holidays and getting Deliveroo every night. Yes we are incredibly fortunate and I am not complaining/taking it for granted/feeling hard done by but it wasn’t always like this, and I worked hard to get where I am in my career.

Yes we could move to a cheaper part of the country. But with both of us having been through two life-threatening illnesses and needing to rely heavily on friends and neighbours, I’m not in a rush to move somewhere where we don’t know anyone and start from scratch.

I await flaming.

No flaming, but in 90%+ of households where it is the other way around, the female partner would be a SAHP.

Interesting.

OhHellolittleone · 15/08/2025 12:36

YourSnugGreyPanda · 15/08/2025 10:47

YABVU. If you earn over £100000 you do not require the tax payers’ support for childcare. To suggest so shows you are out of touch with the average working person and extremely greedy. The funded childcare hours are there to support those who couldn’t afford to work otherwise.

You’re entirely out of touch with how unfair the rules are. A 2 person household could earn 99k each and still get the benefit. Why should OP have to pay into her pension?

Also, I am a teacher and my husband earns over 100k. It is financially prudent for me to leave teaching… how can this work well for the government?!

Boohoo76 · 15/08/2025 12:37

Mustbethat · 15/08/2025 12:34

That’s a point, aren’t childcare vouchers a thing any more?

we used to be able to salary sacrifice, which reduced your salary to salary-childcare and saved a shit ton of tax, especially for higher rate payers…

so back of the envelope, if nursery costs 30k a year, you earn 160k. Salary sacrifice brings your taxable income down to 130k. 5k into pensions and you’re down a tax bracket and saving all that tax on everything over 125k- which will be over 15k saved in tax?

so in reality you could get a big chunk of that 37k back through such a scheme as a higher earner. A lower bracket tax payer would still be paying the childcare and wouldn’t benefit from the salary sacrifice to such an extent.

but that doesn’t give you so much to whinge about.

No childcare vouchers aren’t a thing any more. It’s been replaced by tax free childcare. The vouchers were available to all taxpayers. Tax free childcare is only available to those who earn less than £100k.

FortheloveofCheesus · 15/08/2025 12:37

That applies to everyone though. They chose to have children, they should pay for their nursery fees.

Aah but you are not thinking this through

If the government do not subsidise childcare, people simply can't afford to work. Wages would get pushed up as employers had to compete more to fill jobs (as happened increasingly in 2022-2024).
The government want our economy to be competitive, they do not want wages pushed up any more.

ChildcareCost · 15/08/2025 12:37

FortheloveofCheesus · 15/08/2025 12:33

Ok im a high earner too and not eligible

Honestly? Shut up.

You earn over £160k p.a. working is already worth your while even after the cost of childcare.

Tax is not "fair". It is redistributive. Duh.

It is designed to even out the financial impact to those people whom we need to work and drive our economy, but capitalise does not reward enough for them to pay childcare.

You are incredibly self centred if you can't see this.

Designed to redistribute money from someone earning £100k to someone earning £99k? To the tune of £14,6000 net income? Why?

That doesn’t make any sense.

I’d also argue that no, the function of the state has a remit beyond wealth redistribution - we provide many universal services and there is no particular logic as to why this is excluded.

And of course - the impact of this policy is that incentivises those earning over the threshold to work less, pay into pensions and so reduce their tax bill to claim the support… which doesn’t make a great deal of sense from a productivity or tax raising standpoint.

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