Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Uk is in big trouble - what do you think will happen?

1000 replies

hippysun · 13/08/2025 10:03

Thames water on brink of collapse. All those CEOs getting fat bonuses. Water shortages and rising bills.

the cost of living is off the chart. Every bill has gone up. Pop in to Tesco for toothpaste, butter and chicken and it costs an insane amount for just a few items.

the government are crap and taxing the hell out of us.

my salary is stuck. I feel constantly poor now. 10 years ago when I earned significantly less, I felt ok money wise. Chatted today to a colleague about science graduate son who is stuck doing a minimum wage job as there are no jobs here. I’ve noticed this myself in my town. The council have a few, other companies outsourced to India years ago, the pharma company moved out years ago and the land will soon be a new housing estate.

the nhs is a total mess.

housing costs make me want to weep! No chance of moving. Feel bad for my kids. They just keep building expensive houses here all packed into poorly designed estates. Tiny gardens. But no infrastructure. The promised schools get cancelled and drs surgeries and hospitals are rammed with patients. My mortgage of course is up.

in my industry… everyone is obsessed with AI and I’m sad to say it has taken some jobs already. There is a huge push towards AI.

there seems to be underlying tension here re migrants. People getting increasingly annoyed.

this country feels like a right mess. Making rich people richer and poor people even poorer. The middle earners are getting squeezed. I hate it.

i don’t remember it being this bad ever before.

why is it so terrible? And what do you think will happen?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
12
PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 22:55

Forgot to link to poster I was replying to!

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 22:56

areyouthepredator · 13/08/2025 22:42

Link the threads then.

Edited

Tell me the towns that are no go areas and I will provide evidence.

Caveat being that I will need to run it by MNHQ first as they may see it as a TAAT or as singling out posters. Both of which could earn me a suspension.

MrsSkylerWhite · 13/08/2025 22:56

twistyizzy · 13/08/2025 22:07

Same here. This is what you get when you have a different opinion to people like this

People like this? Please expand.

Whammyyammy · 13/08/2025 23:00

3 more years of it to get a lot lot worse..

WatermelonGatorJerky · 13/08/2025 23:05

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 22:31

Who is "they"?

Labour

JustSawJohnny · 13/08/2025 23:08

Been the case for years now but let me guess - Starmer's fault?

TheNuthatch · 13/08/2025 23:08

MiloMinderbinder925 · 13/08/2025 22:54

I had you down as a Telegraph reader. That will teach me to pigeon hole.

It will. Every day's a school day.

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 23:10

WatermelonGatorJerky · 13/08/2025 23:05

Labour

You think Labour is going to be in power for the next couple of decades or so? Which is the timescale pp was talking about.

nearlylovemyusername · 13/08/2025 23:11

Am I the only one who believes that OP is a clever Reform stirrer?

Blinky21 · 13/08/2025 23:19

Rise of the far right is the scariest thing i think, racism and xenophobic sentiment is being normalised, it genuinely scares me

WatermelonGatorJerky · 13/08/2025 23:19

PandoraSocks · 13/08/2025 23:10

You think Labour is going to be in power for the next couple of decades or so? Which is the timescale pp was talking about.

I think they are going to do an awful lot of damage, that won’t be easily rectified.

echt · 13/08/2025 23:26

nearlylovemyusername · 13/08/2025 23:11

Am I the only one who believes that OP is a clever Reform stirrer?

They're a Reform stirrer but not clever.

TempestTost · 13/08/2025 23:33

Lincslady53 · 13/08/2025 11:33

I started my first l job in 1972, management trainee with Sainsburys. From the start, we were plagued by strikes. First at the bacon supplier, so my first job was learning to bone and joint a side of bacon. Inflation started to hit, and we got a pay rise every month, but this was immediately eaten up by price rises. The nationalised train network was unreliable and expensive. The roads in London were filthy, people smoked everywhere, so getting on a bus was walking into a smoke filled cancer wagon. Restaurants were v expensive, pub food was pickled eggs and crisps, new rules on landlords led to a shortage of rental properties, and high rents. We found a 3 bed flat, but needed 7 people to live in it to afford the rent. Shortages of sugar, paper products, oil and salt. Bomb threats a regular occupancy, fortunately most were hoaxs, but still caused loads of disruption. Surplus money was in short supply and pubs were expensive, so we would make half a pint of piss poor beer last as long as we could. Despite all this, we were young and had a great time. We need the situation with Russia and Israel to sort themselves out, and perhaps that stability will lead to growth. At the moment our national debt is increasing by over £5,000 per second so the gov need to get to grips with the economy, unfortunately, I can't see this gov doing that, so God knows where we will end up.

When my mother was a very young nurse, she and her friends rented because there was no room in the nurses residence. They all shared not only rooms, but beds - they switched off depending on who was on night or day shifts.

I really think younger people now have no sense of how differernt the consumer culture was as well.

In a way, I think that element really should be scaled back, it would be better for people, the environment, and everything. Holidays in domestic spots, simpler beauty routines, fewer (far fewer!) cars, keeping clothes longer and repairing, making our own food instead of eating out, collcting local food and having a garden, and young people having kids jobs. Even some of the household luxuries people expect now like a/c - they are costly, environmentally destructive, and in many cases facilitate unhealthy lifestyles.

Rolling back some of those things wouldn't solve the issue, but I don't think it's something to be afraid of. There is nothing wrong with having only a few, or no, airplane trips in a lifetime.

hippysun · 14/08/2025 00:09

Wow this has exploded! I’m not reform by the way. I voted Tory at the last election and I’m undecided for the next. If I had to vote today, I’d really struggle to pick.

OP posts:
MrsSkylerWhite · 14/08/2025 00:26

nearlylovemyusername · 13/08/2025 23:11

Am I the only one who believes that OP is a clever Reform stirrer?

Careful now. They’ll report you because they don’t like what you’re saying.

Anyway. Clever: Reform? 🤣 No.

MrsSkylerWhite · 14/08/2025 00:26

hippysun · 14/08/2025 00:09

Wow this has exploded! I’m not reform by the way. I voted Tory at the last election and I’m undecided for the next. If I had to vote today, I’d really struggle to pick.

Sure.

MrsSkylerWhite · 14/08/2025 00:28

WatermelonGatorJerky · 13/08/2025 23:19

I think they are going to do an awful lot of damage, that won’t be easily rectified.

As opposed to Johnson and Truss? Ha! 🤣

MrsSkylerWhite · 14/08/2025 00:42

Whammyyammy · 13/08/2025 23:00

3 more years of it to get a lot lot worse..

So you agree it will get better in the fifth? Good-oh.
(Seriously, if you’re going to interject on forums discussing UK politics, read the briefing properly first.)

WatermelonGatorJerky · 14/08/2025 00:43

MrsSkylerWhite · 14/08/2025 00:28

As opposed to Johnson and Truss? Ha! 🤣

Well, they were useless I agree. In fact, I did think that things couldn’t get any worse.

And then we got Labour. And now I realise.

ShineLucy · 14/08/2025 00:45

BIossomtoes · 13/08/2025 10:12

i don’t remember it being this bad ever before.

You would if you were old enough to remember the 1970s. It’s cyclical, we’ve had four decades of prosperity, now we’re in the downturn part of the cycle again.

What?!!

Four decades of prosperity - we have had 15 years or more of credit crunch-austerity-cost of living crisis!

MrsSkylerWhite · 14/08/2025 00:51

MumOfManyAliases · 13/08/2025 21:49

I reported it because I felt it was a personal attack on the poster you were replying to.

Well done, you.

TempestTost · 14/08/2025 01:05

Cluborange666 · 13/08/2025 13:27

But how many are sick or disabled? I don’t want to go back to Victorian cruelty. We are a rich country.

This is the issue, as soon as someone brings up the fact that a huge proportion of people are not working, someone comes and says that of course these people can't work.

Other countries are much more strict about who can get benefits, including the socialist utopia Nordic countries.

The only way to offer good services, and support properly the people that truely need it, can work, is if society has a strong moral compulsion for people to work and contribute and do their part. ANd that requires a social consensus that not doing so is bad and that people who don't work when they could are looked at negatively.

It seems like a lot of progressive people in the UK and some other countries can't abide this approach, and want strong social benefits as well as being completely non-judgmental about anyone who says they can't.

That just can't work.

TempestTost · 14/08/2025 01:17

MrsSkylerWhite · 14/08/2025 00:26

Sure.

Why would you say that?

A lot of people feel that way. It's the main thing driving the desire for these newer parties, on the right or left.

MiloMinderbinder925 · 14/08/2025 01:32

TempestTost · 14/08/2025 01:05

This is the issue, as soon as someone brings up the fact that a huge proportion of people are not working, someone comes and says that of course these people can't work.

Other countries are much more strict about who can get benefits, including the socialist utopia Nordic countries.

The only way to offer good services, and support properly the people that truely need it, can work, is if society has a strong moral compulsion for people to work and contribute and do their part. ANd that requires a social consensus that not doing so is bad and that people who don't work when they could are looked at negatively.

It seems like a lot of progressive people in the UK and some other countries can't abide this approach, and want strong social benefits as well as being completely non-judgmental about anyone who says they can't.

That just can't work.

To get people back to work takes investment. We have millions on waiting lists for surgery, physiotherapy and dire mental health services. Young people are claiming benefits for mental health issues and older people for physical health.

People need help before crisis hits, therefore treatment should be more holistic. Increasing deprivation means we have an obesity crisis. Doctors are now seeing children who are both obese and suffering from malnutrition. Early intervention is crucial.

strawberrybubblegum · 14/08/2025 05:35

MiloMinderbinder925 · 14/08/2025 01:32

To get people back to work takes investment. We have millions on waiting lists for surgery, physiotherapy and dire mental health services. Young people are claiming benefits for mental health issues and older people for physical health.

People need help before crisis hits, therefore treatment should be more holistic. Increasing deprivation means we have an obesity crisis. Doctors are now seeing children who are both obese and suffering from malnutrition. Early intervention is crucial.

Some are. But many are just choosing not to work - or work less than they could -because they'd rather not and because our tax and benefit system actually incentivises them not to.

In Norway for example, they have a concept that what you get back from the state depends on what you've put in. If you are working then lose your job, you can get unemployment benefit of up to 62% of your previous income for up to 2 years - providing a true safety net for everyone.

They do also provide subsistence level help - the equivalent of our working age benefits - but read this to see how differently they talk about it with emphasis on how it should be temporary. Completely different to the UK, with our expectation and frankly encouragement of generational worklessness https://www.nav.no/okonomisk-sosialhjelp/en

State pension in Norway and many other EU countries also depends on how much you've contributed in tax over your lifetime. How on earth is it fair that everyone in the UK gets the same state pension/pension credit whether they've contributed £hundreds of thousands in tax over their lives or whether all they've done is take? And our direction of travel is to means-test even that?!

It is a cultural difference, regarding a sense of responsibility. But it's not just intrinsic - although that's real - it's that those values are part of the fabric of their tax and benefit system. In sensible countries, that's set up to encourage people to work and contribute and then support contributors properly when their life circumstances - either unemployment or having children - temporarily require it. It's fundamentally different to the value system of our Welfare state which makes a virtue of redistribution for it's own sake.

UK progressives have a compulsion to just give away other people's money without thought or judgement. They think that makes them good people. They're wrong. Our society is much worse for everyone as a result of that childish compulsion.

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.